(August 28, 2021, 10:15 pm)whatisup4444

(August 28, 2021, 2:21 am)Masterofpreggos Hey there brother i just whant to tell you for my life time i get a pregnant prostitud here in my contry in mexico and i just whant to tell you is not the big thing you know i just was just like you i was like all ways thinking in and oportunity just like that and it happens and when i take i relaise is like you think there are better things in life and get drepressed or sad for dont have that is only making you blind and dont let you see the good things you have in your life but that only my opinion and hope you can take the good things of that one

Yeah man I always thought about prostitutes, but aren't they illegal in the US? I live in Massachusetts. I ain't trying to sacrifice my career, I'm not one to do illegal things lol I'm Mr goody two shoes. Or are they illegal, but everyone uses them? Maybe when I'm like 25 with a lot of money I could take a vacation to a place where prostitution is legal or something.

Yes My friend but by the way in México is not legal to i just here is like the people don't give a shit of what is legal or not just they do the thing and if they get caught they pay some money to the police and also i have the Say You dont get My point My brother becouse the thing i whant to Say is don't thing fuck a pregnant chick is the only greath thing in life My friend if You don't love the chick and You only fuck her becouse her condition is not gona be so greath but verte well is only My own expiriens

(August 28, 2021, 10:11 pm)whatisup4444 What is exposure therapy? Also idk what people have been saying about covid in their replies to me, it has not effected my ability to hangout with people (currently, atleast). I guess I'm lucky to live in a safe area. And yes, I fully understand not to be all horny around pregnant women. I formulate every text message in the sweetest most innocent ways possible, and have tons of experience talking to girls over dating apps. I've never talked to a pregnant women in person (aside from the 1 I met up with) because almost all of them are not single. So it's not worth the time, and frankly would be rude if I asked them if they were single in public. But I see what you're saying, and heavily appreciate your advice on everything, really. I typed this kinda quick on my phone so I'm gonna re read some things and learn more. I appreciate everyone else who's responded too!! Making me feel good, honestly I had no stress about my fetish today, probably just because I got everything off my chest in this post last night!!

Exposure therapy is basically exposing someone to something that they either fear or might be obsessed with to simply normalize that thing to them. Like I said, conquering the fear of the dark is best by slowly exposing yourself to the dark and realizing nothing is scary about it. It works with things we obsess over too. But I see you don’t have that problem being nervous around preggos, and instead you’re just dissatisfied from the fact you can’t find any to date or have sex with. That’s going to be a problem for a while unfortunately.

Many people on this forum have asked for solid pregnancy dating or escort sites. They don’t exist, honestly. It’s all luck of the draw in America because prostitution is illegal. Densely populated areas are your best bet there. But the thing is, a single preggo probably hookup with you. You have to remember the reasons behind why you’re doing such: to have sex with a preggo. You mentioned you don’t want kids of your own. So, it would be logical for a preggo to think you’d cut and run after she popped. After all, you have no interest in children of your own and the possibility of taking care of hers I’d imagine. That’s the reality. For now, escorts are still your best bet if you can find one. Unless you change your view on having kids or get lucky with a hookup, that’s what you have available.

(August 28, 2021, 10:11 pm)whatisup4444 Also idk what people have been saying about covid in their replies to me, it has not effected my ability to hangout with people (currently, atleast). I guess I'm lucky to live in a safe area.

Just because you feel safe from covid doesn't mean everyone else does. Many pregnant women refuse to get vaccinated and are therefore even more scared - and with good reason, because unvaccinated pregnant women are having all sorts of intubation complications, premature births, and so on. You have every right to feel how you feel and to be seeking what you want out of life, but your current viewpoint is myopic. You need to understand where other people are coming from.

(August 29, 2021, 2:35 pm)Akhenaten

(August 28, 2021, 10:11 pm)whatisup4444 Also idk what people have been saying about covid in their replies to me, it has not effected my ability to hangout with people (currently, atleast). I guess I'm lucky to live in a safe area.

Just because you feel safe from covid doesn't mean everyone else does. Many pregnant women refuse to get vaccinated and are therefore even more scared - and with good reason, because unvaccinated pregnant women are having all sorts of intubation complications, premature births, and so on. You have every right to feel how you feel and to be seeking what you want out of life, but your current viewpoint is myopic. You need to understand where other people are coming from.

I don’t think he meant to be condescending per se and short-sighted. But you have a point. It’s like trying to meet someone who has asthma while COVID is going around just like with someone that is pregnant. There’s more risks. Or with me, someone who regularly visits home and has parents over 50 and a grandparent that also lives there approaching 90. I still wear a mask in public and try to stay hygienic as possible even while being vaccinated. That’s just how I operate still during all this. And it can explain why pregnant women are so hesitant as I said to meet with him.

Some other advice I’d guess to have for you @whatisup4444 is take things slow. Be patient with all this. Hopefully, you’ll be able to fulfill your desires. It takes time. I haven’t had sex with a pregnant woman yet either and I can understand how that fantasy can be crippling sometimes with this fetish. Opportunities with individuals are time-sensitive since we are talking about pregnancy, but there will always be more people to meet in the future. Just keep that hope and do this for the right reasons as much as you can and not sexual gratification alone. That’s what I’d recommend.

Having a real experience is tough, been there too man! What worked for me (late teens/early 20's) was just having friends I was close with that ended up getting pregnant and the guy ran. I didn't make any moves or anything, but the trust in our friendship led to her wanting to spend more time together for emotional support or just company. At that age being pregnant a lot of people stopped hanging out with her, so just being a friend and not ditching her led to me being her closest friend. This led to her wanting sex a few times with no expectation of a relationship, and it turned out just that way in the long run, no bullshit and still friends years later. Maybe you'll get a chance in a similar way.

I feel like a movie about the dark sides of pregnancy fetishism would be an interesting idea.

Not like the creepiness but like the struggles like he had.

I wasn't going to comment, but my mind keeps coming back to this thread. I'll start off with saying- don't worry man, what you are feeling is normal and as corny as it sounds, you can use these strong feelings as motivation. At some point, you will make peace with this fetish and the desire will change. To echo a lot of others here, we all struggle with bad feeling in regards, but now in my 30s I accept it in a much different way than I did in my 20's. As shallow as it may sound, getting to interact with a pregnant woman on whatever level is by far the most rewarding thing in life for me. Some men have winning games, making money, other achievements like that but none of those feel quite as good. But with those interactions comes an understanding of what pregnancy is and how women process it, and much like life, the reality of it is complex- and not always bad. Knowing what I know now and recalling the experiences they've shared with me has then changed how I feel when I see a pregnant woman out and about or online.

As far as meeting one- I would avoid dating apps. At this point because the swipe style is SO prevalent, filtering options just aren't cutting it. I have had the most success by far from regular Facebook, specifically the suggested friends area, and local area groups. Having mutual friends can make things easier on the random add front as well. Remember- it is a numbers game. While we all lament over the end of an amazing belly, there will always be another amazing belly. Thats one of the paradoxes of pregnancy- its not permanent, so while you may lose one, you will always gain another (barring some like Children of Men/Handmaid's Tale situation lmao). Perhaps the most important thing *and I can not stress this enough* These women are normal people, almost positively far removed from our world, about to go through a huge- potentially the biggest- change in their lives. It is without a doubt possible to have a fling and let things amicably end, and with that comes learning the person and respecting them and being present in a way that has nothing to do with the fact you have a pregnancy fetish.

Obviously you may not have much interaction other than the initial, but I always aim for what I call a microrelationship, about 2 or 3 months time ideally. I have found that right around the 30 to 32 week mark most pregnant women have a more open demeanor. It all sort of links: they are entering the home stretch, still early 3rd trimester, likely aren't too big where they aren't too active, and... if the baby daddy has faltered at all, at this point she is likely not romantically involved. Every situation is different, but depending on those factors, that time range seems to leave a nice window for us. No matter how much time you get I without a doubt say to treat them warmly, have a good time with them, make them laugh, give them a time where they feel good and can relax. The rest is I guess just... charming a woman, and I'd think you don't need me to teach you that.

In some way, you will feel better. If you aren't already, try and improve aspects of yourself. Get better at cooking, take up a hobby, work out even. Not only is it better for you, but the more appealing and well rounded you are will only better your chances at charming. This is a fetish yes, but it is also an appreciation... society STILL has this odd approach to pregnancy. Lately there has been more acceptance in a sense, I think because having children out of wedlock/young/what have you happens more and more, but still such shame is put on anything even close to sexual empowerment for pregnant women. Hell who knows, maybe this new Drake album cover is like a signal he's one of us! I hope what I have written helps ease your mind!

I have a suggestion, and I hope it helps. Try to use a little psychology. For instance if a girl tells you that you are too good looking to be wasting time on a pregnant girl like her, she does not want you to agree, she wants to be told she’s not a waste of time. Remember though, you are hitting f on her, not on her pregnancy- Learn about her and talk about other things too. You definitely shouldn’t avoid the topic you’re super excited for her, admire her strength, know she’ll be an amazing mother, etc, but you like her for who she is. Sympathize, I’m sorry you feel rotten today, you’re working harder when you’re just sitting there than I could ever work at the gym/ I know it must be crazy having your body change from day to day without you being able to do anything about it, but you were beautiful before you got pregnant and you’re beautiful now. No, you don’t look fat at all, you look like a beautiful girl who’s becoming a morher. No, I don’t mind the bump, in fact, it’s cute as hell (never admit to fetish though, you’d never thought about dating/fucking a pregnant girl before, but she is something special) if you’re in public with her and someone, as they inevitably will, assumes you are a couple and that you are the father, play along. “Is this your first?” Thst ask. You put your hand over her belly and sat “yes it is and we’re very excited” or, maybe even better, “no actually, this will be our eighth” that way you can make it sort of a joke too. When the questioner is out of earshot. ask if it was ok to do that. You weren’t sure, but you didn’t want the awkward situation where she has to explain you’re just a friend and that the baby daddy burned up along with his meth lab or whatever. If she seems cool with it, you can say, “plus it was kinda fun to pretend for just a second”

Get some massage skilled. Feet and back, then maybe belly and thighs.

Positive attitude, man! You can do this