You may need to adjust your expectations so you can find happiness. You can have it all, or at least most of it, but there's a strong possibility that it won't happen quite as you want or expect.

In my case, I spent a lot of time striking out and feeling miserable when I was being highly specific about who I wanted to date, or about what pregnant women I wanted to be with. I took a look at my life and my age and decided that I didn't want to wait around forever to get what I wanted, so maybe it was time to try some new things. Lo and behold, the new things worked better than I could have imagined. I had been holding myself back the whole time. Weird.

If you want to have some fun with a pregnant woman and get that out of the way, have you considered an escort? It's actually pretty awesome if you connect with the right one.

As for dating... shit, man. That whole scene is a fucking nightmare no matter how you look at it. Fucking nightmare.

@Nope12

Well shit man, I'm pretty sure if any of us had a spectacular sex life, we wouldn't be here as often. The dating pool is distinctly one sided in a lot of ways. I could go on about speculations for days but it would achieve little. I stick by what I said though. If you work on yourself, you'll gain confidence which seems to be a major factor. And trying to get involved in social groups/activities will help you meet people off the horrid online dating pool. COVID based shutdowns seem to be subsiding so big social events are making a comeback. Concerts, Saturday Markets, sporting events are in the future. Maybe start with something you like. Set a goal to approach one person a day or a week, even if they shoot you down, you'll give yourself a better chance at meeting somebody. Idk. Don't let it beat you up, the world is shit for lots of people.