Hi all, First time posting but I've been thinking about telling my girlfriend about my interest in pregnancy.

I figured I'd ask around here to see what everyone's experiences were with telling their partner about it..

How did it go? Was it received well or was it a disaster?
How did you go about bringing up the topic?
Any advice from someone who has done this before?
etc...


*context*
Coming from a long (2.5 years) term relationship with a girl I intend to eventually marry and have kid(s) with.
We're both on the same page about the above but neither of us have ever brought up the topic of 'kinks' before..
She's recently mentioned (embarrassingly) about having thoughts of being pregnant/having kids during/after sex so I feel like now is the time to bring up this topic..

Usually they've been accepting and supportive, but I also tend to date liberally minded women who are either not religious, or somewhat disaffected by the religion they were born into. My advice would b to not make it weirder than it needs to be. It's a thing that is a part of how you interact with sexuality, you can't change it but it's also not all that defines you.

My ex was kinda weirded by it, but eventually she started going along with it when we had sex. That was about it

I exclusively date women who don't want kids... so already we're off to a great start there. Hah.

But really though, in my experience, if your partner understands kinks to begin with and isn't going to be a judgmental prick, you should be fine. She might not share the kink, but that's better than being actively repulsed by it (and you). To be safe, you might clarify that you are in no way sexualizing the fetus itself.

Kinda sucks you waited this long to say something since you've got so much invested in each other now... not because it's going to go poorly, but because you'll probably be super nervous leading into it. I tend to share my kinks pretty much from the beginning these days so I don't have to worry about it. Once it's done, you'll feel much better!

I was pretty blunt about it with all the women I've been involved with but none of them took me serious. They never really minded the videos i was into. One ex even played along saying how sexy and round she would look. I eventually got married and when my wife was pregnant i guess she forgot. I couldn't stay off her, i always laid on her and it seems like it's just an extra layer of intimacy. Having the conversion with other men taught me it's a pretty normal kink.

Me and my partner both find it arousing tbf we watch pregnant porn all the time but I guess it depends on the person

I've told to previous partners about it and they have taken it pretty well. They've even liked themself about it.

(June 1, 2021, 3:51 am)Denzel9696 Me and my partner both find it arousing tbf we watch pregnant porn all the time but I guess it depends on the person

You fucker, I'm so jealous.








But yeah if she loves you and you're not weird about it literally no downsides to telling her.

(May 30, 2021, 3:30 pm)Akhenaten I exclusively date women who don't want kids... so already we're off to a great start there. Hah.

But really though, in my experience, if your partner understands kinks to begin with and isn't going to be a judgmental prick, you should be fine. She might not share the kink, but that's better than being actively repulsed by it (and you). To be safe, you might clarify that you are in no way sexualizing the fetus itself.

Kinda sucks you waited this long to say something since you've got so much invested in each other now... not because it's going to go poorly, but because you'll probably be super nervous leading into it. I tend to share my kinks pretty much from the beginning these days so I don't have to worry about it. Once it's done, you'll feel much better!

Well... that went.. better than expected.. Guess I was just getting into my own head on this one.

I ended up telling her about it last night and this actually came up as the only "concern?" (not sure that's the right word for it but..)  and I ended up using this bit of info so thanks a ton.

Definitely doesn't share the kink (first time either of us have talked about any kind of kink {pretty sure it's the only one between the both of us}) but after the full explanation she ended up being happy I trusted her enough to talk about it. Even cracked a joke saying "just as long as it's not a poke holes in the condom kind of thing "..

You were right, I feel so much better now that it's over with!

Thanks everyone for the info/advice.

I started dating my partner in October of 2019 and on Valentine’s Day of 2020 in the middle of *the act*, they told me they wanted a baby.

We roleplay this pretty often to this day.