(December 10, 2018, 10:19 pm)ILikePregnancy If a random person came up to you and asked you if you wanted a massage, you probably would be in the minority if you said yes.

Also, there's a difference between asking if someone needs assistance is very different than asking if someone wants a massage.

Being pregnant doesn't mean that any normal boundaries have been relaxed, they're generally stronger than normal.

@ILikePregnancy You are ABSOLUTELY right.  Unless some majorly hot chick came up at random and asked if I wanted one, my answer would automatically be a HELL NO!!!

Perhaps that's what makes our fetish creepier than it has to be.  When you have a combination of strong boundaries, sexual urges and a lack of restraint because those urges are so strong, you end up with issues like the one I encountered - and, the results are not pretty.

I hope things will start to become better for those of us with the fetish in the future.  Like I said, though, something like a set of standards and practices - a "code of conduct ", if you will - should be established if we're going to be treated with respect like normal people are.

I think some of you guys are a little too overprotective when comes to pregnant women.  Pregnant women are pretty appreciative of genuine offers of assistance.  It all depends on the circumstance.

(December 10, 2018, 10:46 pm)orta03 I think some of you guys are a little too overprotective when comes to pregnant women.  Pregnant women are pretty appreciative of genuine offers of assistance.  It all depends on the circumstance.

@orta03 Gets it!  I wish more men would.

(December 10, 2018, 10:46 pm)orta03 I think some of you guys are a little too overprotective when comes to pregnant women.  Pregnant women are pretty appreciative of genuine offers of assistance.  It all depends on the circumstance.

@orta03 Such as going up to a random woman in labor and asking to massage her? Would you offer the same to a non pregnant woman in pain?


As for the question, No I'm not going to do anything since I don't know her and she didn't ask for my help. You know nothing about her, and since she ended up going to the hospital afterwards, it seems like she knew what she was doing and didn't need help. It's not like she was stranded on the side of the road and needed a hero asap. 

And let's be honest here, if she really needed anything, she'd go to the receptionist or doctor that's across the room before letting a stranger touch her.

@preggoluvr4286 So you tried to be a good samaritan and offer a pregnant woman a message (while low-key trying to satisfy your urges) and not only were you shot down, but it happened in front of your own mother who ended up scolding you over it.

While you wanted to help her (while having some questionable intentions) it was a bad place/bad time situation, and I doubt a massage would've done anything for the pain. Just be glad that the woman was at the doctor's office where she got the right care that she needed instead of being alone.

Regarding this, you just have to have some common sense and respect; Nothing more to it. It's not your job to give a pregnant woman (who's in pain) a massage. She's also at a hospital for a very good reason and I do not think she wants a stranger to out of the blue start to comfort her. As a last note, the scenario sounds very sketchy and I'm left in doubt after reading the post.

I think that a good code of conduct is to not bother people in public.

To make our fetish more respected, just stop taking candids and pictures from mom groups, simple as that. People don't want to find their pictures on a fetish board, nor do they want creepy comments left on their pictures on instagram or twitter. As long as these things keep happening, we'll still be considered creeps.

(TIL telling someone not to bother people in public makes me overprotective of pregnant women.)

(December 11, 2018, 11:13 pm)ILikePregnancy I think that a good code of conduct is to not bother people in public.

To make our fetish more respected, just stop taking candids and pictures from mom groups, simple as that. People don't want to find their pictures on a fetish board, nor do they want creepy comments left on their pictures on instagram or twitter. As long as these things keep happening, we'll still be considered creeps.

(TIL telling someone not to bother people in public makes me overprotective of pregnant women.)

My question in response to not bothering people in public is this - how in the hell am I supposed to satisfy my urges?  I've done porn; I've done RP; and the only thing that seems to satisfy these urges, at least for me, is actually getting to touch someone's baby bump.  Since THAT is obviously out of the question, and having more kids isn't in my future, does this mean my fetish has to come to an end?  If so, what should I replace it with?

(December 12, 2018, 12:05 am)preggoluvr4286

(December 11, 2018, 11:13 pm)ILikePregnancy I think that a good code of conduct is to not bother people in public.

To make our fetish more respected, just stop taking candids and pictures from mom groups, simple as that. People don't want to find their pictures on a fetish board, nor do they want creepy comments left on their pictures on instagram or twitter. As long as these things keep happening, we'll still be considered creeps.

(TIL telling someone not to bother people in public makes me overprotective of pregnant women.)

My question in response to not bothering people in public is this - how in the hell am I supposed to satisfy my urges?  I've done porn; I've done RP; and the only thing that seems to satisfy these urges, at least for me, is actually getting to touch someone's baby bump.  Since THAT is obviously out of the question, and having more kids isn't in my future, does this mean my fetish has to come to an end?  If so, what should I replace it with?

I dunno, maybe try a very reasonable quantity of self-control...?

(December 12, 2018, 12:05 am)preggoluvr4286 My question in response to not bothering people in public is this - how in the hell am I supposed to satisfy my urges?  I've done porn; I've done RP; and the only thing that seems to satisfy these urges, at least for me, is actually getting to touch someone's baby bump.

By either having better self-control or actually getting to know a pregnant woman instead of popping out of nowhere.