Hey, I’m new to the forum and relatively new to the fetish. I’ve had a look through the ways to enjoy pregnancy thread and had  some specific questions.

I’m in my early 20’s, never wanted to have kids but caveman instinct got me into breeding/pregnancy. In my country (Hungary) it’s sadly illegal to be a surrogate so in my case adoption is the only option. We have a declining population and I’m sure there’s plenty of demand for it, the problem is this gives all control to my partner I impregnate and they can decide to keep the baby ruining us both financially. I’d certainly go for protected roleplay but that can escalate and I don’t want to make a mistake. 

Regardless of country is a healthy couple usually allowed to give up their baby for adoption? I know this is pretty selfish compared to surrogacy but from my knowledge newborns are usually adopted quickly. Is it possible to have such trust that my partner wouldn’t change her mind due to maternal instinct?

Any couple(or individual) that wants to have kids fertile or infertile should adopt at least one child. The system is over full with kids. At least in the USA.

I'm not sure what your asking? In the states, couples are generally allowed to put their kid up for adoption.

Are you asking if you should adopt? Or Impregnate someone and then adopt the child? If it's the latter.....just don't.

(November 7, 2021, 5:56 pm)Pickles Hey, I’m new to the forum and relatively new to the fetish. I’ve had a look through the ways to enjoy pregnancy thread and had  some specific questions.

I’m in my early 20’s, never wanted to have kids but caveman instinct got me into breeding/pregnancy. In my country (Hungary) it’s sadly illegal to be a surrogate so in my case adoption is the only option. We have a declining population and I’m sure there’s plenty of demand for it, the problem is this gives all control to my partner I impregnate and they can decide to keep the baby ruining us both financially. I’d certainly go for protected roleplay but that can escalate and I don’t want to make a mistake. 

Regardless of country is a healthy couple usually allowed to give up their baby for adoption? I know this is pretty selfish compared to surrogacy but from my knowledge newborns are usually adopted quickly. Is it possible to have such trust that my partner wouldn’t change her mind due to maternal instinct?

Being in a relationship means that BOTH of you need to be on the same page with every decision. If she wants to keep the kid, then you'd better be on board and agree.

Second, there's already too many orphans in the world for you to knock up your partner and dump the newborn after you're done having fun.

Fair points, sucks how this fetish can’t be realized without 18 years of costs. Our instincts didn’t evolve along with modern society. I’ll be responsible don’t worry

Personally I think getting pregnant just to the kid up for adoption is the same as getting pregnant just to have an abortion.

(November 8, 2021, 6:26 am)alexnj Personally I think getting pregnant just to the kid up for adoption is the same as getting pregnant just to have an abortion.

With abortions, you kill innocent life. If you have the child and immediately put him/her up for adoption, you are giving them the best chance to live. That is my opinion on that.

I’m sorry but threads like these pop up every now and then and to me the idea of finding a woman who wants to be pregnant but doesn’t want a baby is probably damn near impossible, especially to this extent. Women don’t just carry a kid and don’t think about it until it’s time to take sexy belly photos. Bonding with an unborn child is something that happens.

There’s never a guarantee baby gets adopted either. You are better off finding a woman who will put a pillow up her shirt for you.

Also abortions are healthcare and healthcare is a human right.

Indeed this is similar to a thread that was posted here recently. We all know that making a baby comes with great responsibility and unfortunately, impregnation presents us with a huge conflict of interest. I'm not sure what the exact numbers are however it is safe to assume that 95% of us in this community fantasize about making babies, but don't want the responsibility of being a parent. To be honest it is quite cruel to bring a life into this world for the purpose of satisfying a fetish need. It is best to keep in mind what we truly want which is no kids. We can fantasize all we want about impregnation however it should remain as a fantasy and nothing more.

If one day we change our minds and actually want to become parents then we can entertain making a baby outside of fantasy.

95 percent? Where’d you get that number?

OP, Find someone who likes you for who you are, kinks and all, and go from there. I was on the fence about kids until my wife was like “put a baby in me” and it’s been great since then. That said, if we weren’t financially or emotionally ready or whatever, raising a kid would feel impossible.

(November 8, 2021, 9:39 am)GForce

(November 8, 2021, 6:26 am)alexnj Personally I think getting pregnant just to the kid up for adoption is the same as getting pregnant just to have an abortion.

With abortions, you kill innocent life. If you have the child and immediately put him/her up for adoption, you are giving them the best chance to live. That is my opinion on that.

I think if you purposely get pregnant you should do every thing in your power to keep the baby and I dont mean deliver just to give it up.  Keeping your baby should be option number 1.