I have a love/hate relationship with my pregnancy fetish. On one hand, I love having this fetish and nothing gets me off more than a woman with a big pregnant belly. On the other hand, I feel like it's weird, perverted and abnormal. I found out about it when I was about 14-15 years old, and I’ve always gotten weird looks from those I’ve told about it. That on top of learning to not trust people in general made me feel like having a pregnancy fetish is a bad thing.

Now, I don't know what to feel. I don't know where having this fetish will get me in the long run.

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Plus, having a baby is a very intimate thing, usually between two people in committed relationship, so it's almost an invasion of privacy to be turned on by it (unless it's one or both of them). At the same time, it's not like there's an endless supply of stuff that appeals directly to us. (Let's face it: a good majority of the stuff we get off on was not intended for that purpose.)

I know the feeling. I've only admitted it to a few friends who mostly just gave me shit about it when we would be out and spot a pregnant woman, but now one of them has a pregnant wife, and it just feels awkward because I'm sure she knows about my interest. I of course would never consider doing anything with the wife of a friend, and I've always explained it as similar to a guy having a preference for large breasts or a big ass. It's not like I'm only attracted to pregnant women, I just find them particularly attractive. The great irony is that I'm pretty sure I never want anything to do with kids, so I'm either going to have to hit the goldmine with a great girl who wants to be a surrogate, or try to live out my fantasy with someone before I get into a serious relationship.

I went on a vacation by myself a couple of years ago far enough away from home to not run into anybody I know even online, so I set up a profile on a couple of dating sites like OkCupid and POF basically advertising that I was interested in hooking up with a pregnant girl. I certainly didn't give myself a high probability of success, but at least there wouldn't be any confusion as to what I was looking for. Unfortunately the only two that were actually within reasonable driving distance were, shall we say, not my type. I interacted with a few that were too far away to do anything with, but just for the sake of seeing what they thought. The responses were generally positive and one even said they would totally meet up if I wasn't 2000 miles away. Whether or not that was true, and whether or not "meet up" mean have sex is of course debatable, but it was nice to hear. The negative responses however came from non-pregnant women who I guess just came across my profiles while searching and felt the need to message me just to tell me how sick I was.

I think there's a fair number of people that think the pregnancy fetish has something to do with the actual fetus which could not be further from the truth for me. The less I think about what's actually going on in there, the better. And I guess others assume that guys with that fetish would have no issues with leading a pregnant woman on and convincing her they're serious about a relationship only to get to a point where they're having sex and bail before the baby comes which is another thing I wouldn't dream of doing. I've also never gone and will never go the pay route. No judgement if you do, I just can't see myself enjoying sex if I know there's a good chance that the other party just views it as a transaction.

So basically I guess I, like most people with this "affliction", am looking for that fictitious pregnant woman that you find in the erotic stories that's in her second trimester, single and planning to stay that way, and is just looking for a guy to hang out with/have sex with. Good luck to us all I guess haha.

I too felt the same way at times, I used to think it was a weird fetish to have and was not normal but then I realised it was only that 'a fetish'.
Most people have a fetish of some sort and it is perfectly natural as long as you don't let it take over your life.
Unfortunately there will always be people that think there is something wrong with you if they know you have a particular fetish because it goes against the norm and is something they cannot understand. I believe as far as fetishes go however this one is actually quite tame compared to some of the other fetishes that are out there; after all a pregnant woman is a natural thing.

I will accept that our fetish is one of the more unusual examples. I'll say that much... I think for that reason, people will look at it oddly or will genuinely feel that it's somehow 'wrong'. I think they do fundamentally misinterpret it as a fetish what is actually inside the womb. Now, I find that rather odd as all you can actually see is the pregnant woman unless we have ultrasound vision - so I struggle to understand how such dismissive people can even begin to back their argument up. They are literally reading between the lines... This is why I personally keep the fetish to myself (barring you guys, of course) as I know it'll be misinterpreted and unless I meet a lady who I feel will understand, it'll be something I'll be taking to my grave with me. I accepted that a long time ago...

I certainly don't feel bad about myself for having this fetish. It's who I am. For me, I know it's purely about the pregnancy and nothing else.

I've had this fetish from an early age (started out as simple belly expansion/inflation) and it was pretty much ground into me by the time I reached my latter teens. As I've said in the past on here, I tend to go through 'phases' with this pregnancy fetish. There are times I'll go days or even weeks without even looking it up. Then I can go pretty much an entire month where I struggle to last a day without looking at pictures of pregnant women - in private of course. I'm not even aware of any obvious triggers to this either...

I've told a few girls I was "talking to" about it and they were fine with it. I never had anyone tell me it was gross or wrong. Of course I have never had any luck getting a girlfriend, but my pregnancy fetish hasn't had anything to do with it. They all seemed fine with it, and in fact one girl even told me every guy likes pregnant girls.

And as for the effects of the fetish in the long term, I don't see it as being a problem. It wouldn't interfere with my ability to have a monogamous long term relationship. I think if I had a girlfriend of my own I may have less of a desire to be with other women, pregnant or not.

(March 27, 2016, 8:42 pm)LovePreggies I've told a few girls I was "talking to" about it and they were fine with it. I never had anyone tell me it was gross or wrong. Of course I have never had any luck getting a girlfriend, but my pregnancy fetish hasn't had anything to do with it. They all seemed fine with it, and in fact one girl even told me every guy likes pregnant girls.

And as for the effects of the fetish in the long term, I don't see it as being a problem. It wouldn't interfere with my ability to have a monogamous long term relationship. I think if I had a girlfriend of my own I may have less of a desire to be with other women, pregnant or not.

Honestly, when I asked where this would get me in the long run, I meant what could I do to contribute to this community to help it grow or at least to just give back. I want to give back any way I can because I feel like this is the only place I really belong to...

I have been conscious of this fetish for 15 plus years and have never told a soul about it. I find it a burden and a curse as it takes away from the relationship I have had with a girl for 5 plus years. For the majority of the time we've been together, the fetish was a detail fluttering in the background. The sex was great and I felt I had buried it. However, before her, I had an absolutely crazy girlfriend who was equally gorgeous. She got pregnant during a time where she was still real young but we were no longer dating, just hanging out a lot. It got weird as she liked the attention she was getting from me but was fucking other guys because she was so horny. I like to think if we could have hooked up it would have put an end to my fantasy but I'm sure it would have made it worse. To this day I still fantasize about her but wish I didn't. Nothing would be better than to move on from it, but as you all know, there is no fix to these things, just self control.

Sometimes I wish I could just get rid of this fetish, but at the end of the day, we're not defined as people by just our sexual preferences. If all the "normal" people out their were forced to wear their own kinks and such on their sleeves, you'd find that many of them aren't as "normal" as you thought. And that's okay, too.

I could not agree more with Cupid's post.

Having gone out with a few women I find its really not that big of ass deal I thought it would be.

I have no problems irl, but if I want a good fap I know what to look for. It's honestly not that bad.

(March 27, 2016, 9:14 pm)belliesrlovely

(March 27, 2016, 8:42 pm)LovePreggies I've told a few girls I was "talking to" about it and they were fine with it. I never had anyone tell me it was gross or wrong. Of course I have never had any luck getting a girlfriend, but my pregnancy fetish hasn't had anything to do with it. They all seemed fine with it, and in fact one girl even told me every guy likes pregnant girls.

And as for the effects of the fetish in the long term, I don't see it as being a problem. It wouldn't interfere with my ability to have a monogamous long term relationship. I think if I had a girlfriend of my own I may have less of a desire to be with other women, pregnant or not.

Honestly, when I asked where this would get me in the long run, I meant what could I do to contribute to this community to help it grow or at least to just give back. I want to give back any way I can because I feel like this is the only place I really belong to...

We love original pictures. ;-)

People fall along a spectrum with this fetish. I'm not exclusively attracted to pregnant females. Heck, I'm not mainly attracted to pregnant females but I definitely appreciate them (understatement). This might explain why it's not much of a problem for me. If you really want a pregnant woman, I'd suggest getting a broad pregnant OR locating one on a dating site (there are more than you think).

For dating, approach them from the angle of (a) I'm doing you a favor, I'll date you despite your condition or (b) I'm infertile and can't have children of my own. The second option is sleazy but would be effective. Break it off shortly before birth. Disclosing a preference for pregnancy will not be well-received.