Glad to hear you avoided the worst case scenario mate. I think about it every time I make a date with an escort I haven’t seen before. You mentioned you met her on Chaturbate which indicates she is basically an escort aka prostitute. I’m not sure why you expected to spend time with her without money being involved. Seems she was under the impression you were paying for her services.

The dude she brought back with her was definitely her pimp.

I don’t know exactly what was said between you and her however in the future you should make sure there isn’t any confusion as to if the date is a paid service or fwb. Also consider having something to defend yourself with in case you have to. A simple can of pepper spray will suffice.

Oh...you were being phished :-( Not typical for any pregnant woman on the internet sets up a RL meetup in this quite trusted casual manner, whether from a legit dating site or from a live chat source (in this case), good thing you knew what's going to happen and you left the risky dangerous scene safe and sound.

I kinda had a hunch about a prostitution situation when first talking to her, but she was really dodgey about anything when asking stuff related to it. I at least tried to confirm what her expectations of things were at first but she never once mentioned paying her anything during the meet.
She's still trying to message me about trying to meet again and doesn't seem to be taking the very direct hint that I'm not interested anymore.
As for the guy, can't say for certain if he was a pimp but I'd believe it. I'm not too worried about him, I'm plenty capable of defending myself and live in a constitutional carry state so I am almost always carrying. Hopefully this is the end of this ordeal.

Glad you got out okay with all your money still intact. At least you got some belly action for your worries.

What was her handle on Chaturbate? We should name and shame her!!

(November 16, 2023, 7:29 am)napoleon What was her handle on Chaturbate? We should name and shame her!!

Have some standards.

Should've talked more about trains.

(November 16, 2023, 12:05 pm)doubleintegral Should've talked more about trains.

Fun fact: prostitutes don't call their pimps over talks of trains.

I will accept, I did not get to bring up trains during that time, that's on me. Next time something like this happens I'll lead with train talk.

(November 16, 2023, 10:59 am)vaktor91

(November 16, 2023, 7:29 am)napoleon What was her handle on Chaturbate? We should name and shame her!!

Have some standards.

I'm not gonna give her handle.  While this might have been a bad experience, I wouldn't feel good about messing with a source of income for someone.  I'll take the high road here.