I know there are some in this community, but we honestly need to respect these women. I see some comments on IG, TikTok, YouTube etc. saying things like "beautiful" or asking if she gets gassy (so weird), fantasizing about what you'd do to her etc. These are the EXACT comments that make them go into hiding, give us a bad reputation and we all suffer. Control yourselves outside of this community whoever you are and start reporting those who can't. Stop posting them until they've had their kids and don't post the kids.

COMPLETELY AGREE BROTHER!! 1000%

I know this is irritating however ranting about it is not going to stop it. We’ve bitched about it in serval threads and obviously it has done nothing to effect behavioral change. Unfortunately rude commenting is part of this fetish and will always be.

Suggesting that we police people in comment sections is going a bit far and is certainly close to white knighting. Rude commenting is unfortunately not breaking any laws therefore these dudes will continue to say what they want to say.

If girls get scared away so be it. They should know what they are getting into when they decide to go public and believe me they are aware that men will be men. It is impossible for these commenters to scare off every single pregnant content provider so I would not be too concerned about what is a minor annoyance at best.

(November 9, 2021, 8:12 pm)LTKNT101 I know this is irritating however ranting about it is not going to stop it. We’ve bitched about it in serval threads and obviously it has done nothing to effect behavioral change. Unfortunately rude commenting is part of this fetish and will always be.

Suggesting that we police people in comment sections is going a bit far and is certainly close to white knighting. Rude commenting is unfortunately not breaking any laws therefore these dudes will continue to say what they want to say.

If girls get scared away so be it. They should know what they are getting into when they decide to go public and believe me they are aware that men will be men. It is impossible for these commenters to scare off every single pregnant content provider so I would not be too concerned about what is a minor annoyance at best.

You’re a bit off the mark there. 

People who use terms like ‘white knighting’ or ‘simp’ are basically saying that they can’t envision any reason why a man would want to treat a woman with respect outside of wanting to gain sexual favours.

It’s not good enough that women hold the creeps accountable for the awful behaviour of certain men, men have to hold them accountable too.

Just because a woman is in the public eye, or is posting on the internet or is even a sex worker, does not entitle you to ask inappropriate questions or otherwise harass them.

(November 9, 2021, 8:12 pm)LTKNT101 Suggesting that we police people in comment sections is going a bit far and is certainly close to white knighting.

So calling out a creep is borderline white knighting?

How do you suggest we hold the quote “creeps” accountable? Calling them out it is only going to throw more fuel on the fire. When they see they can get a rise out of people who are easily triggered they’ll start making comments just to piss people off.

Feeding a troll is not going to dispatch him. They way to defeat these people is to ignore them. As long as we keep making threads like this one showing how much they are getting under our skin they’ll keep doing what they are doing.

Ignoring them is how you take the power away from them. It’s no fun commenting to empty space. It’s only fun when someone gets triggered and comments back in retaliation. That’s how these people think. They are losers with nothing better to do than stir up trouble online.

So distance yourselves and move the fuck on. God I'm sick of these types of post whenever some dude gets pissed because a woman they like go private due to comments. We tell you people to save it as soon as you see it, because there's no guarntee it'll be there an hour later.

And what's the point of this post if the people who are doing it AREN'T EVEN ON THIS SITE? And you can't say "oh I'm doing it for the people here" because there's been dozens of posts and threads for the past 9 years that all have the same sentiment.

Why don't women use the "block user" function? All they gotta do is: open a new tab, click "about" tab, click block user & then delete the comments. Those functions were put there 4 a reason, so why don't they use them? It literally takes no time. Those feats were made for creeps & annoying ditches & mitches.

Also: download the video, also send yourself their profile so you can have the rest of their vids. I do think their comments are bad (anyone got any screenshot examples please?) It also helps for people to pretend to be "1 of them". It's how people like "Lots Of Love" (idk if they are a man or a woman but they get replies to their comments sometimes) & PurpleFlame (a woman roleplaying) & moms reply to her comments. Most (including moms) believe they are real.

Bottom line: yeah mitches need to stop but they can be combatted with the block user function. So why don't moms use it? They have time.

I viewed YT vids of pregnant women exposing or exhibiting their bodies they are proud of, but I don't have an urgency or tendency to comment on them, I knew for a long time I have to be careful because pregnancy is a "sensitive, serious, controversial and taboo" topic to approach or breach on. I was taught not to be rude, inappropriate or come out as a sexist chav when I express a love and admiration of her pregnant appearance: Don't say "you're huge", don't touch her without her consent and no sexualization/fetishization/objectification (keep it out of your language). And most of all, she doesn't want strangers to make any comments about her looks and be in mind the moral, ethical, PC or SJW, conservative, etiquette and legal ramifications. I know many pregnant women want to share themselves to the world because they are enjoying their stages of life when with child, but we shouldn't ruin it on social media either.

I'd say that in most cases there aren't exactly the people active-ish here who do this shit, but those are the randoms who are into this fetish and just can't control themselves to not be cringe.