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glowwormkatie (161)
June 9, 2020, 4:19 pm
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June 9, 2020, 4:19 pm by glowwormkatie (161)
There's no such thing as kink-shaming here. We're here for the same reason.
If you force sexual attention on a woman -- meaning attention that wasn't asked for/agreed -- invade her privacy, space, do anything to make her afraid, pressured, otherwise uncomfortable -- then you're a creep. For starters.
Look, but don't touch. Treat strangers with respect. It shouldn't be hard.
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auto_asphyx (990)
June 9, 2020, 11:40 pm
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June 9, 2020, 11:40 pm by auto_asphyx (990)
(June 4, 2020, 9:15 pm)alexgraves "Creep" is entirely dependant on the feelings of the person being creeped on. If you are doing stuff that makes other people uncomfortable when you could reasonably avoid doing those things, thats creepy.
Having a desire is separate from this. One can have creepy desires without being a creep if they do not act on them. Taking video of someone without their consent has potential to be creepy because it's a violation of privacy. If you would feel gross about feeling filmed without your consent, it's probably a good idea to avoid taking videos of people without their consent. Simple as that.
In short, creepiness is about action, not someones desires or fetish. I won't kinkshame anybody for their desires alone. I will definitely tell someone to stop if they repeatedly take actions that violate someone else's consent.
i don't think anyone here is conflating having a fetish/kink/desires with being stalkery/insensitive/creepy (excepting a very small minority of users that are better off ignored).
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alexgraves (148)
June 13, 2020, 5:25 pm
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June 13, 2020, 5:25 pm by alexgraves (148)
(June 9, 2020, 11:40 pm)auto_asphyx (June 4, 2020, 9:15 pm)alexgraves "Creep" is entirely dependant on the feelings of the person being creeped on. If you are doing stuff that makes other people uncomfortable when you could reasonably avoid doing those things, thats creepy.
Having a desire is separate from this. One can have creepy desires without being a creep if they do not act on them. Taking video of someone without their consent has potential to be creepy because it's a violation of privacy. If you would feel gross about feeling filmed without your consent, it's probably a good idea to avoid taking videos of people without their consent. Simple as that.
In short, creepiness is about action, not someones desires or fetish. I won't kinkshame anybody for their desires alone. I will definitely tell someone to stop if they repeatedly take actions that violate someone else's consent.
i don't think anyone here is conflating having a fetish/kink/desires with being stalkery/insensitive/creepy (excepting a very small minority of users that are better off ignored). True, I think most people around here seem pretty decent tbh. But I get the impression that those who *are* acting creepy will hide behind "it's just my fetish" as opposed to changing their behaviour to be more acceptable and I don't like being cover for people who do that.
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auto_asphyx (990)
June 13, 2020, 7:48 pm
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June 13, 2020, 7:48 pm by auto_asphyx (990)
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(June 13, 2020, 5:25 pm)alexgraves (June 9, 2020, 11:40 pm)auto_asphyx (June 4, 2020, 9:15 pm)alexgraves "Creep" is entirely dependant on the feelings of the person being creeped on. If you are doing stuff that makes other people uncomfortable when you could reasonably avoid doing those things, thats creepy.
Having a desire is separate from this. One can have creepy desires without being a creep if they do not act on them. Taking video of someone without their consent has potential to be creepy because it's a violation of privacy. If you would feel gross about feeling filmed without your consent, it's probably a good idea to avoid taking videos of people without their consent. Simple as that.
In short, creepiness is about action, not someones desires or fetish. I won't kinkshame anybody for their desires alone. I will definitely tell someone to stop if they repeatedly take actions that violate someone else's consent.
i don't think anyone here is conflating having a fetish/kink/desires with being stalkery/insensitive/creepy (excepting a very small minority of users that are better off ignored). True, I think most people around here seem pretty decent tbh. But I get the impression that those who *are* acting creepy will hide behind "it's just my fetish" as opposed to changing their behaviour to be more acceptable and I don't like being cover for people who do that.
i concur. most people here seem to be good, decent individuals.
a few people here like to accuse others of "kink shaming" when they get called out on gross, predatory behaviour. it's a deflective, cheap ploy to distract from their own lousy actions and behaviours.
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InflatoPreggo (838)
June 13, 2020, 7:53 pm
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June 13, 2020, 7:53 pm by InflatoPreggo (838)
In general if the individual is worried about coming across as a creeper, chances are that they’re probably not one. Creepers have complete disregard for the person they’re creeping on
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belliesrlovely (3081)
June 14, 2020, 1:23 pm
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June 14, 2020, 1:23 pm by belliesrlovely (3081)
Look, but don't touch. Consume their pics/videos, but never (EVER) engage with them directly (unless they're a sex worker and you have money).
Movies with real pregnant bellies:
https://letterboxd.com/belliesrlovely/list/real-pregnant-bellies/share/O8XqXaBHPipuZmCL/detail
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alexnj (452)
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June 15, 2020, 5:42 pm
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June 15, 2020, 5:42 pm by alexnj (452)
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(June 13, 2020, 7:53 pm)InflatoPreggo In general if the individual is worried about coming across as a creeper, chances are that they’re probably not one. Creepers have complete disregard for the person they’re creeping on Truth.
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tomostrife (16264)
June 19, 2020, 7:11 pm
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June 19, 2020, 7:11 pm by tomostrife (16264)
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This is what creepers look like. Gotta say I admire the fact that she straight calls these mouth breathers out
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Lucifer Morningstar (1244)
June 20, 2020, 9:52 am
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June 20, 2020, 9:52 am by Lucifer Morningstar (1244)
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(June 19, 2020, 7:11 pm)tomostrife This is what creepers look like. Gotta say I admire the fact that she straight calls these mouth breathers out
The age-old nuisance of our fetish, Daniel Demming, is on her blocklist. As much as I like seeing him get flamed on a spit, I hate that so many people all over the internet obsess over commenting on women’s accounts just to try and get something out of it. Bunch of self-absorbed jerks.
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alexnj (452)
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June 20, 2020, 9:22 pm
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June 20, 2020, 9:22 pm by alexnj (452)
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Daniel Demming? Who
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