(June 21, 2020, 1:51 am)tomostrife I dont honestly see the confusion. She's a married woman expecting twin babies. You say she's dressing sexy but she's really not. If she wasnt pregnant, her outifts would be completely normal, in fact given that its a mostly private channel she uses to share her life, she does dress completely normal. The variable is YOU! You find it sexy. Therefor in your mind she must be dressing sexy. Therefor in your mind she should welcome any sexually charged comments directed towards her. That is an unhealthy way of thinking. Thats the same defense rape apologists use against raping someone because she was asking for it by dressing sexy. Thats fucking gross dude. At least recognize that not every woman is some slut yearning for some internet validation of sexiness.

Its really in your best interests to figure this out. Because the only reason I post these things is because it is now blatantly obvious she doesnt like this attention. It is also blatantly obvious many creepy dudes are in fact being creepy. Do you really expect her to double down and post even lewder photos of her developing bump or do you think it far more likely that she might all together stop? I follow numerous pregnancies all the time. Been follower her since like 26 weeks or something. Every pregnancy hits right around 36 weeks or so and they picked up by the radar. The preggophile pages start sharing, random profiles start commenting hearts and flames and a good portion of those progressions dry the fuck up.

Tl:dr. Whether you understand the ethical reasoning behind it or not. Some girls dont like that attention and if people keep it up. Might mean less pics

 You’re right.

If someone asks you to stop making them uncomfortable, they shouldn't need to give you a reason why you should stop. People are entitled to their privacy and safety, including online.

(June 20, 2020, 11:34 pm)LTKNT101

(June 20, 2020, 11:19 pm)Avarics

(June 20, 2020, 11:14 pm)LTKNT101  She is dressing sexy and is clearly providing an arousing image for straight men who look at her. Telling someone they are sexy used to be a compliment. It's not the same as telling someone how much you want to have sex with them. Pointing out a particular part or "object" of the body like "saying you have beautiful eyes" is not saying that person's eyes are for sexual pleasure. The word "sexy" is not the problem because you can not even say "wow that's a beautiful belly!" without people coming at you. Maybe the world has changed because in my day telling a woman she was sexy was not a problem. In this current f'd up world you can't even open the door for a woman any more or give her any kind of compliment about her appearance without getting in trouble. Everybody wants to get but hurt about something no matter how ridiculous it is. Maybe I'm old fashioned and out of touch. Maybe you young guys know something I don't know. I apologize but you see I was born in 1977.

Or people can refrain from making these unneeded comments towards strangers? Quite simple really. It doesn’t matter when you are born. Just seems that some are more socially coherent than others. The problem we have is that MANY people associate maiesiophilia with pedophilia. That is why we are all branded creeps in with the actual ones that degrade the women. Perhaps expanding vocabulary further than seductive adjectives is a good option for you than just using “sexy” or “beautiful”. Comment all you want on here. I promote that instead of putting your deviant, lusty thoughts on her. Trust me, I sexualize pregnancy all the time in private and here, but I can separate fantasy from reality. I don’t need to comment and let her know how horny she makes me. Nobody needs to hear that unless they are both romantically involved. That’s private. Just respect her’s. Not saying that you’re one of the ones who would bother her with those comments, but you’ll enable the ones who do all the same when you defend them.

I don't understand this logic in fact, it seems quite flawed to me. A woman showing her legs is considered "sexy". If I was a woman It would be stupid of me to dress sexy post pics and expect guys to ignore how good I look. If they like women they are going to talk. It would also be ridiculous to get upset when they tell me I'm beautiful, pretty and sexy. Seriously I don't understand this world today. As long as they are not posting eggplant emojis and saying things like "I want to fuck you so bad!" What harm is being done by letting her know she is attractive in respectful ways? Oh well, this is beating a dead horse so to end on a high note and say she's right and the dude was out of pocket. SMH

Maybe it is because it is comfortable.   I dont know where she lives, nor do I care, but here today it was 114 degrees according to my Chevy.  Even my 7 months pregnant wife was wearing a bikini just to go outside.

Just in case some of you weren’t convinced as to the attention this woman has been getting. Apparently it has already gone further than the simple “YoUr BuMp Is SeXy!” comments.

Please, just look and don’t touch. Don’t ruin things for her, most importantly, and for the rest of us who silently enjoy it all. No one has any justification to say this to her or other preggos/strangers.

What a creep

(June 27, 2020, 10:16 pm)Avarics Just in case some of you weren’t convinced as to the attention this woman has been getting. Apparently it has already gone further than the simple “YoUr BuMp Is SeXy!” comments.

Please, just look and don’t touch. Don’t ruin things for her, most importantly, and for the rest of us who silently enjoy it all. No one has any justification to say this to her or other preggos/strangers.

I swear to God, if anyone on here has the nerve to defend that creeper like I’ve seen for other photos, you’re probably a creeper yourself. Part of me really hopes she makes her page private to avoid these weirdos in her DMs. Follow but don’t interact!

(June 28, 2020, 4:01 am)ib97 I swear to God, if anyone on here has the nerve to defend that creeper like I’ve seen for other photos, you’re probably a creeper yourself. Part of me really hopes she makes her page private to avoid these weirdos in her DMs. Follow but don’t interact!

At this point, making it private is probably wise. I remember one of my favorite pregnancy bloggers, Brittandlife, was harassed, stalked, and doxxed by someone who thought her pregnancy was extremely hot. But seriously, why go to these lengths? Clearly, sane people do not. I would much rather someone be safe instead of me getting to enjoy their pregnancies. If someone can’t admit that someone’s well-being is more important than getting their own jimmies rustled, there’s a mental problem going on there.

Either they are callous and enjoy taking advantage of people, or they think they’ll get more out of them if they say “ThAt BuMp Is So DaMn SeXy!” directly to them. I guess these people just need to learn to be more socially coherent and stop thinking they’re entitled to get as much of these bumps as they want.

I see that what the guy said was wrong but outing them doesn't make her any better. Just block the guy & move on. Who knows how many bad messages that guy has now & I'm sure they have more curse words than a Lil Wayne song. Looking but not touching is for museums. People should know by now that you WILL get odd stuff on social media, it is expected! They tell you to block & not out someone. There will be sexual comments for any kind of person but its up to those moms to be nice as well, dont feed the troll, ignore them.

People come online to not deal with people telling them what to do. I answer to no one when im online cus I answer to enough D bags in person. People need to start deciding what to post & what to only show friends & family. Social media is more bad than good! Back then you recorded something or took a pic of something and you showed them to friends & family who came over or youe emailed them. Maybe moms should just keep everything off social media & only to family. That would solve the problem 100% cus there cant be creepers if there's nothing to see.

(June 27, 2020, 10:16 pm)Avarics Just in case some of you weren’t convinced as to the attention this woman has been getting. Apparently it has already gone further than the simple “YoUr BuMp Is SeXy!” comments.

Please, just look and don’t touch. Don’t ruin things for her, most importantly, and for the rest of us who silently enjoy it all. No one has any justification to say this to her or other preggos/strangers.

This is way too far.

I dont understand why dudes do this. Im sure most of the people like her but what compels them to actually tell her they masturbated to her pictures? Are they expecting some sort of response? More photos? Maybe some nudes? I just dont get it. Then if and when she goes Private theyll be mad.

I think she is actually trying to reach out to other mothers as well. Check out how many different Instas she has tagged on any pic she uploads. Sadly she also got a ton of creepers along with it.

(June 28, 2020, 1:56 pm)Thechickenlawyer I see that what the guy said was wrong but outing them doesn't make her any better. Just block the guy & move on. Who knows how many bad messages that guy has now & I'm sure they have more curse words than a Lil Wayne song. Looking but not touching is for museums. People should know by now that you WILL get odd stuff on social media, it is expected!

Once again, you’re ignoring the problem. None of this is her fault. The blame is simply on people who can’t control themselves like most of us who refrain to comment about how her bump gets us aroused. I will time and time again refer people to vent their desires here instead on others IRL. Nothing here is consensual. She has her rights to persecute a creep if she wanted, even though I doubt she will. You completely ignored the fact of that girl Brittandlife shutting down almost all of her social networks, except Instagram and she made that private, because somebody found out where she lived. The same can happen to literally anyone if the creeps have the technical know-how.

Also, just stop going back to the blame game on her like you have with other preggos on social media. You consistently blame them for “dressing provocatively”. Perhaps it is time for better restraint then instead of trying to police what people wear. It’s their choice that they dress like they do, but that doesn’t entitle anyone to go bombard her with incessant comments saying she is sexy, hot, fuckable, etc. just because they want to see more. I’m willing to assume that anybody would feel the same if they were harassed like she has been. It’s not just a social network issue. It’s just people being creeps in any context, but particularly for our fetish. I’m sure plenty of men and women who are of the “influencer” archetype get shit like this all the time. There’s a difference between willingly fishing for comments and simply sharing yourself. I’m willing to say 99.9% of preggos would not enjoy this at all. It’s demeaning, disrespectful, and dehumanizing.

After all if preggos stop posting on social media, what would you do? I bet you’ve used it at some point to find nice bellies. It’s about being considerate and hiding your attraction as much as possible while not being a creep. It is best to not talk to them or comment at all, hence the “look but don’t touch” mindset. Not just for museums, folks. It’s for any person in general who has not consented to your advances.