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domini (158)
October 2, 2013, 11:41 am
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October 2, 2013, 11:41 am by domini (158)
Hello all,
I don't post much here but i was wondering if i could get a discussion on this with you guys.
My wife and i have a child of our own who is 2 years old now and we are not really wanting anymore children.
I loved it when she was pregnant and i couldn't keep my hands off her!
The question i have is: What could i do to convince her to become a surrogate? I love the whole pregnancy experience but i don't want to care for another kid as im happy with only one.
I know lots of agencies do this kind of thing for parents who cant have their own child.
Any suggestions?
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Akhenaten (3434)
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October 2, 2013, 1:02 pm
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October 2, 2013, 1:02 pm by Akhenaten (3434)
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I don't think anyone can give you any advice that would be better than your own intuition. You know yourself, your wife, and your relationship together better than anyone else in the world. You'd need to appeal to whatever she likes to get this to happen, and even then she may say to hell with it, not interested.
The benefits are pretty clear, especially if she enjoys pregnancy -- either for its own sake, as a fetish for herself, or as a fetish for you (though that last one would be a pretty hard sell, since being pregnant is kind of a big deal).
There's also the whole compensation aspect, if you go that route.
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TheHunter (773)
October 2, 2013, 6:19 pm
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October 2, 2013, 6:19 pm by TheHunter (773)
You could try telling her that she would be doing a huge favor for a couple who can't conceive their own child or a gay couple who don't wish to adopt, and making them very happy.
Also, I hear surrogacy pays pretty well, as long as it's legal to get paid for it where you're from.
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domini (158)
October 3, 2013, 10:13 am
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October 3, 2013, 10:13 am by domini (158)
Thanks for the input both of you. I have researched some of the info on surrogacy and it can pay well and would be nice to have extra cash.
Ill try discussing with her about and see if she wants to fulfill my fetish. I may just end up trying to get a prosthetic if the surrogacy thing doesn't work out
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Lillybone (0)
February 24, 2016, 6:31 am
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February 24, 2016, 6:31 am by Lillybone (0)
Hi! How you r doing? It is very good idea to help infertile couple. Some time ago I was ready to give everything for the opportunity to become a mother. Biologically I am not the child's mother, I have no eggs and due to cancer and I lost my uterus. I had no variants. But my husband could be a father and give our child his genes. Since I am from Hungary, and surrogacy is illegal here, we started looking for options abroad, here a cost varies greatly. We liked the proposal of clinic in Ukraine, I am not gonna get focused on it, but we found advantages
for ourselves, especially considering the cost. After 1.5 years we became parents . And it is pricelessly.