Hello guys, sorry to be bringing any negativity to the community. I just don’t know who else to turn to. This has been the only place I feel like myself. All these gorgeous pregnant women, but in the end they are all not my babies and on top of other things going on in my life. I’ve just hit a low point I’ve never hit before. Was just hoping someone on here had advice? Or maybe a pregnant lady could cheer me up? Idk sorry that sounds desperate I’m just 3 seconds away from diving head first into a shallow lake….I’ve never felt this low before. I’ve always had at least a little motivation to be myself. Now I can’t even look in a mirror and not hate the thing I’m staring at

Thanks for listening

Listen man. The reason nobody is answering is because we just come here to jerk off. So don't take it personally. But if I'm to be straight with you. Get off this site, maybe permanently. You're upset because you can't get a preggo? That's never going to happen, I don't care what these delusional members here say, it's a fantasy that you are setting up in your head and it's bumming you out because it's not coming to fruition. You're maybe also spending all your "energy" on preggos. You should spend time working on yourself, and focus on finding a REAL woman who can fill some of the emotional voids you have. Go workout, eat better, try new hobbies, and put this fetish behind you. Despite what people might say, porn is pretty destructive to your mental health. Hell look at how much us retards bicker over stupid shit, we ain't right either. Go focus on yourself and get out of this bubble and maybe that'll be the ticket.

Hey, can you tell me what the cause is of your ongoing negative energy? You mentioned pregnant women, but you didn't specify what it is that you want. Plus you also added a few things were happening in your life. So I'm convinced it's not all about pregnant women.
'they are not my babies' translates to something else, like you want to have a family, you want to part of a pregnant process, or you want to feel love nurtured within a family....you see where I'm going with this? So it's up to you to step back and see where your frustration's coming from.
Coming to the site to get off is not really for everybody in here, 95% of the pictures or videos are not to my liking, but I love the community with followers or alphas showcasing or sharing their little part of the world. Hence your post, so I'm glad you did.
My advice to you is to focus on what it is that really is derailing you, it doesn't have to be much, but adding things up might give you that feeling that nothing really matters.
Your current situation will also tell the tale: young, old, single, married, divorced, high stakes job, lost your job, unemployed for too long, no dates, ghosted, arguing, pending escalation with friends or family.
The way you wrote things is a good indicator that you're trying to deal with it. In the end a professional will take the time to dissect a lot of things. But right now I advise you to rethink what it is that throws you off from how how you're wanting to live your life.
And lastly, Tomostrife wrote tons of great things. If you're a man, especially if you're a man, you will always going to feel undesirable or not where you want to be. Take it up on yourself to improve yourself, there millions of men going through the same energy drops as you do.
Most of them find ways to bounce back, I am convinced, with the necessary preparation, you will do the exact same thing..! You got this!!

Also to add to what I said. You shouldn't seek advice from a bunch of jerk offs on a jerk off site. All our blood is in the wrong head. There is nothing wrong with seeking professional therapy, despite that it costs money. I'm just some loser pulling it out my ass.

(June 8, 2022, 1:32 pm)tomostrife Also to add to what I said. You shouldn't seek advice from a bunch of jerk offs on a jerk off site. All our blood is in the wrong head. 

Speak for yourself. You can be more than just horny on here. The guy is asking for help, the least you can do is let others help instead of shooing him away. If he had the money to go to a therapist, don't you think he would've done so instead of here as a last resort?

(June 8, 2022, 2:34 pm)No-Paramedic9308

(June 8, 2022, 1:32 pm)tomostrife Also to add to what I said. You shouldn't seek advice from a bunch of jerk offs on a jerk off site. All our blood is in the wrong head. 

Speak for yourself. You can be more than just horny on here. The guy is asking for help, the least you can do is let others help instead of shooing him away. If he had the money to go to a therapist, don't you think he would've done so instead of here as a last resort?

Perfect. I'm like one of the only ones trying to productively reply to the guy and you're giving me flack for it. How bout ignore it and give HIM advice. This is what I mean. All yall focus on bickering.

Okay, well, anyway...

@Nope12, what's brought this on? We can try to help if you provide some details.

(June 8, 2022, 2:39 pm)tomostrife

(June 8, 2022, 2:34 pm)No-Paramedic9308

(June 8, 2022, 1:32 pm)tomostrife Also to add to what I said. You shouldn't seek advice from a bunch of jerk offs on a jerk off site. All our blood is in the wrong head. 

Speak for yourself. You can be more than just horny on here. The guy is asking for help, the least you can do is let others help instead of shooing him away. If he had the money to go to a therapist, don't you think he would've done so instead of here as a last resort?

Perfect. I'm like one of the only ones trying to productively reply to the guy and you're giving me flack for it. How bout ignore it and give HIM advice. This is what I mean. All yall focus on bickering.

Sounds like you need some therapy too. It's not all about you, mkay.

OK guys thanks. Let's make this thread about the OP from this point forward and just wait for his reply.

@tomostrife and @Akhenaten trust me, I understand the unrealistic perspective on actually finding or dating a pregnant woman in RL. I get that. I did open up cause I’m looking to realize a fantasy. I just truly feel alone and lonely and purposeless. Like I’m honestly not a terrible looking guy, I’m a hard worker and always wanted a family. I want to just feel that love and process with someone. But Everyone especially in my age group are all either taken or gonna be