(October 6, 2021, 1:45 pm)PreggoPixie Thank you Murble, that's great insight. I never thought about it like that, I could keep one and then be a surrogate to enjoy more pregnancies while having a financially realistic amount of children. A big part of this is that I want to be pregnant while breastfeeding. I would love to have a baby in a sling on my chest while being pregnant again. Sitting at my battle station gaming while nursing and being pregnant, that sounds like heaven to me. Maybe I could be a wet nurse while being a surrogate. Maybe my friend would let me nurse the baby (hopefully babies) for a few weeks or something. Pumping isnt enough, I want the full experience. Hmm, I think I just got my next story idea.

I heard the U.N. recommend that kids should be nursed until they're 5-7 years old, so you can keep nursing your keeper/firstborn while carrying other pregnancies for a few years.

Barefoot ready to pop playing video games.. sounds good to me

Be a surrogate... and post some videos lol

Sorry to hear that you ar e going through such a thing.

It is painfully clear that this is something that gnaws at you far too often, and your concerns about getting older are legitimate; past a certain age it gets not only more difficult, but pregnancies can be more dangerous and risks increase.

If you are really, really, 100% sure that you can't make children (be it unsuitable mate, financial situation, living in a cramped space), the other option is to look into surrogacy. Yes, it would be difficult to live with the fact that you would give a baby you're carried for 9 months away, however you're living in the alternative scenario now, where you're just going crazy being unable to "indulge" into it, so to speak.

People are happier getting married and having children. You should probably do that.

I did not read the last few pages very carefully --- so maybe I'm missing something --- but what struck me was: How old are you? What are you doing with your life? Are you dating?

Most women in your situation would be dating and coming to terms with the fact that it most likely means eventually getting married and having at least one kid. Then you fall in love and usually it's like, "Of course, I'm going to marry this guy if he wants to and have kids if he wants to." Is that not what your friends are doing? (Do you have friends?)

Don't get me wrong, marriage is not for everyone, but if you're one of those people... that brings us back to, "Are you dating?" Most people date... and that usually leads to women getting pregnant down the road... But if you're not dating, that's more concerning than the fetish stuff. (If not, is there a reason? What are you doing when you're not posting on boards like this one...?)

I guess what I'm trying to get at is the posts seem a bit internet-y. What is going on in your real life? It really begs the question. You can be obsessed with pregnancy or gravidophilia or feet --- whatever --- and still have a social life --- which usually involves dating (peer pressure is a thing) and... usually that leads to marriage and pregnancy. The fact that you seem to take for granted that you will not (or should not) become a parent in the future (even though that's the normal thing to do, probably what your parents and friends want for you, and even has that wonderful sexy side effect only you can appreciate) is a red flag --- even on the internet. I'm surprised you have not gotten more pushback about this on the thread.

TLDR --- I read "But realistically I'm not a good candidate to have children" in the first post and thought *that's* really the issue worth discussing (preferably with a family member offline, trusted older adult, or therapist).

(November 19, 2021, 2:29 am)Rivers68 People are happier getting married and having children.  You should probably do that.

I did not read the last few pages very carefully --- so maybe I'm missing something --- but what struck me was: How old are you?  What are you doing with your life?  Are you dating?

Most women in your situation would be dating and coming to terms with the fact that it most likely means eventually getting married and having at least one kid.  Then you fall in love and usually it's like, "Of course, I'm going to marry this guy if he wants to and have kids if he wants to."  Is that not what your friends are doing?  (Do you have friends?)

Don't get me wrong, marriage is not for everyone, but if you're one of those people... that brings us back to, "Are you dating?"  Most people date... and that usually leads to women getting pregnant down the road...  But if you're not dating, that's more concerning than the fetish stuff.  (If not, is there a reason?  What are you doing when you're not posting on boards like this one...?)

I guess what I'm trying to get at is the posts seem a bit internet-y.  What is going on in your real life?  It really begs the question.  You can be obsessed with pregnancy or gravidophilia or feet --- whatever --- and still have a social life --- which usually involves dating (peer pressure is a thing) and... usually that leads to marriage and pregnancy.  The fact that you seem to take for granted that you will not (or should not) become a parent in the future (even though that's the normal thing to do, probably what your parents and friends want for you, and even has that wonderful sexy side effect only you can appreciate) is a red flag --- even on the internet.  I'm surprised you have not gotten more pushback about this on the thread.

TLDR --- I read "But realistically I'm not a good candidate to have children" in the first post and thought *that's* really the issue worth discussing (preferably with a family member offline, trusted older adult, or therapist).

The 1950s called. They want their misogynistic gender roles back.

(November 19, 2021, 2:29 am)Rivers68 TLDR --- I read "But realistically I'm not a good candidate to have children" in the first post and thought *that's* really the issue worth discussing (preferably with a family member offline, trusted older adult, or therapist).

lots of unfounded and kinda nasty assumptions there mate... "not a good candidate" can and often does mean medical/genetic issues either making pregnancy dangerous or making it irresponsible to have children who will be forced to live with (and potentially pass down) the same genetic problem. or both.

I hear you; it all sounds so grounded and natural, Wanting a baby and not having one is a kind of fetish too. My situation was complicated my pregnancy terminations and gives rather mixed feelings about family planning now.

Honestly, probably bad advice, but why not even start going down the surrogacy process of information and interviews, purely for your own sexual gratification. I’m sure all the talk about your pregnancy and being impregnated will rev you up in a total new way. Maybe it provides clarity, maybe not.

Everyone on this site is absolutely rooting for you and wishing you the best and hoping for a massive round, swollen, and overdue multiples belly for you someday!

I don't want to overstep but, I've been talking with Pixie for a while now and she seems less depressed about her gravidophilia. I'm not sure why she hasn't been in the thread lately, though she did say that at least one of user that private messaged her was being a creep.