Our fetish isn't one that's easily satisfiable, that's for sure. We all want to feel pregnant bellies but we can AND should only do so when it's accepted to do so. Until then, make the best of "look, but not touch". To me, it seems that you need to work on your self-control.

Self-control - and actually getting to know a pregnant woman - is nice, but it's definitely NOT a substitute for being at the right place at the right time.

Our fetish is not very easy to satisfy; our craving for tacos and pizza, that's something else entirely.  Assertiveness - or the whole process of staying out of other people's business, especially in Monday's situation - would have definitely helped in so many ways.  It's one thing to be protective of the pregnant woman and the unborn child.  To actually deny the urges that our fetish has cursed us with, well, that's another thing.

I am happy to say that my girlfriend and I have found a work-around, and - while it isn't the same as being in labor, or actually being pregnant for that matter - ought to help me have some semblance of satisfaction to a fetish which might have otherwise been impossible to satisfy.

I'm afraid y'all's suggestions are inconclusive.

(December 12, 2018, 9:33 am)preggoluvr4286 Self-control - and actually getting to know a pregnant woman - is nice, but it's definitely NOT a substitute for being at the right place at the right time.

Our fetish is not very easy to satisfy; our craving for tacos and pizza, that's something else entirely.  Assertiveness - or the whole process of staying out of other people's business, especially in Monday's situation - would have definitely helped in so many ways.  It's one thing to be protective of the pregnant woman and the unborn child.  To actually deny the urges that our fetish has cursed us with, well, that's another thing.

I am happy to say that my girlfriend and I have found a work-around, and - while it isn't the same as being in labor, or actually being pregnant for that matter - ought to help me have some semblance of satisfaction to a fetish which might have otherwise been impossible to satisfy.

I'm afraid y'all's suggestions are inconclusive.

Oh please, quit with this "our fetish has cursed us" crap. Do we all this fetish? Yes. Do all of us have the same amount of cravings and urges? No. Your case isn't the same as anyone else's. Some people can be satisfy with porn or role-play, while others need something more. But don't act like everyone here is in the same boat as you or is downplaying their urges.

there is no self control when IT rises hint hint a Erection at wrong time and its embarrassing

(December 12, 2018, 11:05 am)Milkjetstream Oh please, quit with this "our fetish has cursed us" crap. Do we all this fetish? Yes. Do all of us have the same amount of cravings and urges? No. Your case isn't the same as anyone else's. Some people can be satisfy with porn or role-play, while others need something more. But don't act like everyone here is in the same boat as you or is downplaying their urges.

Winner, Winner chicken dinner!

The problem with the so-called "Pregnancy Community" is they have the same problem as online video game fan sites: They want to speak for "everyone".  See, the problem is like video game fan sites, too many folks around here want people to do things their way and fuck other ideas or viewpoints. 

...Well fuck that.


IDGAF that folks consider Preggophilia a Porn Site (eh...that's debatable actually). Goes without saying I agree with everything you said on that note.

(December 12, 2018, 11:06 am)humpbumps there is no self control when IT rises hint hint a Erection  at wrong time  and  its embarrassing

...Correct.

And I have heard of folks from time to time who ended up needing surgery or medication because they didn't learn to control that shit. You get a boner in public without thinking anything arousing, that's a fucking problem at the end of the day. A big one. More so if you wear clothes that are tight around the groin and/or work with the public. People see that, they wanna know WTF you're thinking to be arroused. And there is no way you can't possibly feel it yourself.

I agree, we're just offering our advice from our prespectives. It just seems to me that you want to hear what you want to hear. We at this forum can only do so much.

...Prettymuch, and several folks have called him on it to boot. I would like to hear @Admin 's opinion on this next.

Oh FFS. This is almost as bad as the guy who propositioned pregnant women in public and then lost his temper with them when they turned him down.

LOOK BUT DON’T TOUCH. It’s that simple. The line between appropriate and inappropriate is not “razor thin”. Do you know her? If no, then assume it’s inappropriate. If she’s obviously in labor, assume that it’s inappropriate. Assume that offering a fucking massage is ALWAYS inappropriate, pregnant or not, unless you are REALLY, REALLY good friends with her. “Just wanted to help her out”, LMFAO.

Honest advice here: if you truly cannot control your urges in public, it’s time to get as far away from this fetish as you can before you do something that you will seriously regret.

I am inclined to agree with the others a firm "look but don't touch", me I work in a furniture store so I am around pregnant women all day every day. I deal with them in respect and courtesy, if they need help getting product or answering questions that they may have about the items they need to buy or find.

Here's how I see this fetish - "Look but don't touch" defeats the purpose of having the fetish in the first place; and, if touching a pregnant woman's stomach is going to be "inappropriate" for whatever reason, then WHY have the fetish in the first place?

@Admin , please feel free to delete my account at once. I am completely done with a fetish which I feel a lack of support towards having, a fetish that isn't worth having in the first place. Fetishes are for enjoying, not for torturing.