I'm sure this will generate some interesting feedback, which is why this thread me be up temporarily. Typically I never to rarely comment my threads or posts because arguing over the internet isn't worth my time.
Nevertheless I need a second opinion here. Just like many of you I am a sucker for pregnant women offering to do videos or Skype sessions. In the past I made arrangements with a woman, made the transaction, and never heard from the woman again. In those times I felt like an idiot and was used. So I avoided it for a long while.
Recently I came across a beautiful pregnant woman who was down to Skype. After talking with her on kik for a couple of days she was talking me into doing it so I can send her money so she can eat because she only had a few dollars in her bank account. I was not available for it due to my busy schedule so I didn't send any money. She kept persisting to send the money so we could do a show later. I couldn't help but think this was like my previous experience of where I sent the money and they disappear. I wanted to make sure that she wasn't going to do that and she said she wouldn't because it would ruin her reputation.
I really wanted to do a Skype session. We finalized an agreement then made the transaction. I was ready for a much awaited session. She sent a couple of saved belly pics but after the transaction was made, she told me she was starting to get sick. Then I don't hear from her. Then she said her aunt was taking to her the store. Then I never heard from her at all.
The next day I couldn't help but feel like the same way as I felt before but only worse. I tried to make respectful non accusatory attempt to reach her to sort out this fiasco. I checked kik more than a few hours, no response. At this point in my life, I will not allow anymore people to walk over me, take advantage of me, and especially con me. If there was no show, no responses, then there should be no money. So I filed a dispute.
After filing the dispute and returning from my lunch break I noticed that she finally responded. According to the series of texts I got her bank account was overdrawn, the reason why she couldn't do the show because she had a fight with her mother, her mother kicked her out and she doesn't have a place to stay. I didn't see my money returned so the dispute I filed wasn't resolved. I didn't reply back because I don't have anything to say.
These are thoughts that run through my mind: did I screw over this woman? If I responded back and and see if she would commit to doing the session, wouldn't she do the same thing again? Why did she was she was sick then say she was with her aunt then eventually say she had a fight with her mother? Why is it that I find her attractive am obligated to provide her money when she didn't follow through with her agreement?
I just want to get it off my chest and hear opinions. I have a ton of personal problems in my life already, I know I am an asshole or whatever derogatory word you'll come up with. I am sure that some one has experienced this in some way.
Nevertheless I need a second opinion here. Just like many of you I am a sucker for pregnant women offering to do videos or Skype sessions. In the past I made arrangements with a woman, made the transaction, and never heard from the woman again. In those times I felt like an idiot and was used. So I avoided it for a long while.
Recently I came across a beautiful pregnant woman who was down to Skype. After talking with her on kik for a couple of days she was talking me into doing it so I can send her money so she can eat because she only had a few dollars in her bank account. I was not available for it due to my busy schedule so I didn't send any money. She kept persisting to send the money so we could do a show later. I couldn't help but think this was like my previous experience of where I sent the money and they disappear. I wanted to make sure that she wasn't going to do that and she said she wouldn't because it would ruin her reputation.
I really wanted to do a Skype session. We finalized an agreement then made the transaction. I was ready for a much awaited session. She sent a couple of saved belly pics but after the transaction was made, she told me she was starting to get sick. Then I don't hear from her. Then she said her aunt was taking to her the store. Then I never heard from her at all.
The next day I couldn't help but feel like the same way as I felt before but only worse. I tried to make respectful non accusatory attempt to reach her to sort out this fiasco. I checked kik more than a few hours, no response. At this point in my life, I will not allow anymore people to walk over me, take advantage of me, and especially con me. If there was no show, no responses, then there should be no money. So I filed a dispute.
After filing the dispute and returning from my lunch break I noticed that she finally responded. According to the series of texts I got her bank account was overdrawn, the reason why she couldn't do the show because she had a fight with her mother, her mother kicked her out and she doesn't have a place to stay. I didn't see my money returned so the dispute I filed wasn't resolved. I didn't reply back because I don't have anything to say.
These are thoughts that run through my mind: did I screw over this woman? If I responded back and and see if she would commit to doing the session, wouldn't she do the same thing again? Why did she was she was sick then say she was with her aunt then eventually say she had a fight with her mother? Why is it that I find her attractive am obligated to provide her money when she didn't follow through with her agreement?
I just want to get it off my chest and hear opinions. I have a ton of personal problems in my life already, I know I am an asshole or whatever derogatory word you'll come up with. I am sure that some one has experienced this in some way.
