It sounds like she's hoping to use you in an attempt to get a green card.

If you're younger than 40 years old, maybe late thirties, think long and hard before getting into a relationship with someone who already has kids. I hope you're willing to accept them as your own kids.

Has no one thought about the language barrier? You're not talking to her through a translator right? Also forget about camming if you want her to actually make money and not be a housewife.

Not to mention the amount of paperwork, visas, and time consuming procedures that will take years to complete just so she can stay longer than 180 days. And that's not including her three kids, which she'll need full custody, confirmation from a judge from her department and be allowed to have them leave the country as well.

And that's barely scratching the surface since I doubt neither of you have a clue on how lengthy this process is going to take. Its more complex that getting a plane ticket and having her crash at your place for a while.

(December 11, 2023, 11:54 pm)PregnantBabybump Yeah she's in colombia. We gonna plan to meet in us for couple weeks while her kids are being watched by a nanny in colombia. And that's gonna be covered by her. Actually she's not, just gave birth to a child. They split up and he doesn't want to take the responsibility of them even when they were together so he was just getting her pregnant and then not caring for her at all which she had to find ways to care for herself and kids. Yeah we talked and she agreed that she'll let me have my own. So total of four. I'm hoping everything goes right and that she's actually telling me the truth of coming to meet me. She really wants to leave colombia for a better lifestyle. Well we'll see how things go and might do a couple cam or maybe might do it here and there and might just help her find an actual job. I'm praying right now that she's telling me the truth and I'll see how everything goes.

Do you even know her real name?

Phone number?

Address?

Skype?

Facebook? Not Instagram, models have separate Instagrams. I said Facebook.

Do you even know this woman or do you know what she tells you?

(December 12, 2023, 1:43 am)MyandGoSeek Has no one thought about the language barrier? You're not talking to her through a translator right? Also forget about camming if you want her to actually make money and not be a housewife.

Not to mention the amount of paperwork, visas, and time consuming procedures that will take years to complete just so she can stay longer than 180 days. And that's not including her three kids, which she'll need full custody, confirmation from a judge from her department and be allowed to have them leave the country as well.

And that's barely scratching the surface since I doubt neither of you have a clue on how lengthy this process is going to take. Its more complex that getting a plane ticket and having her crash at your place for a while.

Another very valid point. Heres something you may want to ask yourself. Does she know English? You didnt mention that. Im assuming she does. She also speaks Spanish. You have no idea what shes saying in Spanish. How do you know shes not laughing with friends at you whenever you talk to her? Youd never know because you dont know what shes saying.

And yes, the process is ridiculously long. It even destroys some couples. Look it up.

Dude you fell for a scam that even the baby in my wife's uterus could see from a mile away.  

 Even assume she is real and gets on the plane,, if your in the U.S, Canada, Australia, U.K, New Zealand,  there is probably a greater than 75% chance she gets sent back at customs

Please stop this, you are only going to get more hurt. Take it from someone who has attempted to do what you are doing. None of what you’re saying is realistic. I know, it’s hard to see when in the moment when blinders are on.

(December 11, 2023, 11:54 pm)PregnantBabybump Yeah she's in colombia. We gonna plan to meet in us for couple weeks while her kids are being watched by a nanny in colombia. And that's gonna be covered by her. Actually she's not, just gave birth to a child. They split up and he doesn't want to take the responsibility of them even when they were together so he was just getting her pregnant and then not caring for her at all which she had to find ways to care for herself and kids. Yeah we talked and she agreed that she'll let me have my own. So total of four. I'm hoping everything goes right and that she's actually telling me the truth of coming to meet me. She really wants to leave colombia for a better lifestyle. Well we'll see how things go and might do a couple cam or maybe might do it here and there and might just help her find an actual job. I'm praying right now that she's telling me the truth and I'll see how everything goes.

I get that you're young and heartbroken, but it's not worth ruining your life to try and fix. Please tell us that after what everyone here has already told you, you're not still actually considering going through with this? This person will tell you anything you want to hear so she can get your money.

Well for now as I said earlier will see how things go

Hahaha OP asked a question, got a very unanimous answer "no" and still decided to go through with it. Nothing more we can do fellas. I wipe my hands of this. I would wish good luck OP but well...

(December 12, 2023, 9:35 pm)PregnantBabybump Well for now as I said earlier will see how things go

Oh no, this will probably not end well. I admire your courage, OP, but your persistence in this might cost you a lot. At this point, there's no use convincing you otherwise; we users, on the other hand, will watch you with chairs and buckets of popcorn should something happen in your endeavor, be it good or bad.