(September 6, 2017, 1:24 am)Koolken256 I have touched the bellies of pregnant women I don't always know or seen a lot. not recently though. it's always best though to ask a friend who may be pregnant. I would first say this: DON'T SEE THEM AS OBJECTS! really, that's always a huge mistakes I been seeing around here. It's like commenting on a pic or video of a pregnant who is not doing porn. Most people here would say don't do it, but really, just have some common sense and don't act like a creep about it. I honestly befriend her, I don't always think 'Man I want to have sex with her/ touch her belly' I just try to be nice, I keep in contact with them long after their pregnancy, so sometimes I get messages that their pregnant again. But back to how to Approach girls who are pregnant. While you can look, be sure you are really getting to know her to honestly befriend her. Don't act weird about, and ask over time, might be days, might be weeks., might be a while longer, just don't force it on them, act like an asshole, think of women as objects, and so on, if you wouldn't do to a person who isn't pregnant, then don't do it to a pregnant woman

I understand if anyone disagrees with me, but this is my view of it

P.S: also try not to ask for pics/videos, that is creepy sometimes.

Sometimes this is not very easy to do, especially when desperation creeps in. Plus I'm a shut-in so befriending a pregnant woman is not as easy to do as I'd like for it to be.

1. Damn son the 5'O got called. If that happened to me I'd be on the news & there'd be a warrant out for my arrest. (because of my race).

It is hard to come to them, especially with men around. You also have to look the part, don't look like you ran a 10k. Maybe try talking to them like "That is a nice shirt you have on, such a nice color" and maybe pretend to be interested in fashion design. Women like fashion and they like when people say they look good.

2. I am amazed that preggohero (idk if that's the right name) got to film & touch all those bellies. I get lucky sometimes. I volunteer at a food bank and I met 2 pregnant women. I waited until the rest of the volunteers left. I asked her if I could speak to her. She looked suspicious at 1st but then we had fun. the 1st girl was 5 months, white & the 2nd also white was 6 months. I got to rub & press on their bellies. I even tickled the 2nd woman's belly (where her baby's head was at) & I felt her baby kick.

I've seen a lot and gotten lucky. I act like I'm texting when I am really taking a pic or short video. The trick is to look inconspicuous.

3. My mom's and sisters bellies got & still get touched a lot. (mostly by women) a few days ago a girl (16-17) asked if she could feel her belly, my mom lifted her shirt up & the girl rubbed & kissed her belly. she got excited when they babies kicked. Her belly gets felt a lot wherever we go. I have been around some her her friends when they were pregnant and it was awesome. The husbands didn't mind cus they didn't care. I got to rub their bellies a lot and use their home dopplers and I made their babies move a lot. It is hard trying to get pregnant women to talk to us without paying them. Someday they will be more open.

First of all, how far along are your mother and sister?

Secondly, looking inconspicuous is about as easy as recording a hit country music song with, say, the Ying Yang Twins, with four adults and a child watching my every single move. I have to sneak around to do it, which causes me to look like I ran a 5K - and, as the old saying goes, "If you have to sneak around to do it, don't do it."

I think I'm done approaching pregnant women, at least for now. I have an online relationship that I'm trying to develop into an IRL meeting and then eventual marriage - and babies! - later. I'm still unsure of how things are gonna go between me and her. But until I get my own place and have more freedom to do whatever I want, I'm just not gonna risk it.

Congrats to your mom and sister! Becoming a big brother again - and becoming an uncle - at the same time is an awesome thing.

(September 6, 2017, 5:59 pm)preggoluvr4286 First of all, how far along are your mother and sister?

Secondly, looking inconspicuous is about as easy as recording a hit country music song with, say, the Ying Yang Twins, with four adults and a child watching my every single move. I have to sneak around to do it, which causes me to look like I ran a 5K - and, as the old saying goes, "If you have to sneak around to do it, don't do it."

I think I'm done approaching pregnant women, at least for now. I have an online relationship that I'm trying to develop into an IRL meeting and then eventual marriage - and babies! - later. I'm still unsure of how things are gonna go between me and her. But until I get my own place and have more freedom to do whatever I want, I'm just not gonna risk it.

Congrats to your mom and sister! Becoming a big brother again - and becoming an uncle - at the same time is an awesome thing.

Their 6 months and huge. My mom is having triplets again and my sister is javing twins. Their surrogates. They could make good $ but they turn it down. Its easy to not be noticed. People are always barried in their phones so look like ur texting and film them. Bring the phone up a little and make it look like ur moving ur fingers. And a goood saying goes: "if your gunna do something wrong do it right dont get caught"

I filmed a video of a whote preg cashier in Target while making it look like im texting. My mom and sister are the only ones that know about my love for pregnancy. I hide it from everyone else. Ill have to watch videos in my own room later in life when I get a woman. Donr give on pregs. Just fins a way to not get caught.theres a way somewhere.

Surrogates? Wow! I didn't think about that. That's awesome!

Right now I need to focus on other things. There's too much going on for me to even think straight. I do hope that I can be in the perfect situation someday to approach a pregnant woman. I just know it's not going to be within the next three to four months.

Thanks for the advice, man!

Here's another angle to the situation - my desire to touch a bump has led to frustration and anger, causing fights between me and my family. I've gotten in several rages because I wasn't allowed to approach pregnant women. I am beyond upset and heartbroken because it looks like I might never be allowed to touch another bump again in my life, and I might not be able to do anything at all about it except to just accept it and live with it the rest of my life.

With that angle, how am I supposed to deal with the fact that touching another bump might not happen for me?

(September 6, 2017, 9:56 pm)preggoluvr4286 Here's another angle to the situation - my desire to touch a bump has led to frustration and anger, causing fights between me and my family. I've gotten in several rages because I wasn't allowed to approach pregnant women. I am beyond upset and heartbroken because it looks like I might never be allowed to touch another bump again in my life, and I might not be able to do anything at all about it except to just accept it and live with it the rest of my life.

With that angle, how am I supposed to deal with the fact that touching another bump might not happen for me?

Man, I don't know what's going on there, but I think you need to sit and contemplate how you let your desires manifest. I applaud you for your ability to be open and honest not only with yourself but with a bunch of strangers, but -- it sounds like you're dealing with some serious social and interpersonal impairments there. Anger, fights, police... slow down so you don't get in too deep.

(September 6, 2017, 10:03 pm)Akhenaten

(September 6, 2017, 9:56 pm)preggoluvr4286 Here's another angle to the situation - my desire to touch a bump has led to frustration and anger, causing fights between me and my family. I've gotten in several rages because I wasn't allowed to approach pregnant women. I am beyond upset and heartbroken because it looks like I might never be allowed to touch another bump again in my life, and I might not be able to do anything at all about it except to just accept it and live with it the rest of my life.

With that angle, how am I supposed to deal with the fact that touching another bump might not happen for me?

Man, I don't know what's going on there, but I think you need to sit and contemplate how you let your desires manifest. I applaud you for your ability to be open and honest not only with yourself but with a bunch of strangers, but -- it sounds like you're dealing with some serious social and interpersonal impairments there. Anger, fights, police... slow down so you don't get in too deep.

You're right. I do have some serious social and interpersonal impairments (autism) and have for years. I think I might need to slow down and figure out what to do and where to go from here. I can't do this anymore and I know I need help in dealing with people in general.

(September 6, 2017, 10:58 pm)preggoluvr4286

(September 6, 2017, 10:03 pm)Akhenaten

(September 6, 2017, 9:56 pm)preggoluvr4286 Here's another angle to the situation - my desire to touch a bump has led to frustration and anger, causing fights between me and my family. I've gotten in several rages because I wasn't allowed to approach pregnant women. I am beyond upset and heartbroken because it looks like I might never be allowed to touch another bump again in my life, and I might not be able to do anything at all about it except to just accept it and live with it the rest of my life.

With that angle, how am I supposed to deal with the fact that touching another bump might not happen for me?

Man, I don't know what's going on there, but I think you need to sit and contemplate how you let your desires manifest. I applaud you for your ability to be open and honest not only with yourself but with a bunch of strangers, but -- it sounds like you're dealing with some serious social and interpersonal impairments there. Anger, fights, police... slow down so you don't get in too deep.

You're right. I do have some serious social and interpersonal impairments (autism) and have for years. I think I might need to slow down and figure out what to do and where to go from here. I can't do this anymore and I know I need help in dealing with people in general.

I have a mild form of autism myself, then there's a part of me as a genderfluid person (I'm a heterosexual biological male), I consider myself a feminist since I care about women's issues (pregnancy is among them)... and finally the importance of manners and social graces. TBH, I never felt a pregnant belly in most of the millennia (17 years to date), but if I did, they we're friends or my bro's ex-GF before my nephew was born. In age 37, I have to be more careful on how I approach, introduce myself or give the first impression to women.

3 things to bring up on this topic.
1. Don't intentionally approach them, esp. in places pregnant women don't expect to talk to people...about their pregnancy or anything.

2. In public functions or situations, don't make her pregnancy the main issue on why you want to talk to her.

And 3. best not to touch their bellies, don't ask a complete stranger to touch any part of the body...most likely she won't allow it.

The internet may be the best tool to meet women who either have a pregnancy fetish themselves (not many) or are seeking a man to talk to, primarily friendship (they have their reasons). But, you sought to meet them in person...which isn't really possible, they can be shy or concerned on their own safety. And most of all, if you work or attend church, you would have to really behave properly around a pregnant woman...so you won't get fired plus in legal trouble or thrown out of church, esp. for something considered sinful in organized religion.

(September 7, 2017, 12:35 am)IntoPreggos

(September 6, 2017, 10:58 pm)preggoluvr4286

(September 6, 2017, 10:03 pm)Akhenaten

(September 6, 2017, 9:56 pm)preggoluvr4286 Here's another angle to the situation - my desire to touch a bump has led to frustration and anger, causing fights between me and my family. I've gotten in several rages because I wasn't allowed to approach pregnant women. I am beyond upset and heartbroken because it looks like I might never be allowed to touch another bump again in my life, and I might not be able to do anything at all about it except to just accept it and live with it the rest of my life.

With that angle, how am I supposed to deal with the fact that touching another bump might not happen for me?

Man, I don't know what's going on there, but I think you need to sit and contemplate how you let your desires manifest. I applaud you for your ability to be open and honest not only with yourself but with a bunch of strangers, but -- it sounds like you're dealing with some serious social and interpersonal impairments there. Anger, fights, police... slow down so you don't get in too deep.

You're right. I do have some serious social and interpersonal impairments (autism) and have for years. I think I might need to slow down and figure out what to do and where to go from here. I can't do this anymore and I know I need help in dealing with people in general.

I have a mild form of autism myself, then there's a part of me as a genderfluid person (I'm a heterosexual biological male), I consider myself a feminist since I care about women's issues (pregnancy is among them)... and finally the importance of manners and social graces. TBH, I never felt a pregnant belly in most of the millennia (17 years to date), but if I did, they we're friends or my bro's ex-GF before my nephew was born. In age 37, I have to be more careful on how I approach, introduce myself or give the first impression to women.

3 things to bring up on this topic.
1. Don't intentionally approach them, esp. in places pregnant women don't expect to talk to people...about their pregnancy or anything.

2. In public functions or situations, don't make her pregnancy the main issue on why you want to talk to her.

And 3. best not to touch their bellies, don't ask a complete stranger to touch any part of the body...most likely she won't allow it.

The internet may be the best tool to meet women who either have a pregnancy fetish themselves (not many) or are seeking a man to talk to, primarily friendship (they have their reasons). But, you sought to meet them in person...which isn't really possible, they can be shy or concerned on their own safety. And most of all, if you work or attend church, you would have to really behave properly around a pregnant woman...so you won't get fired plus in legal trouble or thrown out of church, esp. for something considered sinful in organized religion.

You're right that there's not a lot of women with this fetish... and, honestly, the number is decreasing by the day. I definitely have to behave myself around them because of my age and the fact that I might come across as creepy. Sometimes, though, I get so frustrated about not being able to touch a baby bump or be involved with pregnant woman that I take it out on my ex and both of my parents - and I end up scaring my 4-year-old daughter in the process.

The thing I need right now is a way to channel that frustration into something less destructive - but, so far, I haven't been able to channel that energy into something positive. It seems the ONLY time I'm triggered is when I'm out in public, see a pregnant woman, and want to approach her.

Any ideas, guys?