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Akhenaten
I could see gifting someone anywhere up to like $1000 a month if she was exactly what I wanted (I'm fortunate that my current job pays well -- hasn't always been the case). Life is short and if you have the resources to obtain something you desire, you really should.
Liked by TattedMilkMommy (Jul 21, 2020)
Akhenaten
I got curious and signed up yesterday, and paid for a month. I'll report back on the results.
wokkawokka45
I’ve been on it for a month. Hooked up with two pregnant girls, one of which we just had a legit hookup, no money involved except for me booking the room.

There are plenty of women basically serving as escorts (ppm or no strings attached), as well as standard sugar baby/daddy relationships.

It’s a strange site for sure but there’s plenty of fun to be had.
Liked by Akhenaten (Jul 13, 2020)
Akhenaten
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There are only ~5 pregnant women in my area and I couldn't get any of them to have a real conversation. So as far as the hunt for pregnant women goes, it's a bust for me.

I'm having a decent time overall, though... it's kinda nice to have women message me first for once, even if it's just because they want my money.
modjoe23
Yeah i cant even find a pregnant girl who isn't fake in my area so i deleted my profile. Kind of a bullshit site anyway, so many greedy women on there.
Akhenaten
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(July 14, 2020, 11:53 am)modjoe23 Yeah i cant even find a pregnant girl who isn't fake in my area so i deleted my profile. Kind of a bullshit site anyway, so many greedy women on there.

I don't know that I'd call them greedy. They're there to do business. They have something to sell, and there are buyers. However... some of them start the conversation by asking how I'm going to send them money, and that's usually the tip-off that you're being propositioned by an escort. I have nothing against escorts and I wish they didn't have to operate in the shadows, but frankly it does piss me off that they're trying to find clients on a site that's tailored specifically for sugar arrangements. I paid for this service and don't want my time wasted like that.
Vaner
(July 13, 2020, 1:08 pm)Akhenaten There are only ~5 pregnant women in my area and I couldn't get any of them to have a real conversation. So as far as the hunt for pregnant women goes, it's a bust for me.

I'm having a decent time overall, though... it's kinda nice to have women message me first for once, even if it's just because they want my money.
It does sounds nice girls messaging you first even though like you said "because they want your money"
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wokkawokka45
(July 15, 2020, 1:55 am)Vaner
(July 13, 2020, 1:08 pm)Akhenaten There are only ~5 pregnant women in my area and I couldn't get any of them to have a real conversation. So as far as the hunt for pregnant women goes, it's a bust for me.

I'm having a decent time overall, though... it's kinda nice to have women message me first for once, even if it's just because they want my money.
It does sounds nice girls messaging you first even though like you said "because they want your money"

it’s weird to get used to at first. 


on a side note, another girl I met on the site (not pregnant) has put me in touch with two friends in the area who are. 

we’ll see what happens.
Vaner
(July 18, 2020, 2:20 pm)wokkawokka45
(July 15, 2020, 1:55 am)Vaner
(July 13, 2020, 1:08 pm)Akhenaten There are only ~5 pregnant women in my area and I couldn't get any of them to have a real conversation. So as far as the hunt for pregnant women goes, it's a bust for me.

I'm having a decent time overall, though... it's kinda nice to have women message me first for once, even if it's just because they want my money.
It does sounds nice girls messaging you first even though like you said "because they want your money"

it’s weird to get used to at first. 


on a side note, another girl I met on the site (not pregnant) has put me in touch with two friends in the area who are. 

we’ll see what happens.
Best of luck, and do tell how it went
Akhenaten
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It's been about 3 weeks now, and here are the mention-worthy connections I've made:
  1. Young woman who just got dropped by her SD right before rent was due. The income she makes from employment isn't near enough to sustain her lifestyle, so she's desperately looking for a replacement SD. She needs a huge allowance and didn't really pique my interest, but we still chat. I have a feeling we won't anymore once she finds a new SD.
  2. Young woman who is only on the site for attention, by her own admission. We get along very well and I find her to be quite cute, so I probed a bit and asked about an arrangement. She said she's already got enough interpersonal stuff going on but would be happy to be friends (ugh, then why are you... nevermind). A shame -- however, she's a reckless covidiot, so that killed my interest anyway.
  3. Young woman who presents herself as very sweet, intelligent, and emotionally mature, but who is lying to me like there's no tomorrow. I've been around the block a couple of times, so I know you've got to do your research on people for your own protection. Call it creepy if you want, I don't care, but I managed to find her on Facebook and discover that she's not at all who she says she is. I completely understand why a person would fib a little in order to stay safe from mentally-ill stalkers and the like, but if she can lie about so many things from the get-go, what else might she lie about in the future? She lied about having kids (probably to protect them, which I think is cool actually), but she also lied by saying that her relationship with her significant other is casual and that he knows she's trying to become a SB. It's most definitely not casual -- but more importantly, what if he doesn't know about her sugar aspirations? I'm an ethical non-monogamist and will not engage in something if I don't have complete assurance that all involved parties are on board. I'm probably going to have to politely call her out and say that since we can't start with honesty (which, ironically, she keeps saying is the most important thing), I don't feel comfortable moving forward. She's quite attractive, so this one's a real bummer. Update: Shortly after posting this, I did go ahead and inform her that I'm not moving forward.
  4. Pregnant young woman who doesn't communicate very frequently, but she's pretty and only 20.5 weeks. If I buy her things from her baby registry, we should be able to have an arrangement of sorts. I don't want to get ahead of myself on this one, but I must say I am cautiously optimistic. We'll see. I need to get to know her a bit better first, so I'm trying to schedule a video chat. Update: Haven't heard from her in 3 days, so she appears to have ghosted.
And there are still plenty of escorts wasting my time, as well. My understanding is that a lot of men on SA are looking for a quick fuck, so I guess it's just supply and demand.

I do see huge potential for various levels of gratification through SA, but I can tell that it's going to take a long time, cost a lot of money, and use up a lot of my social/emotional energy. And I might get burned a couple times, which I'm not looking forward to. I know not all young women are so ridiculous, but by and large, the ones on SA certainly have been thus far. At least they actually talk to me there, though. Not like it's happening a whole lot, but for me, it's still a night-and-day difference from traditional dating apps, where I may as well be some kind of leper. Incel ideology is bogus and disgusting, but it's not hard to see how constant rejection can, unfortunately, lead some people down that path.

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