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To what extent is it okay to tell your sexual partner your fetish?
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True56 (92)
June 7, 2019, 9:46 pm
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June 7, 2019, 9:46 pm by True56 (92)
A few weeks ago I started to meet an Italian girl, who loved to fuck and we both did great, we liked the same kind of things in bed, so I felt ready to tell my fetish. At that time I "half confessed" and she told me that was weird, so I ignored the subject.
What do you think? Should there be a closer relationship when it comes to telling our fetish with pregnant women or directly launching and telling?
Thank you all for your comments. I love how the forum is growing.
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Jennyhume (87)
June 7, 2019, 10:52 pm
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June 7, 2019, 10:52 pm by Jennyhume (87)
It took my bf 4 years to tell me about his. I’m about to pop with number 2. Give it time. If he told me back the I probably wouldn’t be with him.
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ILikePregnancy (198)
June 8, 2019, 5:21 am
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June 8, 2019, 5:21 am by ILikePregnancy (198)
I told my ex a few weeks after we started dating; I was asking her about what she was into and offered up my pregnancy fetish as an example when she was a bit confused. We had known each other for ~8 years before we started dating, so there was a lot more emotional intimacy (I think that's the best way to describe it) in our relationship than having been dating for a few weeks.
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azarafa (518)
June 8, 2019, 8:22 am
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June 8, 2019, 8:22 am by azarafa (518)
I consider myself lucky. I don't remember how I told my wife that I like pregnant girls, she took it without any comments. But nowadays I have asked her several times to put pillow under her shirt and she had no objections, I could even take some photos of her pretending to be pregnant (each time I try to "make her" huge but still it seems we need something more than just a pillow, mayby prosthetic belly or make special on to wear). She even told me once that if it hadn't been do have and she wasn't sick , she could have such big belly for more.
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Fakery (113)
June 8, 2019, 12:53 pm
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June 8, 2019, 12:53 pm by Fakery (113)
I also don't remember specifically when I told my girlfriend-turned-wife but it was definitely early on. It was never anything I was particularly private about.
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Akhenaten (3402)
June 8, 2019, 6:39 pm
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June 8, 2019, 6:39 pm by Akhenaten (3402)
Be careful of a partner who kink-shames you. It's one thing to be like "cool, but it doesn't interest me" -- it's another to be like "ew, you're gross/sick for liking that."
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idk (921)
June 10, 2019, 7:45 am
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June 10, 2019, 7:45 am by idk (921)
I always find a way to casually drop hints or straight up tell the other person early on. I don't have an explicit conversation and "reveal" a secret, I just mention it early on, that way it doesn't become this big huge secret with a lot of weight or whatever. I like that you half confessed! However, don't let ANYONE shame you for anything, ever. If she said "that's weird", sounds like she has some issues of her own where she feels the need to judge other people and make them feel bad. I wouldn't date her man.
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pacan1 (335)
June 10, 2019, 8:55 am
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June 10, 2019, 8:55 am by pacan1 (335)
I agree with @ idk . My first girlfriend didn't have any issue with my fetish and she actually sometimes even teased me with it. But this girl I'm with has found it hard to get used to it. Sure, she has become more or less ok with it, but I still have a feeling that she's grossed off by it and I feel guilty for ever mentioning it or getting her to play along with it...which you shouldn't. It's part of who you are.
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Negan (195)
June 12, 2019, 5:38 pm
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June 12, 2019, 5:38 pm by Negan (195)
My girlfriend took it incredibly well, i'm extremely lucky to have her. she always knew about my fetish somehow, I guess I kinda gave her little hints. We are both very young still, early twenties. But when I told her during sex that "I think it would be hot if you were pregnant." only because she asked what my fantasies are. She laughed and said she knew that already. Now almost every time we have sex she dirty talks about her being pregnant and pushes her belly out for me (she only weighs 87 pounds.) so it looks almost real. she lets me film with my phone and she always asks me if she wants me to have her push out her belly so when I cum, it looks like I came on her pregnant belly. she drives me crazy in the best way. we watch pregnant porn together now. Can only imagine what it will be like when we do have a baby hopefully
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20something-guy (93)
June 17, 2019, 9:20 pm
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June 17, 2019, 9:20 pm by 20something-guy (93)
I told my GF about how I dated my ex while she was pregnant pretty early on, because we talked about ex's once in a while for laughs. That was 10 years ago, still together and things are good.
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