(February 2, 2018, 1:52 am)preggoluvr4286 I'm NOT a gamer... ALTHOUGH you're right about it being a good outlet for stress and aggression. All I have is a PC and an iPad - no consoles. What do you recommend?

PC's better anyway!

(February 2, 2018, 1:52 am)Akhenaten Oh shit yeah, that's a good suggestion too. And there's a genre or two for everyone. If you want to bust some heads, get a violent FPS. Dishonored is pretty gruesome and murderous if you decide to play it that way. Or less violent, I dunno -- I hear Overwatch is good. If you want to play god on a small scale, get the Sims; medium scale, Cities: Skylines; large scale, Civilization. If you want to wage war, Starcraft was a great game. If you want to get utterly lost in a huge world, try the Mass Effect series (1, 2, and 3 -- don't get Andromeda).

The list goes on!

(February 2, 2018, 1:52 am)preggoluvr4286 I'm NOT a gamer... ALTHOUGH you're right about it being a good outlet for stress and aggression. All I have is a PC and an iPad - no consoles. What do you recommend?

What are the specs of your PC? You can also do some gaming on your ipad too. There a lot of fun free to play games on the app store like Subway Surfer, Temple Run 2, Real Racing 3 and many more. Just be careful not to spend any real money on those free to play apps.

Minecraft I can highly recommend, I prefer laid back gaming myself when I'm looking for something soothing.

I've been advised by a counselor to stop actively looking for pregnant women altogether. This is on top of an already bad week that somehow seems to keep on getting worse. I can honestly say that my optimism is at an all-time low; and, again, it's a miracle I haven't been arrested, kicked out of Walmart, or punched or kicked in the groin by the unborn child's father. At least, those are the exact words she told me.

Blogger and author Mark Manson said that the difference between fantasy and reality is that fantasy doesn't come with negative repercussions or consequences. Right now there are too many negative consequences going on to even consider staying in this lifestyle. And now I cannot orgasm without porn - which pisses me off badly.

I guess this is what I'm left with, after several years of pursuing the lifestyle.

(February 2, 2018, 5:29 pm)preggoluvr4286 I've been advised by a counselor to stop actively looking for pregnant women altogether. This is on top of an already bad week that somehow seems to keep on getting worse. I can honestly say that my optimism is at an all-time low; and, again, it's a miracle I haven't been arrested, kicked out of Walmart, or punched or kicked in the groin by the unborn child's father. At least, those are the exact words she told me.

Blogger and author Mark Manson said that the difference between fantasy and reality is that fantasy doesn't come with negative repercussions or consequences. Right now there are too many negative consequences going on to even consider staying in this lifestyle. And now I cannot orgasm without porn - which pisses me off badly.

I guess this is what I'm left with, after several years of pursuing the lifestyle.

I'd recommend getting off porn entirely then, it's tough as anything but I've had to do it myself in the past.

(February 2, 2018, 5:29 pm)preggoluvr4286 I've been advised by a counselor to stop actively looking for pregnant women altogether. This is on top of an already bad week that somehow seems to keep on getting worse. I can honestly say that my optimism is at an all-time low; and, again, it's a miracle I haven't been arrested, kicked out of Walmart, or punched or kicked in the groin by the unborn child's father. At least, those are the exact words she told me.

Blogger and author Mark Manson said that the difference between fantasy and reality is that fantasy doesn't come with negative repercussions or consequences. Right now there are too many negative consequences going on to even consider staying in this lifestyle. And now I cannot orgasm without porn - which pisses me off badly.

I guess this is what I'm left with, after several years of pursuing the lifestyle.

Which is why we've been advising you to focus on bettering yourself first. Get to a place where you are happy, content and confident with yourself, your life and at peace. Then and only then should you start engaging with women romantically. That last part is not necessarily a bad thing. As you know men are visual creatures. Without a visual stimulation, it's kind of hard to maintain arousal unless there is other stimuli involved like oral for example.

By the way, if you don't mind me asking. Are you having trouble just simply enjoying this fetish by yourself? Is the desire to engage with pregnant women in real life so strong that you do things in public that get you in trouble?

(February 2, 2018, 5:29 pm)preggoluvr4286 And now I cannot orgasm without porn - which pisses me off badly.

You realize that's both normal and OK, right? Having an orgasm without *some* kind of cue is difficult for most people, or at least most men. We tend to be very visual creatures. There's even been research on this. Don't blame yourself or your fetish (which is part of yourself).

But yeah, listen to your therapist... please stop obsessing over meeting pregnant women. You keep coming back to that like it's your only purpose in life. It's not!

(February 2, 2018, 7:19 pm)orta03 By the way, if you don't mind me asking. Are you having trouble just simply enjoying this fetish by yourself? Is the desire to engage with pregnant women in real life so strong that you do things in public that get you in trouble?

Yes and yes. That's the main issue. Then, as we were in ALDI about 20 minutes ago, there was this girl I wanted to approach. Whether or not she was pregnant, I'll never know - but, she DID have a huge belly. My sister - who herself is 5 months pregnant - advised against it, and said it would be better to wait for the right woman to come along, no matter how long it takes,

I'm pretty much screwed at this point.

(February 3, 2018, 4:01 am)Akhenaten

(February 2, 2018, 5:29 pm)preggoluvr4286 And now I cannot orgasm without porn - which pisses me off badly.

You realize that's both normal and OK, right? Having an orgasm without *some* kind of cue is difficult for most people, or at least most men. We tend to be very visual creatures. There's even been research on this. Don't blame yourself or your fetish (which is part of yourself).

But yeah, listen to your therapist... please stop obsessing over meeting pregnant women. You keep coming back to that like it's your only purpose in life. It's not!

Right now I'm in a really dark state of depression because of this. I hope I can find a way to get out of it, but I see myself with a woman who is done having kids or can't have any (more) kids for some odd reason. As I stated in another reply, the urge is so strong that I have to have a pregnant lady to enjoy the fetish with, since enjoying it by myself has become difficult. And that's what I'm having trouble trying to deal with.

(February 3, 2018, 6:22 pm)preggoluvr4286 Right now I'm in a really dark state of depression because of this. I hope I can find a way to get out of it, but I see myself with a woman who is done having kids or can't have any (more) kids for some odd reason. As I stated in another reply, the urge is so strong that I have to have a pregnant lady to enjoy the fetish with, since enjoying it by myself has become difficult. And that's what I'm having trouble trying to deal with.

Take it from me man, like I said, I've been in almost the exact same boat and I'm not completely out yet even. You need to build a better support network, I do think talking about things here is fine since we'll understand the fetish in ways others likely won't but you do need friends and family who can help and support you in ways you can't.

Think of it this way, the above is the best way to get as better as you can, when you're better, the likelihood of a future pregnant encounter will go up.