At ImpossibleBard, Okay I'll stop looking for people on cb. I've already been failed by them many times already, I'm just asking all this to get better advice and to get a better idea. Since I'm talking to someone from colombia and is telling me wants to meet, has already three children and wants me to pay for the flight. Tells me is very serious about coming and wants to leave there to get a better lifestyle and to build a family.
And for the sites of looking for pregnant sex worker, where to find?
Oohh really, even if I tried to get her back, she won't be interested in being something again. I don't think I would find anyone with as big of assets as hers but that won't matter to me.

I guess I'm been blind sited since I just want a partner really bad. I just really want to have that feeling again. I just want to hold her and have the feeling of her amazing curves.

And on the note I'm not trying to pursue people based on them being pregnant, i just really want a genuine and trustworthy person to be in a relationship with. That's why I've been doing it through cb, since they told me I can trust them and have us meet

I’m sorry I’m genuinely not trying to sound rude or anything but how old are you? Unfortunately meeting people online isn’t the best way to go about things usually as you never know someone actually is or their true intentions

Christ man the red flags just keep coming. You will never find a real relationship on a jerkoff website. Never. Ever. The fact you even consider that is wild. These girls in Columbia absolutely give no shits who you are, all they care for is your money and they will tell you whatever you want to hear so that you keep paying them. Get it together man, go outside, get the fuck off the internet for a while and meet some real people ffs. It might sound harsh but honestly you sound lost and you are going the wrong way with this. Its only gonna bring you more problems.

(December 11, 2023, 2:40 pm)PregnantBabybump i just really want a genuine and trustworthy person to be in a relationship with. That's why I've been doing it through cb, since they told me I can trust them and have us meet

You sound inexperienced and naive. I don't mean that as an insult, I just mean, OK I'm starting to get it now. A lot of us here take these things for granted, but you seem to truly not know yet.

To be very, very clear: do not use cam sites, sex sites, whatever, in your search for a relationship. Use them to get your rocks off. Do not try to meet with the women from those sites, and do not send them money unless you are certain you'll be getting something (NOT A RELATIONSHIP) in return.

To find a relationship, "real life" is fine but if you work long hours or are looking for more options, don't be afraid to try apps. You will probably not hear back from even 1% of the women you "swipe right" on, so don't be surprised. And don't get obsessed with it. Think of it as a daily chore, like "oh, time to do the swiping again" and then get back to life. You can try Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, or if you hate yourself, Tinder.

This is a troll.  This has to be a troll.  If this isn't a troll, then I don't know how people function in the real world anymore.

Unfortunately it takes getting burned by obvious scams in order for some people to learn you can’t trust anyone nowadays. That goes for both meeting people in the real word and on social media. “Cb girls” and “genuine” do not belong in the same sentence. They only care about one thing and that is money.

You must be smart mate, don’t let these women get their bloody hooks into you. Think with the head on your shoulders and not the one in your pants. Get your satisfaction from them on the webcam and leave it at that. These women are not relationship quality. They all work with dudes (pimps) who set them up in cheap studio rooms. Their goal is to milk thirsty dudes out of as much money as possible. It’s a very predatory business model as it is. No need for you to risk more than the tokens used for tipping.

Do not offer to pay their bills, don’t believe any sob stories about being hungry and having no food. If it’s not tipping for their cb menu items you don’t want any part of it. I’ve been around a long time and have seen all the tricks. Look elsewhere for meeting girls mate. Webcam sites are not the place.

As always take care out there and stay safe.

(December 11, 2023, 7:32 pm)david4692 This is a troll.  This has to be a troll.  If this isn't a troll, then I don't know how people function in the real world anymore.

He sounds young tbh. Sounds like he's going through some heartbreak and is trying to cope in really brazen ways. But he is naive as fuck in how the world *really* works

But on the off chance he isnt that young just remember what George Carlin said once.

   

Thanks for the advice everyone, I'll end the conversation with the girl from colombia. And I'm not a troll @david4692
And as @tomostrife says I am going through heartbreak, lots and lots of it, yes I agree it is the most trash way to go about it but it made me feel better for a little and now I'm hurt again.

So, even if I tried to get her back, she won't be interested in being something again?

I think there are a lot of issues with getting someone off a cam site. Lets just say you succeed. I have befriended many cam models over the years whether in America or not. I have heard them tell me some stories and I think one thing will always be in your mind. You said shes from Colombia right? Youre going to wonder if she got with you because of your money. Are you moving to Colombia? Or is she moving here? Is she in it for a Green Card? Are you willing to be a father to those three children? What of their actual father or fathers? I assume shes pregnant now? Thats a fourth child. And then Im sure youd love to have your own. Thats five. Are you ready for all that? As for her, are you going to be okay with her still camming? I dont know about you but I would not be okay with my woman camming as a job. Her job is to talk to people and flirt with them. I dont know but I gotta question if shed really love a man if shes doing this on the side and not looking for a more respectable job. Nothing against camming but I dont know any woman that would let their man do it. Looking at other womans bodies, going Cam2Cam, getting nude photos, every single day? It would destroy a relationship. I get being lonely. Ive almost met a few myself when I was offered. But you really gotta sit down and think this stuff over man. Like I said, say it even goes right are you willing to deal with what can come of it? Ive taken care of one kid before and believe me its expensive. Three? I dont know what kinda funds you have but mine aint that long. Your American check may be a lot in Colombia but then you arent with her any more. Youre still here working. Youre just mailing her money. You might as well never meet her. Everything needs to be considered. And thats saying it goes right. If it goes wrong you can end up face down in a ditch dead. Is it worth all of that?

Yeah she's in colombia. We gonna plan to meet in us for couple weeks while her kids are being watched by a nanny in colombia. And that's gonna be covered by her. Actually she's not, just gave birth to a child. They split up and he doesn't want to take the responsibility of them even when they were together so he was just getting her pregnant and then not caring for her at all which she had to find ways to care for herself and kids. Yeah we talked and she agreed that she'll let me have my own. So total of four. I'm hoping everything goes right and that she's actually telling me the truth of coming to meet me. She really wants to leave colombia for a better lifestyle. Well we'll see how things go and might do a couple cam or maybe might do it here and there and might just help her find an actual job. I'm praying right now that she's telling me the truth and I'll see how everything goes.