Experiences with telling your partner about the fetish

[ripeness]

Any woman weirded out by her own natural ability to procreate and grow life in her body and who can’t enjoy her body as it is and is weirded out by her mans obsession with her body and it’s changes during her pregnancy is the weird one to me! These women who hate their round bellied bodies and poking out navels have been broken by a society that brainwashes and only values thinness and looks over happiness and mental stability.

[Fertility lover]

My significant other knows and we have talked about and watched pregnant porn once or twice. I think, mostly she's is amused, thinks it's a little weird, but puts up with it. We have a child together but her very real pregnancy was a rough one... so, you know.

[McKormick]

One girlfriend was disgusted.

One girlfriend could not stop laughing.

One girlfriend had self confidence issues and said that she wouldnt let me see her or her belly the entire pregnancy.

One friend was happy. She didnt know that she was grossed out or anything. Her answer was that women feel very bad about themselves during pregnancy and shed love it if her man had this fetish and were all over her every day. We were just friends.

One friend tried to use me as a sex toy. You think its all fun and games until it happens. Its not like the erotic stories show and it destroyed our friendship. We barely speak any more..

One friend flirts with and teases me a lot. She got pregnant and didnt know. I avoided her because I learned from my last friend and didnt want to lose her too. Im sure now that if she knew shed have teased me then though I doubt itd have ended the same way.

Different women have different reactions to it and I think it also depends on how theyre feeling that day.

[CR56_]

I think it's like anything, if you think it's creepy then your girl will think it's creepy. If you act like it's no big deal and don't give a fuck then neither will she (I'd say at least 80% of the time). I think there's a fine line between having fetish like this and having a little fun, and becoming obsessive (I.E. stalking girls who are pregnant = creep). I also think there's numerous other fetishes out there that are much weirder and creepier than this one. Some of my friends who don't have a pregnancy fetish thought their wife looked hot pregnant, so it can't be that far fetched.

[CR56_]

Hi all, First time posting but I've been thinking about telling my girlfriend about my interest in pregnancy.

I figured I'd ask around here to see what everyone's experiences were with telling their partner about it..

How did it go? Was it received well or was it a disaster?
How did you go about bringing up the topic?
Any advice from someone who has done this before?
etc...


*context*
Coming from a long (2.5 years) term relationship with a girl I intend to eventually marry and have kid(s) with.
We're both on the same page about the above but neither of us have ever brought up the topic of 'kinks' before..
She's recently mentioned (embarrassingly) about having thoughts of being pregnant/having kids during/after sex so I feel like now is the time to bring up this topic..

Just an opinion, but I would subtly suggest you think she'd look hot pregnant rather than have a full out confession like you're on an episode of Dr. Phil. I think gradually suggesting it over time is the way to go. I've done this with some of the girls I've dated who talked about how they would look cute pregnant; makes it far less awkward than saying "We've got to talk, I'm into preggos" LOL