I’m a firm believer in being nice to everyone, but the issue is that some of us here seem to always have the wrong view on fundamental issues. At that point it’s in our best option to hit the “ignore” button and leave it be.

(June 29, 2020, 1:42 pm)Thechickenlawyer Can't we all just get along instead of always ignoring people? Try to be friendly and be nice to people. We are all citizens and we have done nothing wrong to each other. Sure we may say odd or illogical things but thats life. Why cant we just put our differences aside & try to be nice? I have never said anything bad to anyone & never has anyone else here. (By here I mean this thread). We should all be willing to change because ignoring people isnt the answer. Try & talk things out, use conflict resolution

I agree that ignoring people is not the solution however it is the right of a member of this site to do so if he/she does not want to see the same kind of uneducated comments which can become quite bothersome after a while especially if during the discussion there are is no sign of agreement. Some points of view are not welcomed here. The sooner you figure that out the better off you will be. Always try to support the moral point of view when engaging in discussions. Don’t take this as me telling you what to do or think. It’s just advice coming from a fellow preggophile who had to learn the hard way. Also don’t be upset if people decide to block and ignore you. It’s not the end of the world and it actually can do you a favor as well not hearing from certain members who make it a point to come at you regardless of what you say. I have nothing against you personally however  your rationalization on this topic is not good.

Well I'll do like I do in my relationship: I see a topic, I agree with what the smarter people are saying. I've been a "yes man"/agreeing with the smarter people" for years so maybe ill just do it here. It seems as if people ignore or block u unless you side with the people who are right. I'm fine with that. Just he careful how you treat others befause you dont know what can happen. In real life I always said "no comment" during conversations. I actually never spoken my opinion in real life. I know people feel the same way about me as most people feel about Trump. I was never liked by anyone in life so I always kept to myself. I became a lawyer but quit cus I didn't want to represent guilty people (& cus my former boss was the popular girl who bullied me in HS). So I just aired her laundry out there, flipped her the bird & quit. Now I'm a manager at a company that might go out of business

I think it’s not about “smarter” people being better than you. It’s more about getting a feel for the room and only making comments that fall in line with the popular or majority opinion. For example if you are a comedian and you get a sense that the audience does not like sex jokes you avoid that part of your routine.

I’m not perfect and I still find myself making comments that I later realize were bad. I’m working hard to be more considerate of the feelings of others which helps a lot. If you are unable to align with the majority opinion simply move on without comment.

It’s not about being a Yes-Man, @Thechickenlawyer , it is about proper rationalization of an argument or point you make.

I just can’t find any reasonable evidence to back that a woman deserves to be sexually harassed. Done deal. I don’t think it’s her fault at all.

All I was trying to do is point out this lingering sense of entitlement that some men have that drives them to harass women in hopes of soliciting something from them, be it nudes or belly pics in our fetish’s case. There’s no common sense there. There was no consent.

Disagreeing with that is just objectively wrong by current legal standards. They should leave the lewd comments and desires in their mind or put them on fetish sites like this.

(June 29, 2020, 2:42 pm)Avarics It’s not about being a Yes-Man, @Thechickenlawyer , it is about proper rationalization of an argument or point you make.

I just can’t find any reasonable evidence to back that a woman deserves to be sexually harassed. Done deal. I don’t think it’s her fault at all.

All I was trying to do is point out this lingering sense of entitlement that some men have that drives them to harass women in hopes of soliciting something from them, be it nudes or belly pics in our fetish’s case. There’s no common sense there. There was no consent.

Disagreeing with that is just objectively wrong by current legal standards. They should leave the lewd comments and desires in their mind or put them on fetish sites like this.

Everything you've said is correct. I'll stop making the "bad comments" I did before after seeing what you wrote. Ik I'm the most disliked person here & the most disliked person in the whole preg community. I make that Daniel guy seem like a saint from God. Now I know how Trump feels about everyone disliking him (if he ever paid any attention to people & got his head out his butt.) I'm ok with being an outcast here, its just like how school & college was. Guys ignored me, most girls bullied me & I only have 1 friend. I dont have a photographic memory but there are things people said to me here that are mean that I'll never forget (which is 99% of what people say about me here). There is only 1 person here who doesnt dislike me here & thats it. I even have 15 screenshots of a user telling me to end my life (I look at them daily to fuel my anger to get stronger)

I know what i will do in the future: (like people do in class): take the opinion of a user thats right (like u) & paraphrase it in my own words & post it. Then people cant say my comments are bad or annoying if they are the same as everyone elses.

(June 29, 2020, 3:08 pm)Thechickenlawyer

(June 29, 2020, 2:42 pm)Avarics It’s not about being a Yes-Man, @Thechickenlawyer , it is about proper rationalization of an argument or point you make.

I just can’t find any reasonable evidence to back that a woman deserves to be sexually harassed. Done deal. I don’t think it’s her fault at all.

All I was trying to do is point out this lingering sense of entitlement that some men have that drives them to harass women in hopes of soliciting something from them, be it nudes or belly pics in our fetish’s case. There’s no common sense there. There was no consent.

Disagreeing with that is just objectively wrong by current legal standards. They should leave the lewd comments and desires in their mind or put them on fetish sites like this.

Everything you've said is correct. I'll stop making the "bad comments" I did before after seeing what you wrote. Ik I'm the most disliked person here & the most disliked person in the whole preg community. I make that Daniel guy seem like a saint from God. Now I know how Trump feels about everyone disliking him (if he ever paid any attention to people & got his head out his butt.) I'm ok with being an outcast here, its just like how school & college was. Guys ignored me, most girls bullied me & I only have 1 friend. I dont have a photographic memory but there are things people said to me here that are mean that I'll never forget (which is 99% of what people say about me here). There is only 1 person here who doesnt dislike me here & thats it. I even have 15 screenshots of a user telling me to end my life (I look at them daily to fuel my anger to get stronger)

I know what i will do in the future: (like people do in class): take the opinion of a user thats right (like u) & paraphrase it in my own words & post it. Then people cant say my comments are bad or annoying if they are the same as everyone elses.

 You are not the most hated person. I have several people who have made it clear that they refuse to engage with me on here because of uneducated comments I have made in the past. Despite my efforts to change and become a better preggophile they can not bring themselves to say anything good about me. I'm man enough to own my screw-ups. I will not look down on myself because some people here don't want to talk to me. It's their right to pick and choose their friends. Don't ever feel like you need to be accepted by everyone because that is an impossible task. Your comments don't have to be like everyone else as long as you are on the right side of the issue you'll do fine.

I would never consider myself a creeper but more of an enthusiast of the pregnant belly and pregnant women. Where I work I have seen a lot of pregnant women shopping for either themelf or buying baby clothes for their child that is going to come into their life. Other than that society will always look down on our kind and think/sees us as creepers

(July 8, 2020, 4:05 pm)TommyDe I would never consider myself a creeper but more of an enthusiast of the pregnant belly and pregnant women. Where I work I have seen a lot of pregnant women shopping for either themelf or buying baby clothes for their child that is going to come into their life. Other than that society will always look down on our kind and think/sees us as creepers

Well as you can see and know for yourself, there’s a stark difference between looking and being that guy on the internet that makes comments on a preggo that evoke some sort of sexual entitlement to her. Lol, most of us on this forum won’t do that. But there is worth in calling out those dudes who say, “I want to cum all over your belly,” directly to her without any logical or rational reasoning for such.

(July 8, 2020, 10:11 pm)Avarics

(July 8, 2020, 4:05 pm)TommyDe I would never consider myself a creeper but more of an enthusiast of the pregnant belly and pregnant women. Where I work I have seen a lot of pregnant women shopping for either themelf or buying baby clothes for their child that is going to come into their life. Other than that society will always look down on our kind and think/sees us as creepers

Well as you can see and know for yourself, there’s a stark difference between looking and being that guy on the internet that makes comments on a preggo that evoke some sort of sexual entitlement to her. Lol, most of us on this forum won’t do that. But there is worth in calling out those dudes who say, “I want to cum all over your belly,” directly to her without any logical or rational reasoning for such.

Naturally and without a doubt. I know that some of us or the ones I've interacted with can all agree that we are mostly here for the belly and that's it. Maybe in private chats we are creeps and what not. But if you know yourself well enought to know where you stand is good enough for me