I've had this fetish for pregnancy and impregnation since I was 12, quite a long time ago. The last little while it's been really driving me up the wall.

One of my friends is pregnant and I'm uncomfortable talking to her about her pregnancy, and scared to get caught looking at her belly in case she finds out about my fetish. I've never really been interested in her as more than a friend but I'm turned on by her right now and have been fantasising about her, and it's weird and I feel like a creep.

I'm single right now. My ex-girlfriend from years back who I'm not really 'over' yet, and I still talk to sometimes as she lives nearby, just got engaged. I've been sitting thinking about the future and how it's going to make me feel jelous years down the line when she decides to have kids and I see her with a bump, knowing just how long I fantasised about impregnating her.

Maybe this is just me. I don't know if any of you can relate. Just putting this out there in case you had any thoughts or advice. Cheers.

(July 12, 2016, 1:22 pm)tobin I've had this fetish for pregnancy and impregnation since I was 12, quite a long time ago. The last little while it's been really driving me up the wall.

One of my friends is pregnant and I'm uncomfortable talking to her about her pregnancy, and scared to get caught looking at her belly in case she finds out about my fetish. I've never really been interested in her as more than a friend but I'm turned on by her right now and have been fantasising about her, and it's weird and I feel like a creep.

I'm single right now. My ex-girlfriend from years back who I'm not really 'over' yet, and I still talk to sometimes as she lives nearby, just got engaged. I've been sitting thinking about the future and how it's going to make me feel jelous years down the line when she decides to have kids and I see her with a bump, knowing just how long I fantasised about impregnating her.

Maybe this is just me. I don't know if any of you can relate. Just putting this out there in case you had any thoughts or advice. Cheers.

Sucks, doesn't it?

The way I see it, if you feel uncomfortable talking to her about her pregnancy or even being around her, don't do it. Don't force yourself to be around her if it makes you frustrated. Either that or, if you do end up talking to her about pregnancy, drop subtle hints to see how she reacts.

Yeah, like a billion times over. I generally fall on the asexual side of things, with this as the ~literal~ only exception, making things intensely confusing and frustrating for me over the past few years. I've tried staying away from it for weeks and months at a time, but then I see a pregnant celeb on the news or something, and can't hold myself back from checking around for new pics and stuff. It kills me inside every time I log on, and every time I delete an old account I always find a way to legitimize making a new one. And I still can't figure out why I'm on here - not like I get any physical satisfaction out of it, just doesn't make sense at all.

What a life, what a world. :/

Here's some questions I'd like to ask before I have my own words to say.

1. How close of a friend is she?
2. Does she like being around you? Does she like hanging out with you alone?
3. How far along is she?
4. Is your friend in a relationship?

inb4 "dude get with her"

If that was what he wanted and was possible, he'd have said so.

Seems like you have a negative perception of your attraction to the pregnant form. There's no harm in looking at your friend's belly, everyone does. Nothing wrong with noticing something so glaringly obvious.

I've also had fantasies in my head about ex's that are now pregnant. It's all in fun and won't hurt anyone, I don't see it much differently than having a crush on someone. As long as you can keep fantasy and reality apart and be ok with your sexual attractions, you'll probably be fine with your friend. I found I was "creepy" around a friend back when I used be in denial about my attraction to pregnant women, as my attempts at ignoring the pregnancy came across as akward. Everyone else stares at pregnant women to a degree, so take a free look and stop worrying about being creepy, as it will make you creepy LOL.

Take a step back and release yourself from our society's outdated, simplistic puritanical view of morality. All of this is taking place in your head with absolutely no harm being done to anyone else. Unless it's disrupting your ability to lead your life, this is a good thing. I know people who envy that I even have a fetish -- some folks don't have any one particular thing that really gets them going, and they're jealous!

You can't will your fetish away any more than you could will your sexual orientation to change. Maybe things can evolve and be discovered over time, but you can't just turn it off. So you need to accept it (especially since, as mentioned before, no one is being harmed).

I had some real trouble accepting that my exes would become pregnant by other men someday, as well. I hear you there. But that tends to fade away with all the rest of the feelings about those exes. Once you don't care about them anymore, you don't really care that they'll get knocked up. If you're afraid you're going to see pictures of them pregnant someday and won't be able to handle it, be proactive and remove them from your social media now. I block all my exes for a number of reasons, this one included.

If you value your friendship with this person, I wouldn't approach her about this unless she drops some MAJOR hints about being lonely and wanting something from someone (*cough* you *cough*). You're safe among everyone here -- we all get it -- but you never know how someone else is going to react, and risking that friendship probably isn't worth it based on what you've stated here.

Try to revel in your fetish, though. It's a part of you. It's a positive thing because it gives you pleasure (under the right circumstances). I don't see why you'd ever want that to go away. Find the right way to channel it! That's been the challenge for me, as well, but I'm working on it.

(July 12, 2016, 1:22 pm)tobin I've had this fetish for pregnancy and impregnation since I was 12, quite a long time ago. The last little while it's been really driving me up the wall.

One of my friends is pregnant and I'm uncomfortable talking to her about her pregnancy, and scared to get caught looking at her belly in case she finds out about my fetish. I've never really been interested in her as more than a friend but I'm turned on by her right now and have been fantasising about her, and it's weird and I feel like a creep.

I'm single right now. My ex-girlfriend from years back who I'm not really 'over' yet, and I still talk to sometimes as she lives nearby, just got engaged. I've been sitting thinking about the future and how it's going to make me feel jelous years down the line when she decides to have kids and I see her with a bump, knowing just how long I fantasised about impregnating her.

Maybe this is just me. I don't know if any of you can relate. Just putting this out there in case you had any thoughts or advice. Cheers.

I know how you feel Dude. It can be difficult sometimes, but there are worse fetishes to have. Trust me, don't feel uncomfortable around pregnant women or it'll make life worse. I'm not saying to tell everyone, but there must be someone you can trust.

Telling someone helped me so much. My Wife knows about my fetish and, while she may not share it, she is supportive & understanding. Someone will understand you, but only once you are happy with youself.

Hope I helped

(July 12, 2016, 1:22 pm)tobin I've had this fetish for pregnancy and impregnation since I was 12, quite a long time ago. The last little while it's been really driving me up the wall.

One of my friends is pregnant and I'm uncomfortable talking to her about her pregnancy, and scared to get caught looking at her belly in case she finds out about my fetish. I've never really been interested in her as more than a friend but I'm turned on by her right now and have been fantasising about her, and it's weird and I feel like a creep.

I'm single right now. My ex-girlfriend from years back who I'm not really 'over' yet, and I still talk to sometimes as she lives nearby, just got engaged. I've been sitting thinking about the future and how it's going to make me feel jelous years down the line when she decides to have kids and I see her with a bump, knowing just how long I fantasised about impregnating her.

Maybe this is just me. I don't know if any of you can relate. Just putting this out there in case you had any thoughts or advice. Cheers.

Here's some questions I'd like to ask before I have my own words to say.

1. How close of a friend is she?
2. Does she like being around you? Does she like hanging out with you alone?
3. How far along is she?
4. Is your friend in a relationship?

For those asking, my pregnant friend is married. We're quite close friends, but not close enough that I'd talk to her about sexual fetishes, especially if it involves her current condition. She's about 6 months pregnant.