Well i guess we will find out. I say we bet on what happens. Most women would either be single or well thats it. Telling a man right before marriage is like telling a guy "yeah I'm transgender". Its funny as hell on TV. Im into pregnancy but if my girl did that id go Red Forman on er. But lets wait & see if the guy is fine with it. But its his friend though. Thats almost as bad as family. We all know what needs tp be done. Tell the man & the friend & then wait n see. Her question was ritorical.

i love being pregnant and going full term and we us ladies can be into pregnancy fetish and the other thing makes me sick or mad other ladies doing a abortion or pills i never will do that even other mans child and my family &friends supports me

@ preggomaid, you are so right! Me and my boyfriend have one big wish. To go to an island far away only for couples or singles that whant to be pregnant and love beying pregnant all we want with nobody judging and where even octomom could have another 8 babys if she would like! The only problem i have is that i need ivf. But im sure that could be done! That would be heaven!

(August 2, 2016, 12:47 am)Akhenaten

(August 1, 2016, 10:30 pm)MrTek Well all i can say is no guy wants a girl that has anothers baby.

Actually, some guys would probably think that's hot. Cuckolding is a thing. I don't understand it at all, but then most people don't understand our pregnancy fetish, either. If that works for her and her husband, congrats to them I guess?

I should preface by specifying that I haven't been in that position (only had one girlfriend and she wasn't the type), but I can see reasons why people would either be fine with, or like, 'being cuckolded' (I don't know if I'm going to use the terminology correctly, so forgivinith, pleathe). I myself would indeed be fine with it, and while I can't necessarily generalize to others, I can give my own standpoint.

Some people might get off on it, knowing their partner is free-spirited, rebellious, free, or such. I would actually be attracted to that anyway, so I guess it comes with the territory ^.^ So there's one mechanism from my own standpoint.

But for me, my okayness with it comes from two other primary sources.

First, I have a live and let live policy that I try to live by in all things, and anti-control issues: I'm not willing to control another person's life, and try to never hinder them. So any relationship I would be in would be, from their standpoint, an open relationship and entirely up to them; despite that I myself am the monogamous type by personality and obsessive nature, I would be unwilling to impose that on another. So I'm okay with it by default.

Second, I have mediocre self-conception on the best days. So I feel wholly inadequate at all times and in just about everything; supposedly I have really bad imposter syndrome, but because of the definition you can't admit that without paradox ^.^ That said, I would find it relieving to know that a person was able to get satisfaction elsewhere if they needed it; it would relieve my guilt, the feeling that the person is hindered by being tethered to me, the worry that their life may not be as great as they deserve if they are with me. I would actively like to know that a relationship with me is not hindering them in living their life as they see fit. And if they still overall choose me... I would feel good.

These two sources are likely related to each other, but I put them separately do describe each.

So what I tend to say is "It's not cheating, because you can't cheat at a game with no rules." I won't set terms, I won't set rules. I'd have limits, I imagine, but nothing has come up yet that would make me have to think of what they would be, so for now I consider that a non-issue. Maybe if the other guy was like a total asshole or overtly abusive or something; I wouldn't like to see that at all.

On the other note, and I just want to put this in because I really have to say it: to "no guy wants a girl that has anothers baby.": Definitely false. Admittedly I don't want a kid regardless, but for a number of reasons pertaining to economics and my views on human ecology, my own tendencies to be preoccupied, not thinking I'd be any good as a parent, and not wanting a kid to have to rely on me for their well-being. None of my reasons are that I wouldn't love the woman or her child no matter whose child it was. Think of this: we come to absolutely love and adore others, bring them into our homes, try to help them develop into the best, most well-adjusted individuals they can be. And we truly love them, we feel joy when they are happy, we swoon at their reactions, we feel great sorrow when they die. And they happen to have some mental limits, and they never learn to speak; we don't care, we love them, we know they have their own minds and personalities regardless, and we learn to communicate with them their way and they as best they can to us. They are our children. And they have tails and fur, and because it's the social norm we term them 'pets'. This may not apply to everyone, but if we can do that to another species, to whom we have little to no biological imperative, we can definitely come to love a human child as our own regardless of its parentage, and even more definitely come to love a person regardless of the parentage of their child.

Before anyone thinks it callous that I apply how we feel about pets to how we feel about people: I'm not comparing children to pets, I'm comparing our reactions to children and to pets; I'm speaking of our capacity to love, regardless of any biological imperative. Our ability to generalize our love beyond the constraints of genetics and survival.

One of the best fathers I've ever met is a friend of mine who has children with one woman who had children with another, and who got divorced and now has a child with another who also had previous children. When he is speaking, I can't even tell which child is genetically his versus the other women's: he doesn't use the prefix 'step', and he incorporates all the children from both women into his life as if they were his own.

looking your new on here and stop judging us and what is Cuckolding ?? and it was orgy with my friends and BF to be hubby
thank you Luvbeingpregnant pregnancy is wonderful gift i love it every day

The most basic definition of cuckoldry I can provide is that if you're a woman in a relationship with a man, but you get pregnant with some other man's baby, the man you are in a relationship with (but who is not the father) is a cuckold. He is your mate while you create someone else's baby, and will have to raise it as his own with you.

It has negative implications because for most heterosexual couples, historically, being cuckolded kind of sucks. Most men want their children to be genetically theirs. There is something to be said for knowing that you and your partner created life together from your own genetic material. If it's someone else's, the woman most likely cheated on the man, and that's embarrassing and bad for self-esteem.

Of course, in this day and age, a lot of kinks are coming to the surface, and some of the more puritanical ways of looking at the world are being questioned. As discussed, being cuckolded is a huge turn-on for some people. A quick trip through clips4sale.com will prove this, as there are all manner of videos where the model talks about how she is cuckolding the viewer for whatever reason (weakness, small penis, infertility, etc.).

I personally don't see the appeal in it -- were I to ever have kids, which is absolutely not in the cards for me, I would want them to be my genetic progeny... so I don't share the fetish. In fact, I prefer clips where the model roleplays and gushes about how happy she is that it's my baby in her. Human sexuality is vast and diverse, and I think it's fantastic that so many things can get so many people off. If you have a pregnancy fetish, you have to step back and remind yourself to not judge too harshly the fetishes of others.

Cuckolding is the final whimper of western civilisation.

(August 5, 2016, 10:18 am)PreggoMaid looking your new on here and stop judging us and what is Cuckolding ??

The only person I was judging was the one that said "Well all i can say is no guy wants a girl that has anothers baby.” So I was judging someone for being judgmental (oh the irony?). Though I was long-winded about it.

We live in the era where idiots like trump think running for office is smart so we can judge. Judging is ok since if you see or hear something not normally right we have the right to say something. But heres a great saying "Give people thw freedom to choose, they will most likey chose wrong". Chances are most of us will be in Canadaafter this election. So i leave you with this: imagine telling the kid how he was made when hes in middle school. Thats true comedy. I see all the time where parents tell their kids how they were "made". Its better than a movie!

(May 10, 2016, 7:17 pm)VintageChick Long time lurker, first time poster. So hey.

So, I'm in a committed relationship, and have yet to tell my bf about my fetish. We've already established both of us can't stand children, and so don't want to have kids.... but I'm still into pregnancy?
When masturbating in private I often wear a fake belly of stuffed pillows etc, and I've been thinking how great it would be to get a 'proper' fake belly. I'd really like to tell my bf, but I worry they would think it's a weird fetish.

Anyone got any good way to break a pregnancy fetish to a devout child-free partner?
Or really, any way to casually slip into conversation "yo I have a raging fetish that I haven't told you about in the three years we've been together.."

Try this: sometime when you are out together and you see a really hot pregnant chick, just make a comment of some kind. "Wow, she's hot!" or "I don't want to raise kids, but I'd love to look like that just once." Just toss out a little conversation starter.