I’ve known of my fetish since I was an 8 year old girl and it’s getting really annoying and interfering with sexual life when all I can really get off from is pregnant women or ideas of pregnancy. I’ve had about 5.5 years of sexual history. All very hard to be satisfied from cause of the fetish. Other than that I need a lot of sexual tension and a hot partner that is really affectionate and generous to give. I realize it might also be because I have a type that seems to rarely take interest back in me but I might also be demisexual. Anyone have success overcoming this issue of mostly or only being able to cum from pregnant women or not? If so how did you do it? Tips? I’m sad I don’t always feel like I can be open about my fetish and even when I say it, it doesn’t help cause it’s not like I’m willing to get pregnant all the time (and is kinda wrong tbh just for a fetish) so porn it always is…

Lay off the porn. You're brainwashing yourself to only be attracted to preggos on the internet. Take a break and you'll have a better sex drive IRL.

Maybe you have impossibly high standards for a partner, since you mentioned your type isn't interested in you. Could you explain what you mean by that? I assume you've never told your partners about your sexual interests, because you can always try roleplaying.

Like tomostrife posted, taking a break from sexual stimuli can really help.

Let your mind wander, but never with a guiding stimulus. Also, pursue something else other than preggos; maybe trying finding a new hobby or create imaginary treatises on certain things. Speaking of treatises, I was thinking of maybe creating some sort of treatise in regards to how a preggophile should act in many situations and how the preggophile community should be showcased to the general public.

(April 2, 2022, 6:32 am)tomostrife Lay off the porn. You're brainwashing yourself to only be attracted to preggos on the internet. Take a break and you'll have a better sex drive IRL.

Thanks, I guess I’m gonna have to be serious about healing it through this route. I tried and gave up cause I couldn’t stop being horny and taking the easy way out.

(April 2, 2022, 6:50 am)Feunski Maybe you have impossibly high standards for a partner, since you mentioned your type isn't interested in you. Could you explain what you mean by that? I assume you've never told your partners about your sexual interests, because you can always try roleplaying.

Like tomostrife posted, taking a break from sexual stimuli can really help.

Like I’m very visual and only seem to only attract average looking guys but I know I can attract my type but I just seem to settle for less somehow or think negatively like I don’t deserve better cause they are out of my league. Also I’m kinda into older guys but they rarely want something serious with someone my age.

If you're not attractive enough, even if you're a woman, you still might have to settle for the 'average looking guys'. The same is with the way you portray yourself (settle for less/think negatively)
This vibe is hugely important to a man, when he signals that he won't get any stability, it will be hard for him to commit.
It really depends on what you can offer, every older man who has his stuff together will maybe try hook up with you, but will never go the relationship route.
Lastly, because many have been there, try to focus on 1 thing first... do you want to go for a great guy, or do you want to control your current addiction.
It's very hard to combine both of them, but you can get great benefits from getting control of your sexual needs and preferences and your current personal dating perception.
Good luck!!

(April 3, 2022, 10:02 am)miradanz If you're not attractive enough, even if you're a woman, you still might have to settle for the 'average looking guys'. The same is with the way you portray yourself (settle for less/think negatively)
This vibe is hugely important to a man, when he signals that he won't get any stability, it will be hard for him to commit.
It really depends on what you can offer, every older man who has his stuff together will maybe try hook  up with you, but will never go the relationship route.
Lastly, because many have been there, try to focus on 1 thing first... do you want to go for a great guy, or do you want to control your current addiction.
It's very hard to combine both of them, but you can get great benefits from getting control of your sexual needs and preferences and your current personal dating perception.
Good luck!!

I’d say I’m around average but can be a bit more if I tried a bit more. I’m not considering a much older man for long term. I’m thinking max 6 years older. And at the same time I know if I looked too into it that my fetish could totally go full-blown. I would set my fetish on fire if I could. I know it’s biological but some of the things within the fetish that I’m into are weird. I’m mostly into the belly and contractions/birth. So I’m kinda sadistic and probably need to work through that somehow. Also I’m semi into alien pregnancy stuff. I can’t speak on behalf of why I’m into it psychologically. I want to be normal or bring the attraction for it to a more respectable level. I wish I could see pregnant women as more of a beautiful thing rather than a hot & sexy thing..

Hi, I had a similar post a while ago, although I'm a guy for me part of the problem was that I was using masturbation as a way to destress in times when I was very stressed so I was essentially conditioning myself to only get off to pornography while desensitizing myself to the actual enjoyment of arousal. Like tomostrife said, you should probably take a break from internet porn for a while. It's tough, but it's so very easy to access and that's part of the problem.

This is all pretty complicated and subjective though. Have you considered seeking sex therapy or something like that if it's affecting your life?

There's a lot here, so we'll just step through it slowly...

First off: you're not weird. Don't shit on yourself for what you like. You, and what you like, are 100% valid and okay. You don't have to change anything unless you really want to, for yourself. From what I'm reading, you may be there though... you may want to change things because you've decided you're unhappy with the way you are. That's okay, too.

It's important to get a couple of things clarified.

You say you may be demisexual, which is an important thing to know about yourself. That's likely to make sex unsatisfying and maybe even downright uncomfortable unless you're with someone you know, trust, and perhaps even love. Be careful not to confuse that, and the challenges that creates for having "good" sex, with not being able to get off unless your kinks are activated. There's a difference and we don't want to blame the wrong thing.

Another question is, are you attracted to pregnant women, attracted to the idea of being pregnant yourself, or both, and to what degree (i.e. what really does it for you)? This matters because it can impact the types of partners you seek out. You'd be surprised at how amazing it can all be if everything clicks... though you probably wouldn't be surprised at how difficult it can be to find that kind of connection.