I will say that I haven't followed this particular thread but I figured I would answer.
Over the last few years, I've had spurts of self-hatred for having the fetish. I used to think I was gross for it. During this time of thought,I found myself to have a dark cascade of depression weighing me down on top of other matters. It's a thing of beauty though and that has helped me turn around the way I think of myself. Plus, I've made a really amazing friend over the last 2 years that has helped me understand a female perspective on it in a positive way.
Over the last few years, I've had spurts of self-hatred for having the fetish. I used to think I was gross for it. During this time of thought,I found myself to have a dark cascade of depression weighing me down on top of other matters. It's a thing of beauty though and that has helped me turn around the way I think of myself. Plus, I've made a really amazing friend over the last 2 years that has helped me understand a female perspective on it in a positive way.