Hey guys! First time creating a thread in this forum. I love this site and enjoy everybody's comments and the comradery on our shared fetish. I have a question that's always been in the back burner of my mind:

Do you tell your partner about your fetish?

Currently, I am in a relationship with a woman who I truly love dearly. I can see a future with her. We have been together for almost a year. Things have been going well.

However, I have the inclination that my girlfriend might know about my pregnant fetish.

Long story short, she may (or may not have) seen a picture of a pregnant woman on my phone (a screen shot I took from instagram). This was a while back. Since then, there have been a few times where she has said things like "Do you think I would look good pregnant?" or "I would be a cute pregnant lady". 

I am highly attracted to her, and I see both of us building a future together. She always tells me to be open and communicative with her, but I feel as if I ever told her my fetish, she would think it's weird and would always have that in the back of her mind, especially if we do end up getting married and having kids.

Does anyone have an experience sharing their preggo fetish to their girlfriends/wives? Should I tell her eventually, or should silently enjoy it? What was your partner's reaction?

Don't have a partner and never have so take anything I say with a pinch of salt. Despite never having a partner I have been in love with a close friend for many years and she knows all about it. Never thought I'd let anyone know about this fetish growing up, but one Thanksgiving she was showing off her stuffed belly pretending to be pregnant. I explained that was hot af and why I thought so, she thought it was cool that I was into pregnant woman and i liked when she looked pregnant.

Personally I wouldn't set out to bring it up but if she asked what turned me on I'd be honest about it

To be honest, nothing anyone tells you will matter because at the end of the day the decision to tell your girlfriend or not tell her you are a preggophile is yours to make. If you are not comfortable revealing it you won't. If you are you will. It's no more complicated than that. The way I see it is being sexually attracted to a pregnant woman is not a crime. After all, a pregnant woman is a woman so there is really no reason to feel like the fetish will make her think less of you if you tell her about it. Pregnant women tend to feel less attractive and not wanted. It fascinates a woman to learn that some men actually love pregnant women and find them irresistible.

I've told several female friends of mine that I'm a preggophile and they all think it's cool so I have no doubt that it would benefit you a great deal if you told your girlfriend. I think it will fascinate her and make her want to be with you even more. She will have the comforting knowledge that you will be absolutely crazy about her if you both decide to start a family and she fattens up with your seed. Plus, it will help her make all of your preggo fantasies come true because she will do her best to be the pregnant woman of your dreams. I think you will have a lot more fun with her knowing you are a preggophile than you would if you keep it from her.

Good luck my friend.

I made a conscious effort 6 months into our relationship to tell my girlfriend, and brother, that was fucking hard as hell. I've got probably 90 walls up to myself, so it was hard to really know the real me, and what I'm into, and so on. But I told myself that I wasn't going to hide it from her, because what if she finds out later on down the road, and she's like "ewwww, fuck no" and leaves? Nope, wasn't having that.

We've been together 3 years, and we're getting married this year, and she still lets me endulge my fantasies, even goes so far as to act like she's knocked up when we're having sex.

What I'm saying, is that shit could definitely go your way, if you're honest with her. But it could also backfire, and you have to be prepared for that. Honesty is the key to every relationship, but you do you.

ask her indirect questions like "i saw this preggo bikini contest thing on youtube, looks pretty fun" etc etc and see how she feels. If its a positive response, keep fishing for more clues if she okay with your fetish.

if shes not fine with it, IMO shes not a keeper unless your okay with keeping this secret which would suck becuase both partners have to be honest with eachother and be okay to accept with thier questionable quirks. Ive been married for almost 10 years and she found out about it on our first date lmao

(May 14, 2020, 1:52 am)Alex33 Long story short, she may (or may not have) seen a picture of a pregnant woman on my phone (a screen shot I took from instagram). This was a while back. Since then, there have been a few times where she has said things like "Do you think I would look good pregnant?" or "I would be a cute pregnant lady". 

honestly, this feels like a open door.

if she brings it up again, i'd consider that a apt opportunity to open up about your desires, as it seems she may harbour some of the same herself.

I mentioned it to every woman I was ever in a relationship with. I didn't treat it like a big deal, and so neither did any of them... they thought it mildly odd at worst.

I told my girlfriend (now wife with 2 beautiful children) as I came to similar situation as you. I trusted her, we were both open to communication and honestly it was the best decision I made. She allowed me to indulge in the fetish by playing along and we made realistic bellies for her to wear.

If your girlfriend is making those kind of comments man I'd say she has her suspicions and is trying to get you to talk about.

One factor is how you tell a girl that you're into this. If you mention it as a "fetish" she'll think it's something you constantly want, which will lead her to more questions or assumptions. I personally say something along the lines of "I wouldn't mind getting with a pregnant girl" or "Pregnant girls can still be hot." Saying something like this makes you look like you're fine with pregnancy, but not obsessed with it. The girl I'm currently with knows that I'm into it and she doesn't care. If anything, she's actually relieved because she knows that Ill definitely still be attracted to her when she's knocked up.

Obviously this isn't something that you just blurt out, but I think in any relationship the question comes up about fantasies or fetishes. My wife accidentally found out about mine about 6 months into our relationship. We ended up sharing things we both liked or wanted and became closer as a result. Sadly when it comes to sex the general expected "normal" is all you really hear about and anything else is weird. Reality shows us that nothing is weird and if you like something there are men and women out there that like it too. SO do you tell your partner, Yes.

The real question is when. If your gf is asking questions like that, I'd say lean into them a bit. See where it goes. She might have a secret desire about someone getting her pregnant. You could always ask her about any desires she might have, instead of her asking you. :p