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jimbobjoe789
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God damn is it frustrating with the amount of ignorance surrounding the pregnancy fetish. As someone with this fetish, I truly try to look at it objectively and it’s really not that weird. Pregnant women have increased curves, men love tits and ass, and meat on the bone and pregnancy increases all of the that, the exception being the belly, which is the proverbial cherry on top. I see it as a Relatively normal fetish unlike feet, or diapers, impersonating animals, or being pissed and shit on, stuff like that lol People with this fetish get called creeps but those individuals are creeps regardless of whether or not they have this fetish. As of late folks have been receiving an extreme amount of hate  especially on TikTok in the comments. There was an account that would post videos of pregnant women and would ask people if that found them attractive or sexy, like genuinely wondering peoples thoughts on the matter. Someone had commented “yes they’re sexy” and this one ignorant bitch had the audacity to say “eww gross, he’s just attracted to the unborn child”. There was literally no previous context, she just came out and said that. Honestly that’s just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to the ignorance out there and how misunderstood this fetish is. I will forever defend this fetish, I don’t ever like calling it a fetish, because in my eyes it’s just a man liking what he likes. I just people would understand that normal people like pregnant women and “creeps” will be “creeps” regardless if they like pregnant women or not. Vent over. Please share your thoughts and feelings on the matter. Also here is a really great article that puts into perspective just how normal being attracted to pregnancy is. https://obsessionrouge.com/preggophilia-...on-fetish/
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Porkchop
Thanks for sharing! The article is wonderful!
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LTKNT101
When you single out fetishes you don't like and say they are not "normal" you are being the very thing you are ranting about. A judgemental critic. This is considered kink-shaming. Tearing down other fetishes to build up the one you support is not the way to make your argument. Fetishes are like apples and oranges. They are all acquired tastes and as such cannot be compared to each other. I get what you are saying but to be fair, being a preggophile is not any "normal" than a guy who likes women's feet.

With that said, critics of the fetish community are not going to change. They are never going to accept us as being "normal" so I would not get upset about it. Critics are entitled to their opinions. I don't let what they say bother me. Enjoying the fetish is all that matters.
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Masterofpreggos
Well just love Your self and don't care about people Say becouse i AM a creep and i dont worry about i like to be weir becouse is who i AM really and love pretend to be normal for some people is like when in a horror movie everone SEE the serial killer like a normal person and they don't know his twisted secred mind Wink
Liked by jimbobjoe789 (Mar 4, 2022)
BroHarrison
To be fair, 'breast fetishism' is also technically a thing. We just don't talk about it as a fetish since a plural majority of men have it, and thus, it is normalized by society. Any fetish less than fully accepted by society will have critics and people who don't understand it - but that's just they way it is and why it's good we have communities like this where like-minded people can discuss it.

Sure, like breasts, it's easy to see pregnancy fetishism as something lots of people may have from a biological perspective, but that doesn't mean it's in anyway superior to any other fetish. By all means, defend your fetish and don't let society's less-than-perfect recognition of it get to you, but putting down other fetishes is just the pot calling the kettle black.
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Unreg_user
So instead of complaining like it's one sided, look at it from both sides.

How do you expect someone who has never even heard of a pregnancy fetish to react when they see a bunch of guys cumming over a 9 month pregnant woman?

How can you be frustrated when there's nobody who's educating people outside of this fetish the difference between you and a creep?

If there is no effort being put into awareness and education, then don't bitch and moan when other people have a negative perspective.
jimbobjoe789
Wow everyone has made some valid points, for the most part. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
IntoPreggos
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For this "new" fetish was studied a century ago (!) by no other than psychoanalyst and sexual psychiatrist Sigmund Freud, he assumed "a man or woman saw their mother pregnant when they we're ages 1-6" triggers the fetish. He opened the door on exploration of human sexuality in the 1900s-30s period, a more prudent time in western (and global) civilization, but was false on his determination of the causes of homosexuality and gender identity: Freud laid out a debunked theory of "Lesbians are a result of poor daughter/father relationships" or another one that "Men expressed themselves as women are from an unusually strong mother/son bond". In the 1980s-2010s, "genetic" links of persons developing any sexual fetish (including the one: maiseiophilia or preggophilia we're discussing) were at first thought to not be possible, now in the current year (the double-twenties), we have a better understanding of human genes and its contribution to human behavior in individuals or blood families. Already, genes were originally thought to support anatomical races until recently, mainstream science reject the notion of biologically distinct races (and not real, but are social, political and cultural constructs) comparable to other pseudo-scientific fields once thought to be true: phrenology (the 1790-1950 ancestor of neurology) and "semi-"scientific astrology based on astronomical positions of planets on the given day of our birth or the horoscope of a given day, it's clear the planets in the night sky and the solar system does not influence human actions or world affairs. My own (best) explanation of developing a pregnancy fetish is I saw a teacher in that state, admire or adore it, find out what got her pregnant, how she reacts to herself in that condition and she shares or explains it to me as a child.

And we came a long way from the pre-WWII era 80 years ago when sexuality itself (at least in the USA) was a (very) closed topic, when Alfred Kinsey and his colleagues had took up sexual and romantic physical and mental studies from like 1938 to 1983 during the sexual revolution and their contributions to the normalization of homosexuality, gender identity, fetishes and kinks based on a clearer synopsis. In my personal case, my pregnancy fetish is from observing a number of women in my community with big bellies with babies inside to only fascinated not repulsed me...and finding out last year of a family history (from my late Mom via her Dad/my grandpa down the family tree in the hidden past) of a no longer dark, but understandingly deep secret to further support the genetic "inherited in blood" cause, not only "in my head"...from viewing or watching a pregnant relative which I never had in my first 2 decades of life (1980-1999), only my bro's ex-GF was pregnant in 2000 to had my nephew...and no other female blood relatives around me were pregnant either in my life in this century/ millennia (2001-2022). All I can say a person's genes can determine they might fathered a child in a paternity test, as well to match distant relatives, uncover who committed a crime and predict a likelihood of having medical diseases. And sorry Dr. Freud, you could take a trip in time to the 1980s (he died in 1938, oddly the same year Alfred Kinsey began his sexual research) to analyze my Mom and again the 2020s when I had no idea she had this fetish (she died last year). The late 20th century shouldn't be like the early quarter, but science explained stuff to me about...me, while I just found out by my older half-sis said my (her step-) mother was...untypical sensual thrilled of being pregnant.
Pregnant women are growing, showing, knowing herself...and glowing bright with life. Angel

Genderfluid Gyneophile feminist here!

Autistic skills.
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jimbobjoe789
(March 5, 2022, 2:26 am)IntoPreggos For this "new" fetish was studied a century ago (!) by no other than psychoanalyst and sexual psychiatrist Sigmund Freud, he assumed "a man or woman saw their mother pregnant when they we're ages 1-6" triggers the fetish. He opened the door on exploration of human sexuality in the 1900s-30s period, a more prudent time in western (and global) civilization, but was false on his determination of the causes of homosexuality and gender identity: Freud laid out a debunked theory of "Lesbians are a result of poor daughter/father relationships" or another one that "Men expressed themselves as women are from an unusually strong mother/son bond". In the 1980s-2010s, "genetic" links of persons developing any sexual fetish (including the one: maiseiophilia or preggophilia we're discussing) were at first thought to not be possible, now in the current year (the double-twenties), we have a better understanding of human genes and its contribution to human behavior in individuals or blood families. Already, genes were originally thought to support anatomical races until recently, mainstream science reject the notion of biologically distinct races (and not real, but are social, political and cultural constructs) comparable to other pseudo-scientific fields once thought to be true: phrenology (the 1790-1950 ancestor of neurology) and "semi-"scientific astrology based on astronomical positions of planets on the given day of our birth or the horoscope of a given day, it's clear the planets in the night sky and the solar system does not influence human actions or world affairs. My own (best) explanation of developing a pregnancy fetish is I saw a teacher in that state, admire or adore it, find out what got her pregnant, how she reacts to herself in that condition and she shares or explains it to me as a child.

And we came a long way from the pre-WWII era 80 years ago when sexuality itself (at least in the USA) was a (very) closed topic, when Alfred Kinsey and his colleagues had took up sexual and romantic physical and mental studies from like 1938 to 1983 during the sexual revolution and their contributions to the normalization of homosexuality, gender identity, fetishes and kinks based on a clearer synopsis. In my personal case, my pregnancy fetish is from observing a number of women in my community with big bellies with babies inside to only fascinated not repulsed me...and finding out last year of a family history (from my late Mom via her Dad/my grandpa down the family tree in the hidden past) of a no longer dark, but understandingly deep secret to further support the genetic "inherited in blood" cause, not only "in my head"...from viewing or watching a pregnant relative which I never had in my first 2 decades of life (1980-1999), only my bro's ex-GF was pregnant in 2000 to had my nephew...and no other female blood relatives around me were pregnant either in my life in this century/ millennia (2001-2022). All I can say a person's genes can determine they might fathered a child in a paternity test, as well to match distant relatives, uncover who committed a crime and predict a likelihood of having medical diseases.  And sorry Dr. Freud, you could take a trip in time to the 1980s (he died in 1938, oddly the same year Alfred Kinsey began his sexual research) to analyze my Mom and again the 2020s when I had no idea she had this fetish (she died last year).  The late 20th century shouldn't be like the early quarter, but science explained stuff to me about...me, while I just found out by my older half-sis said my (her step-) mother was...untypical sensual thrilled of being pregnant.
That’s mind blowing if this can really be linked to our genetic make up. I never saw a family member pregnant as a child, but I can remember going to the doctors for a check up around 4-5 years old and while walking down the hallway I peered into a door window and witnessed what I learned to be a Lamaze class, from that moment I knew that I liked what I saw. Then by the time I reached sexual maturity It became a of a sexual attraction. I’ve always liked busty or thick girls and pregnancy is just that in its ultimate form.  Idk if it’s in my genetics but thats very interesting.
Winnie
Hey, I understand how frustrating it is to be looped in with pedophiles- just because people don't understand.

However, I hope this reply helps.

1) Every decade, something that was previously scandalous becomes accepted. Examples ; it was previously scandalous for blacks to mix with whites. It was previously scandalous for women to work. And then they could work, but only as a typist, or teacher, or nurse mainly. In this decade, I've personally faced it being scandalous to have made and sold porns. Now with the rise of onlyfans, its becoming less scandalous.

Pregnancy fetish will be like this too. It's scandalous now, but it won't always be. We have the power to make it more acceptable by making it not weird for others and explaining it to others. Which leads me to point number 2...

2) People need to be gently explained that it has nothing to do with the baby, but actually, it just has to do with a CHEMICAL attraction to the raging hormones emitted during pregnancy. SEX is what caused pregnancy, I say, its not a virginal thing. It's natural to associate the state of pregnancy, which resulted from sex, with sexual desire.

My whole life is a bit scandalous in this time, but this is how we lead the way. Hugs
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