(November 7, 2021, 5:56 pm)Pickles Hey, I’m new to the forum and relatively new to the fetish. I’ve had a look through the ways to enjoy pregnancy thread and had  some specific questions.

I’m in my early 20’s, never wanted to have kids but caveman instinct got me into breeding/pregnancy. In my country (Hungary) it’s sadly illegal to be a surrogate so in my case adoption is the only option. We have a declining population and I’m sure there’s plenty of demand for it, the problem is this gives all control to my partner I impregnate and they can decide to keep the baby ruining us both financially. I’d certainly go for protected roleplay but that can escalate and I don’t want to make a mistake. 

Regardless of country is a healthy couple usually allowed to give up their baby for adoption? I know this is pretty selfish compared to surrogacy but from my knowledge newborns are usually adopted quickly. Is it possible to have such trust that my partner wouldn’t change her mind due to maternal instinct?

I mean, sure, I don't see why not. Speaking as an American, it's not like the state is going to force you to raise a child you don't want. I don't think it's right, though, to get a girl pregnant and have the baby just to satisfy a fetish. If that's the only reason you want kids, you absolutely should not have kids.

There is an article about a woman who never wanted (probably still doesnt) want kids, the only reason she kept them is bc she knows if she told the husband that she never wanted the kids & still doesnt, the husband would take the kids, run like hell, tell her & his fam & she'd be ghosted by her fam & friends. There are probably lots of girls & women on IG who will never tell the truth about them not wanting to keep their kids cus they would get bullied.

Having a certain # of kids can make or break your career. Can't have 6 or almost 6 figures with 3+ kids. I think the reason why Jenifer (911) keeps her kids for the same reasons other moms do: they want to give them bup but they're scared that the babies will be bought by people who use the kids for sexual pleasures (or they will end up in a trafficking ring) & 2-> if she came out & told her husband that she doesn't & never wanted more than 1 kid & she just loves pregnancy-> husband would leave & who knows what that would do to her image.

It isn't illegal to get pregnant, drop the baby off at a hospital or adoption place after ur done. Most women keep their kids because they think they have no choice "I'm stuck with it!" Same reason why teens keep them. They know the kid stops them from being successful. Just brainwash the girls by telling them how much the kids will cost after 18 years. (300K in total plus 30K for 4 years in college & another 40K if they want to go to grad school).. no woman wants to pay that.

(November 8, 2021, 2:00 pm)Spideyx2 95 percent? Where’d you get that number?

OP, Find someone who likes you for who you are, kinks and all, and go from there. I was on the fence about kids until my wife was like “put a baby in me” and it’s been great since then. That said, if we weren’t financially or emotionally ready or whatever, raising a kid would feel impossible.

Most people in this fetish fantasizes about impregnation but don’t want kids in real life. It is a common view point I have seen expressed in several threads in comments from a lot of people in the community. I did not say 95% was a fact. It just feels that way based on what I have seen.

Reminder that many women have sexual fantasies about being pregnant as well, but I think keeping the baby is a big part of it

Lots of good info thanks, I have the opportunity to move to a country where surrogacy is legal. Everyone wins that way

(November 7, 2021, 5:56 pm)Pickles Hey, I’m new to the forum and relatively new to the fetish. I’ve had a look through the ways to enjoy pregnancy thread and had  some specific questions.

I’m in my early 20’s, never wanted to have kids but caveman instinct got me into breeding/pregnancy. In my country (Hungary) it’s sadly illegal to be a surrogate so in my case adoption is the only option. We have a declining population and I’m sure there’s plenty of demand for it, the problem is this gives all control to my partner I impregnate and they can decide to keep the baby ruining us both financially. I’d certainly go for protected roleplay but that can escalate and I don’t want to make a mistake. 

Regardless of country is a healthy couple usually allowed to give up their baby for adoption? I know this is pretty selfish compared to surrogacy but from my knowledge newborns are usually adopted quickly. Is it possible to have such trust that my partner wouldn’t change her mind due to maternal instinct?

Aside from the possible DNA contribution, I believe the main difference between surrogacy and putting a child up for adoption is that surrogates get paid. I believe newborns usually get adopted quickly, but older children do not, especially when they come from troubled homes. In both cases, adoption or surrogacy, the woman has exclusive control. The woman can state at any time before the adoption is complete that she will keep the baby and there is nothing to be done about it. Oh, yes, she'll have contract issues and will have to return the money if she is a surrogate (good luck collecting) but I've never heard of any court in the USA ordering the birth mother to surrender the child. In other words, this represents a huge risk on your part.

Here in the USA, we have "Safe Spaces". These are usually hospital emergency rooms or police or fire departments where a woman (usually) can surrender a child with no questions asked. It's like the old story of leaving the baby in a basket on the steps of the church. I expect there are some tragic stories to be told there, and I hope they have nothing to do with your circumstances.

If you are interested in the mindset of a woman who gives up a child, watch "The Traveling Surrogate" on YouTube. She became a surrogate to fund her travel ambitions. Apparently, her mother was a surrogate, too. Also, there is a woman here who struggles with the desire to have children and the ethical quandaries involved:  https://preggophilia.com/being-a-gravido...-torture-t