This is becoming a serious problem...Whenever I'm in public, if I see a pregnant woman my eyes are instantly glued to her belly. Just today, there were two MASSIVELY pregnant cashiers at Sheetz, and I don't think I ever made eye contact with either one of them for more than half a second. Normally I wouldn't whine about it, but I've been dating a girl for a while now. I absolutely adore her and feel guilty if I so much as glance at another woman (even if she's not there with me). I think I'm falling in love with her, and I don't want to mess things up. I haven't told her about my fetish yet, and I don't know how she'll react. I really don't want to her find out by watching me stare and lust over a random woman's pregnant belly...I know this may not be the best place to ask this, but does anyone here have any tips?

I normally just pretend they're fat. This won't work on the really big ones though.

However don't feel guilty, its a natural thing to do. I'm sure your GF does the same thing.

I don't want to come off as flippant or rude, but the only way I know how to say it is:

Man up.

Mind over matter, control your body (eyes) with your mind.

Tell yourself to stop looking, and then make yourself stop. Eye contact. Same thing when a woman has her cleavage hanging out in front of you. You tell yourself to stop looking at her boobs and then you give her eye contact. Remind yourself that she is a real person, that her belly isn't just an "object".

Perhaps just make yourself look somewhere else if it's too hard to keep eye contact without risking a glance. Look at your wallet, the cash register screen, look at someone else when you hear them talking in the other queue - make it appear that you're just casually glancing around.

I do understand what you're talking about, I think every single one of us here understands (that's why we are on this forum).

P.S.: You feel a little guilty about looking at other women while you're in a relationship - that's fine and normal. Your girlfriend isn't stupid, she knows that you're a guy and you're going to be caught off guard at some time or another. While you're with your girlfriend, the important part is not to let your eyes linger - your girlfriend is more important than getting that last glance in at the lady's butt as she walks away.

The older I get (I'm 30 next month), the more self-control I've been able to achieve. I’ve been quite proud of what I’ve been able to ignore in recent years, actually. Things that I know I would have genuinely struggled to ignore ten/twelve years ago.

For instance, I've been in my current job for four and a half years. In that time, I've witnessed four full pregnancies with women I work in the same office as. Two of which I'll openly admit did have very attractive pre-pregnancy figures before-hand. Infact, you could call it five pregnancies, but that one was for a matter of days after I started before she left on maternity leave.

At the end of the day, I have to work with these people and it's not worth the bother of being 'caught out'. Fortunately my decision on doing my most not to look, or look for too long, is made easier by the fact that my work-station has my monitor placed in the corner, so I do have to physically turn look. Of course I do listen-in to any pregnancy related discussion (and there’s been several), but I merely pretend I'm not listening. Infact, I know one discussion did inspire me on one of the stories I posted up a while ago.

On the latest pregnancy (she left two weeks ago on maternity leave), I can truthfully say that I only looked at the bulge of her belly pulling her t-shirt skin-tight a handful of times. Infact, I don't think I actually looked at her at all during the final week she worked. I knew if I did, I probably would have risked being ‘caught out’.

As things stand, I'm relationship-free so my conscience is clear as and when I do have a 'sneaky peak' whenever I'm out and about...!

I haven't got this kind of problem, but why to look/watch if she is unreachable anyway?