(April 14, 2020, 1:52 pm)griddles14 I've had a problem with this in the past. I used to have a senior in school whom I respected and grew up with. When I was 15 and she was 25, she became pregnant and above all, unfortunately (for me) she had an incredibly sexy pregnant body and a nice outie. I hated myself for seeing her as something sexual as she was more like a mentor and a person I looked up to. I hated how dirty my eyes are and took me a long time to get over myself

 It is normal to be sexually attracted to women (who are not blood relatives.) Pregnant or not, she is a woman you are a man. I understand where you were coming from and the fact that you looked up to her made it a bit awkward desiring her sexually but trust me there was nothing dirty or wrong about the way you felt about her. I respect and look up to female cops but if I get pulled over and it is a female cop with a nice ass looking sharp in her uniform I'm not going to shame myself for getting a boner for her. Men have been sexually attracted to women since the beginning of time. This is perhaps the biggest reason why being sexually attracted to preggos is normal. After all, they are just women with big swollen bellies.

I actually think it's great that I find pregnant women attractive. Having a fetish is fun!

(April 15, 2020, 3:55 am)Akhenaten I actually think it's great that I find pregnant women attractive. Having a fetish is fun!

Well I am a very family oriented person and well if I ever get married I'd have no problem doing ANYTHING to please a hypothetical pregnant wife because of this....I only recently accepted it

Ahh yes, the typical "Since you have that on your mind, I have the justification to rain on your parade" situation. Tends to happen when someone gets caught of having a thing for something to someone who shouldn't have it known. It really sucks when that someone happened to be judgemental. Good thing that you've accepted that part of you. My family doesn't know that I'm into this sort of thing, but some of my friends are, which they're really cordial about it. 

(April 15, 2020, 8:59 pm)auraman9005 Ahh yes, the typical "Since you have that on your mind, I have the justification to rain on your parade" situation. Tends to happen when someone gets caught of having a thing for something to someone who shouldn't have it known. It really sucks when that someone happened to be judgemental. Good thing that you've accepted that part of you. My family doesn't know that I'm into this sort of thing, but some of my friends are, which they're really cordial about it. 

Yeah my friends are pretty good about it....Alot of my friends actually share the fetish hahahaha or at least agree pregnant girls are beautiful.....

I did tell my best friend about it recently.....and lets just say I have engaged in *ahem* fantasies involving her

(April 15, 2020, 9:08 pm)PhoenixEdgeworth1993

(April 15, 2020, 8:59 pm)auraman9005 Ahh yes, the typical "Since you have that on your mind, I have the justification to rain on your parade" situation. Tends to happen when someone gets caught of having a thing for something to someone who shouldn't have it known. It really sucks when that someone happened to be judgemental. Good thing that you've accepted that part of you. My family doesn't know that I'm into this sort of thing, but some of my friends are, which they're really cordial about it. 

Yeah my friends are pretty good about it....Alot of my friends actually share the fetish hahahaha or at least agree pregnant girls are beautiful.....

I did tell my best friend about it recently.....and lets just say I have engaged in *ahem* fantasies involving her

Very nice. I too have told some of my friends about it and we all had a good laugh. And being in a college course of Psychology, I did expect people who are accepting of many kinds of people, including those who have different kinds of tastes, most of it, that is. I have yet to meet someone who shares my thoughts about pregnant women. 

(April 15, 2020, 9:15 pm)auraman9005

(April 15, 2020, 9:08 pm)PhoenixEdgeworth1993

(April 15, 2020, 8:59 pm)auraman9005 Ahh yes, the typical "Since you have that on your mind, I have the justification to rain on your parade" situation. Tends to happen when someone gets caught of having a thing for something to someone who shouldn't have it known. It really sucks when that someone happened to be judgemental. Good thing that you've accepted that part of you. My family doesn't know that I'm into this sort of thing, but some of my friends are, which they're really cordial about it. 

Yeah my friends are pretty good about it....Alot of my friends actually share the fetish hahahaha or at least agree pregnant girls are beautiful.....

I did tell my best friend about it recently.....and lets just say I have engaged in *ahem* fantasies involving her

Very nice. I too have told some of my friends about it and we all had a good laugh. And being in a college course of Psychology, I did expect people who are accepting of many kinds of people, including those who have different kinds of tastes, most of it, that is. I have yet to meet someone who shares my thoughts about pregnant women.  

I suspect the fetish is much more prevalent than many have been led to believe....I remember in 10th grade biology that a womans body actually secretes pheromones to keep a man around during pregnancy because well, it's not exactly an easy process

What helps me is paced moderation. I’ve had three exes in the past find out about my fetish. All three weren’t very judgmental and let me explain myself. Then, one of them actually shared the fetish and would entertain the idea and concept of pregnancy frequently to set me off like she wanted lol. All in all, I’d just tell people you trust immensely and take you seriously. I look at attraction at a sociological, psychological, and evolutionary perspective. As mentioned by others, seems like one of the most natural attractions known to humanity because of the basic concepts.

No matter who you are lurker or poster on this forum, you have people you can confide in for sure. Interacting with others with similar mindsets definitely helped me build friendships. I’m indebted to to this community, for all the good out of some bad that it can have. It’s a great medium for crucial discussions just like these.

(April 15, 2020, 9:33 pm)Avarics What helps me is paced moderation. I’ve had three exes in the past find out about my fetish. All three weren’t very judgmental and let me explain myself. Then, one of them actually shared the fetish and would entertain the idea and concept of pregnancy frequently to set me off like she wanted lol. All in all, I’d just tell people you trust immensely and take you seriously. I look at attraction at a sociological, psychological, and evolutionary perspective. As mentioned by others, seems like one of the most natural attractions known to humanity because of the basic concepts.

No matter who you are lurker or poster on this forum, you have people you can confide in for sure. Interacting with others with similar mindsets definitely helped me build friendships. I’m indebted to to this community, for all the good out of some bad that it can have. It’s a great medium for crucial discussions just like these.

I've been a lurker for years and had several accounts I have deleted out of embarassment.....

I have also deleted several collections I have had....I regret THAT more than the fetish itself

(April 15, 2020, 9:44 pm)PhoenixEdgeworth1993 I've been a lurker for years and had several accounts I have deleted out of embarassment.....

I have also deleted several collections I have had....I regret THAT more than the fetish itself

I’ve been guilty of the latter for sure. However, now? I sort of admit that what I was doing was unsustainable. I remember when my desires were much more fiery and I thought about preggos a lot. Mostly when I was younger. But as I matured and felt more comfortable, I’ve become more sustainable for the long-run. I just treat it as something I shouldn’t be ashamed of anymore. Nobody I know has to know, and I can discuss how I feel with friends and members of the community.