So, I just had this idea. Do you guys ever think there are lesbians who get pregnant because they have sex with a guy out of curiosity?

I know a few.  My understanding is with IVF the risk of multiples is much higher than with regular sex.  Im good friends with a lesbian couple who made all 4 of theirs with regular sex.  I Actually had sex with the one who was pregnant.

(July 22, 2022, 1:27 am)alexnj I know a few.  My understanding is with IVF the risk of multiples is much higher than with regular sex.  Im good friends with a lesbian couple who made all 4 of theirs with regular sex.  I Actually had sex with the one who was pregnant.

When you say "I actually had sex with the one who was pregnant," does that mean you got her pregnant or does that mean you had sex with her while she was pregnant?

Also, as far as the original question is concerned, no...? I think most lesbians don't have sex with guys "out of curiosity," but even if a lesbian were to have sex with a man, she probably understands the concept of birth control/protection/etc. like the rest of us.

I wouldn't say out of curiosity, but I'm sure there are plenty who do it because the various artificial insemination methods are expensive.

(July 22, 2022, 9:47 am)BasedGd1768

(July 22, 2022, 1:27 am)alexnj I know a few.  My understanding is with IVF the risk of multiples is much higher than with regular sex.  Im good friends with a lesbian couple who made all 4 of theirs with regular sex.  I Actually had sex with the one who was pregnant.

When you say "I actually had sex with the one who was pregnant," does that mean you got her pregnant or does that mean you had sex with her while she was pregnant?

Also, as far as the original question is concerned, no...?  I think most lesbians don't have sex with guys "out of curiosity," but even if a lesbian were to have sex with a man, she probably understands the concept of birth control/protection/etc. like the rest of us.

She was already pregnant.  In terms of lesbians having sex with men to get pregnant,  it is not out of curiosity.   It is to accomplish a goal.  I do think women tend to be more bi sexual than men.   The girl I "dated" in high school is a lesbian,  but would let me fuck her on her period.   I also hooked up with a lesbian couple who answered my CL ad for period play.  Even the one who was very butch let me take a spin in her.

(July 22, 2022, 12:15 pm)alexnj

(July 22, 2022, 9:47 am)BasedGd1768

(July 22, 2022, 1:27 am)alexnj I know a few.  My understanding is with IVF the risk of multiples is much higher than with regular sex.  Im good friends with a lesbian couple who made all 4 of theirs with regular sex.  I Actually had sex with the one who was pregnant.

When you say "I actually had sex with the one who was pregnant," does that mean you got her pregnant or does that mean you had sex with her while she was pregnant?

Also, as far as the original question is concerned, no...?  I think most lesbians don't have sex with guys "out of curiosity," but even if a lesbian were to have sex with a man, she probably understands the concept of birth control/protection/etc. like the rest of us.

She was already pregnant.  In terms of lesbians having sex with men to get pregnant,  it is not out of curiosity.   It is to accomplish a goal.  I do think women tend to be more bi sexual than men.   The girl I "dated" in high school is a lesbian,  but would let me fuck her on her period.   I also hooked up with a lesbian couple who answered my CL ad for period play.  Even the one who was very butch let me take a spin in her.

I agree about women being more bisexual than men.  I don't know if there is actual scientific evidence of this, but lots of "smart" talking-heads I listen to (podcasts) say this about women.  (It's hard to say, though, because I feel like our culture is more homophobic against gay or bisexual men than it is against gay or bisexual women --- so is the difference caused by culture or biology?  Brett Weinstein, who has an evolutionary biology PhD, argues there are biological reasons women would be bisexual more often than men, but I haven't heard him give scientific evidence supporting his theory.)

So now I'm curious about your story (or stories).  So, regarding the pregnant lesbian, why did she want to have sex with you?  Were you friends already, and did she know you had a pregnancy fetish?  I always like to fantasize about situations where a pregnant women has sex with a pregnancy fetishist just as a "mercy fuck" --- imagine a pregnant lesbian who sleeps with her 18 year-old neighbor just because she's sympathetic to how hard it is to find pregnant chicks, not because she's into guys or thinks the kid is sexy, she just "grins and bears it"/"takes one for the team."  But I'm guessing the pregnant lesbian in your case was just horny and thought having sex with a guy could be fun?  Plus, if you were already friends, she thought, "Why not do him a favor"?  Did the lesbians you had "period play" with explain why they wanted to have sex with a guy? 

I would have thought that most lesbians had no interest in guys --- even as a "kinky" taboo thing --- but if you did this multiple times, maybe it's more common than I realized.  (I hang out with people who are pretty prudish unfortunately...!)  In my case, I like the idea of certain kinds of male-on-male scenarios (but never did it in real life) so I definitely get the idea that experimenting could be thrilling, even if it's not really what you are naturally attracted to.

Echoing the bisexual thing. I classify myself as bi, but there are different things I find romantically and physically attractive about different genders. I think vaginas are gross, but I am also generally more attracted to women's bodies than men's. I feel like I would be more likely to enter a long-term relationship with a woman, but I don't rule out men either. It's important to recognize that everyone is different in terms of what we're attracted to - regardless of gender - and that all of it is a spectrum. Also noting that sex for pleasure and same-sex intercourse has been observed in nature, so it's not really like we're making all this up.

Nevertheless, I will probably never (voluntarily) bring a life into this world simply because I don't want kids - keeping in mind that, by-and-large, having kids is a choice. I'm sure the number of "lesbians" (or just generally non-straight cis women) who have become pregnant by accident from having sex with cis men is a nonzero value, but it's probably so small that it's barely relevant. Seems more like a fantasy tbh.

(July 22, 2022, 12:39 pm)BasedGd1768

(July 22, 2022, 12:15 pm)alexnj

(July 22, 2022, 9:47 am)BasedGd1768

(July 22, 2022, 1:27 am)alexnj I know a few.  My understanding is with IVF the risk of multiples is much higher than with regular sex.  Im good friends with a lesbian couple who made all 4 of theirs with regular sex.  I Actually had sex with the one who was pregnant.

When you say "I actually had sex with the one who was pregnant," does that mean you got her pregnant or does that mean you had sex with her while she was pregnant?

Also, as far as the original question is concerned, no...?  I think most lesbians don't have sex with guys "out of curiosity," but even if a lesbian were to have sex with a man, she probably understands the concept of birth control/protection/etc. like the rest of us.

She was already pregnant.  In terms of lesbians having sex with men to get pregnant,  it is not out of curiosity.   It is to accomplish a goal.  I do think women tend to be more bi sexual than men.   The girl I "dated" in high school is a lesbian,  but would let me fuck her on her period.   I also hooked up with a lesbian couple who answered my CL ad for period play.  Even the one who was very butch let me take a spin in her.

I agree about women being more bisexual than men.  I don't know if there is actual scientific evidence of this, but lots of "smart" talking-heads I listen to (podcasts) say this about women.  (It's hard to say, though, because I feel like our culture is more homophobic against gay or bisexual men than it is against gay or bisexual women --- so is the difference caused by culture or biology?  Brett Weinstein, who has an evolutionary biology PhD, argues there are biological reasons women would be bisexual more often than men, but I haven't heard him give scientific evidence supporting his theory.)

So now I'm curious about your story (or stories).  So, regarding the pregnant lesbian, why did she want to have sex with you?  Were you friends already, and did she know you had a pregnancy fetish?  I always like to fantasize about situations where a pregnant women has sex with a pregnancy fetishist just as a "mercy fuck" --- imagine a pregnant lesbian who sleeps with her 18 year-old neighbor just because she's sympathetic to how hard it is to find pregnant chicks, not because she's into guys or thinks the kid is sexy, she just "grins and bears it"/"takes one for the team."  But I'm guessing the pregnant lesbian in your case was just horny and thought having sex with a guy could be fun?  Plus, if you were already friends, she thought, "Why not do him a favor"?  Did the lesbians you had "period play" with explain why they wanted to have sex with a guy? 

I would have thought that most lesbians had no interest in guys --- even as a "kinky" taboo thing --- but if you did this multiple times, maybe it's more common than I realized.  (I hang out with people who are pretty prudish unfortunately...!)  In my case, I like the idea of certain kinds of male-on-male scenarios (but never did it in real life) so I definitely get the idea that experimenting could be thrilling, even if it's not really what you are naturally attracted to.

The pregnant lesbians,  I met them doing ticket sales for my semi pro lacrosse team.   We were at the local supermarket and the pregnant one came out while the wife was paying, it must of been 95 degrees out.     I was talking to her and she asked if she could try on my jersey which is goalie cut.  I'm 6'4 240 and this thing is 100 sizes to big on me.  I let her try the jersey on aand you couldn't tell she was pregnant.  They came to the game, and afterwards we started talking and they could see I was attracted to her.    They asked if I would be willing to fuck her to try to start labor.  I'm actually still good friends with them, and they were actually the last pussy orr ass I stuck my dick in before I met my wife

(July 22, 2022, 7:24 pm)alexnj

(July 22, 2022, 12:39 pm)BasedGd1768

(July 22, 2022, 12:15 pm)alexnj

(July 22, 2022, 9:47 am)BasedGd1768

(July 22, 2022, 1:27 am)alexnj I know a few.  My understanding is with IVF the risk of multiples is much higher than with regular sex.  Im good friends with a lesbian couple who made all 4 of theirs with regular sex.  I Actually had sex with the one who was pregnant.

When you say "I actually had sex with the one who was pregnant," does that mean you got her pregnant or does that mean you had sex with her while she was pregnant?

Also, as far as the original question is concerned, no...?  I think most lesbians don't have sex with guys "out of curiosity," but even if a lesbian were to have sex with a man, she probably understands the concept of birth control/protection/etc. like the rest of us.

She was already pregnant.  In terms of lesbians having sex with men to get pregnant,  it is not out of curiosity.   It is to accomplish a goal.  I do think women tend to be more bi sexual than men.   The girl I "dated" in high school is a lesbian,  but would let me fuck her on her period.   I also hooked up with a lesbian couple who answered my CL ad for period play.  Even the one who was very butch let me take a spin in her.

I agree about women being more bisexual than men.  I don't know if there is actual scientific evidence of this, but lots of "smart" talking-heads I listen to (podcasts) say this about women.  (It's hard to say, though, because I feel like our culture is more homophobic against gay or bisexual men than it is against gay or bisexual women --- so is the difference caused by culture or biology?  Brett Weinstein, who has an evolutionary biology PhD, argues there are biological reasons women would be bisexual more often than men, but I haven't heard him give scientific evidence supporting his theory.)

So now I'm curious about your story (or stories).  So, regarding the pregnant lesbian, why did she want to have sex with you?  Were you friends already, and did she know you had a pregnancy fetish?  I always like to fantasize about situations where a pregnant women has sex with a pregnancy fetishist just as a "mercy fuck" --- imagine a pregnant lesbian who sleeps with her 18 year-old neighbor just because she's sympathetic to how hard it is to find pregnant chicks, not because she's into guys or thinks the kid is sexy, she just "grins and bears it"/"takes one for the team."  But I'm guessing the pregnant lesbian in your case was just horny and thought having sex with a guy could be fun?  Plus, if you were already friends, she thought, "Why not do him a favor"?  Did the lesbians you had "period play" with explain why they wanted to have sex with a guy? 

I would have thought that most lesbians had no interest in guys --- even as a "kinky" taboo thing --- but if you did this multiple times, maybe it's more common than I realized.  (I hang out with people who are pretty prudish unfortunately...!)  In my case, I like the idea of certain kinds of male-on-male scenarios (but never did it in real life) so I definitely get the idea that experimenting could be thrilling, even if it's not really what you are naturally attracted to.

The pregnant lesbians,  I met them doing ticket sales for my semi pro lacrosse team.   We were at the local supermarket and the pregnant one came out while the wife was paying, it must of been 95 degrees out.     I was talking to her and she asked if she could try on my jersey which is goalie cut.  I'm 6'4 240 and this thing is 100 sizes to big on me.  I let her try the jersey on aand you couldn't tell she was pregnant.  They came to the game, and afterwards we started talking and they could see I was attracted to her.    They asked if I would be willing to fuck her to try to start labor.  I'm actually still good friends with them, and they were actually the last pussy orr ass I stuck my dick in before I met my wife

Wow this thread went off the rails….even if there’s some good stories and such here…

Lesbian here. I've had sex with men in my life, but didn't do it to get pregnant.

Sex with men doesn't repulse me but I don't particularly enjoy it and have no desire to do it again, which is why I don't do it anymore. If lesbians do have sex with men to conceive it's because they can't afford IUI/IVF or find at-home insemination difficult (single, don't want to use frozen sperm, can't have a donor on call, etc.)