I'm curious as to which dating app you saw her on. I just posted a topic in relation to this here.
And don't beat yourself up, there's a very good reason why you swiped left.
You've dodged a bullet here friend.
Perhaps there was something about the way her profile looked that didn't look right to you.

I'm currently in a similar dilemma trying to debate whether or not I want to meet this pregnant woman I've known for several years now. We met through Feabie, which is 50% dating site, 50% social network for people who are into feederism and fat admiration. She knows about my kink for pregnancies after her first back in 2018, so that's not a problem. Freaky as hell too, as she openly has told me how much of a nymphomaniac she's been and still is to this day. The downside? She's too far away, so one of us has to fly out to the other's hometown. She's also had a toxic relationship and friendship in the past. If I give meet her, it'd be nothing more than having her around for some food, the fun of seeing a new city for one of us, and good sex. I'm concerned with potentially leading her on to the belief that we could be together, even if we've built up enough trust , because I KNOW I don't want to be with a woman with kids from some other guy.

(May 19, 2021, 2:10 am)ThatHotPlate I'm currently in a similar dilemma trying to debate whether or not I want to meet this pregnant woman I've known for several years now. We met through Feabie, which is 50% dating site, 50% social network for people who are into feederism and fat admiration. She knows about my kink for pregnancies after her first back in 2018, so that's not a problem. Freaky as hell too, as she openly has told me how much of a nymphomaniac she's been and still is to this day. The downside? She's too far away, so one of us has to fly out to the other's hometown. She's also had a toxic relationship and friendship in the past. If I give meet her, it'd be nothing more than having her around for some food, the fun of seeing a new city for one of us, and good sex. I'm concerned with potentially leading her on to the belief that we could be together, even if we've built up enough trust , because I KNOW I don't want to be with a woman with kids from some other guy.

Have you considered telling her where you stand so she can give you her thoughts? You're making the decision for her (about whether she would like to have a fling) without getting her input.

(May 19, 2021, 3:38 am)Akhenaten Have you considered telling her where you stand so she can give you her thoughts? You're making the decision for her (about whether she would like to have a fling) without getting her input.

We've discussed it in within the last 6-8 months as far as a mutual desire to meet and fling. Now that you mention it, my gut move would be to ask again and see if we can truly make plans. For what it's worth (or maybe not at all), she's given me fantasy talk of the stuff she'd do for/with me from lap dances to BJs and she's usually turned off by that from guys approaching her online. Could just be her crazy horny self being DTF at any moment in time, but also could mean I'm an exception to the rule if I can get her to talk about wanting to fling so badly.

(May 19, 2021, 7:26 am)ThatHotPlate We've discussed it in within the last 6-8 months as far as a mutual desire to meet and fling. Now that you mention it, my gut move would be to ask again and see if we can truly make plans. For what it's worth (or maybe not at all), she's given me fantasy talk of the stuff she'd do for/with me from lap dances to BJs and she's usually turned off by that from guys approaching her online. Could just be her crazy horny self being DTF at any moment in time, but also could mean I'm an exception to the rule if I can get her to talk about wanting to fling so badly.

Yeah, that could be worth a shot. You know the saying: people regret the things they didn't do more than the things they did do. Well, usually...

(May 19, 2021, 11:48 am)Akhenaten

(May 19, 2021, 7:26 am)ThatHotPlate We've discussed it in within the last 6-8 months as far as a mutual desire to meet and fling. Now that you mention it, my gut move would be to ask again and see if we can truly make plans. For what it's worth (or maybe not at all), she's given me fantasy talk of the stuff she'd do for/with me from lap dances to BJs and she's usually turned off by that from guys approaching her online. Could just be her crazy horny self being DTF at any moment in time, but also could mean I'm an exception to the rule if I can get her to talk about wanting to fling so badly.

Yeah, that could be worth a shot. You know the saying: people regret the things they didn't do more than the things they did do. Well, usually...

Update on my situation: so I got the approval from her that she'd be down to meet. Financial situation aside, I'm debating whether or not to push it back a month or two. I was aiming for the end of July, but she couldn't get that weekend off. On the other hand, her boss offered her a few days off in the middle of that same week. So now, it's down to logistics for me....and how badly I want to make this happen. I can live if I have to cancel or postpone plans, but then again, an opportunity to fuck a pregnant woman is RARE and I'd be passing up on having the chance to take advantage of my biggest fetish without question.