(December 13, 2018, 12:03 am)doubleintegral Oh FFS.  This is almost as bad as the guy who propositioned pregnant women in public and then lost his temper with them when they turned him down.

LOOK BUT DON’T TOUCH.  It’s that simple.  The line between appropriate and inappropriate is not “razor thin”.  Do you know her?  If no, then assume it’s inappropriate.  If she’s obviously in labor, assume that it’s inappropriate.  Assume that offering a fucking massage is ALWAYS inappropriate, pregnant or not, unless you are REALLY, REALLY good friends with her.  “Just wanted to help her out”, LMFAO.

Honest advice here: if you truly cannot control your urges in public, it’s time to get as far away from this fetish as you can before you do something that you will seriously regret.

...Yeah, it doesn't get more clear than this.

And @Admin you can step in anytime now. Or rather you need to.

@preggoluvr4286 This fetish doesn't necessarily have a point (perhaps from an evolutionary perspective, but that's a separate discussion). It chose you. I understand this is frustrating, but the situation you described will cause social problems at best and criminal charges at worst.

I like big tits. I don't approach big breasted women and offer them breast massages.

At the end of the day, the message most of us have is clear: Enjoy the view and be considerate of others and their right to privacy + common sense.

(December 12, 2018, 12:05 am)preggoluvr4286 My question in response to not bothering people in public is this - how in the hell am I supposed to satisfy my urges?  I've done porn; I've done RP; and the only thing that seems to satisfy these urges, at least for me, is actually getting to touch someone's baby bump.  Since THAT is obviously out of the question, and having more kids isn't in my future, does this mean my fetish has to come to an end?  If so, what should I replace it with?

"More" kids?  I'm trying to understand how you've managed to father children in this century given your apparent attitude of entitlement towards an expecting woman's body.  Did your fetish end up scaring off your partner during pregnancy?  You don't have to answer if you don't want to.

@preggoluvr4286 What a positively infantile person you are. You're like a half step north of saying it's ok to sexually assault someone because they turn you on. You should probably see a therapist before this takes you down a road that lands you in prison.

(December 10, 2018, 10:40 pm)preggoluvr4286 I hope things will start to become better for those of us with the fetish in the future.  Like I said, though, something like a set of standards and practices - a "code of conduct ", if you will - should be established if we're going to be treated with respect like normal people are.

this is you.

(December 13, 2018, 5:41 pm)preggoluvr4286 I plan to give this place, as well as the pregnancy fetish in general, a worse reputation than it already has.  MUCH WORSE!!!!!!

This is also you.

Congrats, you are the problem with this fetish. Quit cold turkey and leave us alone already.

A problem definitely. THE problem? Eh...that's debatable.

(December 13, 2018, 5:41 pm)preggoluvr4286

(December 13, 2018, 5:35 pm)evokombat So you want to quote on quote abandon this "stupid and tortuous" fetish after being told to look but not touch? Fine, see ya. One less person to fuck up the already bad reputation that this place gets. We don't need anymore Mr. Sticky Fingers or Creeps who can't learn self-control around here anyways. Maybe one day you'll return after learning how to keep your hands to yourself, or mature up and want to father a child.

Yes.  I do.  If I can't touch, then what's the fucking point???  I don't have a fetish for anything else because of the "look but don't touch" boundaries in place.  Like breast implants.  If I can't touch them, what's the use of having a fetish for them?!

I plan to give this place, as well as the pregnancy fetish in general, a worse reputation than it already has.  MUCH WORSE!!!!!!

Get some help dude.  A fetish is no excuse to be a dick.

(December 15, 2018, 9:57 pm)orta03

(December 13, 2018, 5:41 pm)preggoluvr4286

(December 13, 2018, 5:35 pm)evokombat So you want to quote on quote abandon this "stupid and tortuous" fetish after being told to look but not touch? Fine, see ya. One less person to fuck up the already bad reputation that this place gets. We don't need anymore Mr. Sticky Fingers or Creeps who can't learn self-control around here anyways. Maybe one day you'll return after learning how to keep your hands to yourself, or mature up and want to father a child.

Yes.  I do.  If I can't touch, then what's the fucking point???  I don't have a fetish for anything else because of the "look but don't touch" boundaries in place.  Like breast implants.  If I can't touch them, what's the use of having a fetish for them?!

I plan to give this place, as well as the pregnancy fetish in general, a worse reputation than it already has.  MUCH WORSE!!!!!!

Get some help dude.  A fetish is no excuse to be a dick.

Agreed.  This fetish is absolutely no excuse for the way I acted in this thread.  I took a second look - and a third, fourth, and fifth - at the temper-tantrum I threw and @orta03 is absolutely right - I definitely need help coping with this fetish.  There's no argument with that one.  And I shouldn't have threatened the site or its users in any way.

That said, I would really like to apologize to y'all.  I am working on improving my anger management and impulse control skills; and I have to be honest and say that "look but don't touch" DEFINITELY helped.  Especially with one beautiful lady in her second or third trimester.  I walked away just as her SO walked towards her.  No questions about the pregnancy at all.  Just "How was your day?" and, "Have a great weekend" was all.

Eventually I would like to be able to enjoy this fetish without resorting to behavior like this; and, while indulging in this fetish is no longer possible, I am very thankful about the opportunities I've had in the past.

(December 17, 2018, 2:34 am)preggoluvr4286 Agreed.  This fetish is absolutely no excuse for the way I acted in this thread.  I took a second look - and a third, fourth, and fifth - at the temper-tantrum I threw and @orta03 is absolutely right - I definitely need help coping with this fetish.  There's no argument with that one.  And I shouldn't have threatened the site or its users in any way.

That said, I would really like to apologize to y'all.  I am working on improving my anger management and impulse control skills; and I have to be honest and say that "look but don't touch" DEFINITELY helped.  Especially with one beautiful lady in her second or third trimester.  I walked away just as her SO walked towards her.  No questions about the pregnancy at all.  Just "How was your day?" and, "Have a great weekend" was all.

Eventually I would like to be able to enjoy this fetish without resorting to behavior like this; and, while indulging in this fetish is no longer possible, I am very thankful about the opportunities I've had in the past.

Apology accepted. But this post sounded really familiar, and then I realized that you're the guy I was talking about, the guy who's had the cops called on him in the past. https://preggophilia.com/approaching-a-p...n-public-t

I don't mean to revisit skeletons in closets, but you've got a proven track record with this and it's not good. Please understand that I'm being completely serious and not at all mean-spirited when I say this: you need more than just anger management, and if history repeats itself then taking another step back from the fetish or trying to quit it altogether won't be strong enough measures to take. I hope you get the help you need.

BTW, I said "look but don't touch" in the other thread too.