all good things come to an end..the wife found out (somewhat)

[mttoom]

thanks for all the replies.

@orta03 wow i didnt think i would get a reply from one of our legendary contributor. I've probably asked her a couple of times if she has any particular kink or fetish but it seems like she doesnt have any, which probably explains her "disgusted reaction" towards the whole thing. Its weird though sometimes when we've had too full of a dinner she would randomly ask me to touch her stuffed belly. Most stuffed belly lovers would probably envy the shit out of this as i get to do this to her almost on a daily basis. (actually most of the time she is the 1 holding my hand and placing it on her belly). I've been thinking for a while now how can i go about bridging the connections between pregnancy fetish and this belly touching routine of ours. Yes we do watch normal porn together sometimes. Once in a while she will make comments like "omg why am i letting you stare at big boobies" since she is pretty small herself.

@robj420 it is really taboo over here in asia. i feel like even in japan where pregnant porn is common, it is still very tough to confess to a partner that i have a pregnancy fetish. its probably easier in the westernized countries as they tend to be more open minded. over here people are so conservative that same-sex-marriage is a big NO but you do see gay couples openly displaying affection in public these days.

@Akhenaten if i tell her its the women's body and all the changes happening to her during pregnancy that arouses me, she would probably get pissed and jealous. this is also the reason why my mind isnt set on having kids yet. having the thought that i would lust over my wife more while she is pregnant really make me felt bad and guilty. I do not set passwords on my PC as i didnt wanna make her feel like im hiding things from her.

So i guess most of the comments suggest i should actually come clean? i dont even dare to think of how would she react if she knew besides pregnant fetish i also have a birth fetish

[Akhenaten]

@Akhenaten if i tell her its the women's body and all the changes happening to her during pregnancy that arouses me, she would probably get pissed and jealous. this is also the reason why my mind isnt set on having kids yet. having the thought that i would lust over my wife more while she is pregnant really make me felt bad and guilty. I do not set passwords on my PC as i didnt wanna make her feel like im hiding things from her.

So i guess most of the comments suggest i should actually come clean? i dont even dare to think of how would she react if she knew besides pregnant fetish i also have a birth fetish

I'm sorry you're having to contend with her jealousy issues. It is odd since you are able to watch porn together, so I don't really understand where she is coming from -- she seems to be aware of the fact that a person's sexual attractions don't just die off for every other human once they've paired up... and yet she still expects yours to, but only in certain ways? Sorry, I'm confused.

If she wants kids, or decides she wants kids, things will get even more difficult for you... you don't want to deny her that just because you'd have feelings of guilt, right? Also, if at all possible, I would try not to look at it as objectifying her if you're attracted to her while she's pregnant. You're attracted to her now, right? Are you objectifying her? Most of us have special things we like (there are, after all, "ass men" and "boob guys," and somehow that is generally acceptable), but it doesn't mean that everyone is just those body parts to us. Well, for some people, maybe, but that's another discussion entirely... Point is, you're not a bad person for being hyper-attracted to her while she's pregnant. And unless you find yourself thinking of her only as a fucktoy during her pregnancy, I think you're in the clear.

I don't blame you for not putting a password on the PC. I don't do that with mine, either. And I'm comfortable telling my partner how to get on my devices and use them for anything she needs, but that's because we trust each other and aren't hiding anything. It's a lot easier that way. It just isn't something that comes up.

And sure, everyone is saying to come clean, but what do you actually want to do? Are you comfortable living like this? If so, you don't need to do anything.

[Mike Larry]

Im from Southeast Asia too If I may ask, which country are you from? Im from the Philippines.

[Charlie Gonzales]

I haven't yet tell my wife too, we've been married a year and half.
But i already set a story for convession one day.
She was pregnant last year, and she became much more hornier, and we had sex much more frequent.
Since i was always playing with her belly, seems like it can be my best aliby to start a convession.
If she found out one day, i can just like :
"i think i was starting to have pregnant fetish since you're pregnant. Just your sex drive were so unbearable while you were pregnant. It such a great turn on, like some men like chubby, some like skinny, some like big boobs, some petite. Since i found out all this stuffs, then i know it's really common around this world."

[mttoom]

@Mike Larry check your pm

i was thinking of coming clean with her probably next week, so at least she have 1month before our 1 year anniversary to let the whole thing sink into her head.

if she is able to accept or even play along with my fetish, then this 1 year anniversary will probably be the best thing that happened to me.

[Akhenaten]

i was thinking of coming clean with her probably next week, so at least she have 1month before our 1 year anniversary to let the whole thing sink into her head.

if she is able to accept or even play along with my fetish, then this 1 year anniversary will probably be the best thing that happened to me.

I do genuinely hope it goes your way, then!