i can't waste my time hating on small children, if you do, you should probably spend your time and energy on something else since it won't get you anywhere.

(December 12, 2019, 4:05 pm)AquaL i can't waste my time hating on small children, if you do, you should probably spend your time and energy on something else since it won't get you anywhere.

OK... but the point of the thread is "hey, yo, you got an opinion on this?" and most of us do, one way or the other, so we state it. Technically, someone who does like kids is wasting just as much time as someone who doesn't like kids if they're participating in this thread. None of this "gets" anyone anywhere. But for those of us who feel marginalized and pressured by a society (or an entire world, really) that says how wonderful parenthood is and how we should all aspire to take part in the phenomenon, it is very nice to see that there are others who feel as we do even in light of our pregnancy fetish. And because we are generally in the minority, I would kindly ask that the rest of you pretty much not shit on us for it.

(December 13, 2019, 2:10 pm)Akhenaten

(December 12, 2019, 4:05 pm)AquaL i can't waste my time hating on small children, if you do, you should probably spend your time and energy on something else since it won't get you anywhere.

OK... but the point of the thread is "hey, yo, you got an opinion on this?" and most of us do, one way or the other, so we state it. Technically, someone who does like kids is wasting just as much time as someone who doesn't like kids if they're participating in this thread. None of this "gets" anyone anywhere. But for those of us who feel marginalized and pressured by a society (or an entire world, really) that says how wonderful parenthood is and how we should all aspire to take part in the phenomenon, it is very nice to see that there are others who feel as we do even in light of our pregnancy fetish. And because we are generally in the minority, I would kindly ask that the rest of you pretty much not shit on us for it.

thank you @Akhenaten... i've been childfree by choice for a long time, so it's a bit of conundrum having a pregnancy fetish. nice to see some others feel the same.

kids are fine... for others. i helped take care of my old friends kids for a couple spells as a roommate/live in nanny. it was a great experience. do i ever want kids? hard no.

it's hard enough having a fetish that gets mocked, and is seen as deviant. throw in the lack of desire for offspring, and it becomes doubly ostracising.

(December 13, 2019, 2:10 pm)Akhenaten OK... but the point of the thread is "hey, yo, you got an opinion on this?" and most of us do, one way or the other, so we state it. Technically, someone who does like kids is wasting just as much time as someone who doesn't like kids if they're participating in this thread. None of this "gets" anyone anywhere. But for those of us who feel marginalized and pressured by a society (or an entire world, really) that says how wonderful parenthood is and how we should all aspire to take part in the phenomenon, it is very nice to see that there are others who feel as we do even in light of our pregnancy fetish. And because we are generally in the minority, I would kindly ask that the rest of you pretty much not shit on us for it.

If we're being honest here, I've generally been seeing the opposite here ever since I joined this site almost 5 years ago. Of course when you have a "DAE here hate kids" posts, you're gonna have a handful of people who's going to oppose it. It happens with literally everything online. And even so, I've counted less than 10 people on this thread who likes kids out of literal thousands of users on this site who potentially don't. So you're definitely not in the minority here.

I was referring more to the world at large, which pushes parenthood on people relentlessly. Finding a little refuge (much like this site already is for us preggophiles) is nice!