the internet man i want to marry may have a pregnancy fetish

[elliot]

i met this man online who's amazing, but he blocked me for several months. i kept telling people how much i miss him during these months. his friend told me that he wants me to stop talking about how i miss him. i still kept telling people i missed him and one night some i messaged said “alright you miss him”, which i said back to that was “*gets pregnant with him*”. then he started asking me questions about that and i noticed he and someone else who knows the guy i was missing were on a voice call, probably with the guy i was missing. they had to have mentioned me because he added me back the morning after. absolutely insane

that night we got on voice call and he said very weirdly “the reason i added you” but then just ended up saying something normal. he also brought up that he wants a lot of kids later on. its just crazy he added me back after 6 months and hearing i missed him during all those months. did his friend mention the pregnant message and that somehow made him want to add me? could it be that he has a pregnant fetish?

[pongee]

all I can say is be careful where you place your trust, it certainly seems that he would dissapear again if it suited him

[elliot]

all I can say is be careful where you place your trust, it certainly seems that he would dissapear again if it suited him

thank you for the care

[Feunski]

Your description of the events makes you seem like an obsessed stalker. The fact that he blocked you for six months should have been a sign. Given this, saying you want him to get you pregnant doesn't seem unexpected. He probably assumed you meant you want a family.

What did he say the reason he unblocked you was? This whole relationship gives me a bad feeling.

[elliot]

Your description of the events makes you seem like an obsessed stalker. The fact that he blocked you for six months should have been a sign. Given this, saying you want him to get you pregnant doesn't seem unexpected. He probably assumed you meant you want a family.

What did he say the reason he unblocked you was? This whole relationship gives me a bad feeling.

i just wanted to talk him. and a sign to what? well i hope he wants a family then.

he said his friend explained some things regarding the situation. nothing is bad now.

[Akhenaten]

You two are playing some weird game and there is no way you're going to get a healthy relationship out of whatever is going on. I am not placing blame anywhere or calling anyone any names, but whatever situation you two are part of is not even remotely close to how something healthy is supposed to go.

[Stretchedtummy]

You both sound toxic af and really stupid so there is a 99% a pregnancy occurs if you 2 ever meet in person.

[LTKNT101]

The fetish side of me hopes you two meet and he gets you pregnant on the first try. The grounded in reality side of me thinks that you should stop while you are ahead. Based on what others have commented connecting with this guy is likely not going to be what you fantasize it to be. Don’t let the fetish push you into doing something you will regret later.

Whatever happens, best of luck to you mate.

[elliot]

You two are playing some weird game and there is no way you're going to get a healthy relationship out of whatever is going on. I am not placing blame anywhere or calling anyone any names, but whatever situation you two are part of is not even remotely close to how something healthy is supposed to go.

i don’t see how it’s a game. we just had a problem like a lot of relationships do.

[elliot]

You both sound toxic af and really stupid so there is a 99% a pregnancy occurs if you 2 ever meet in person.

but how is having a problem “toxic”. i hope so