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This is not a fetish! (debate)
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bigbumpluvr
Now when I say 'debate' I don't want this to turn into a heated argument to the point the comments go insane. But I feel that this "pregnancy fetish" isn't a fetish at all. Not one bit a fetish is defined as, "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object." And the keyword I want to focus on there is 'abnormal' there is nothing abnormal about pregnancy. Because if there was then as you read this that would mean there is something wrong with your existence and that you're a result of an abnormal phenomenon. I think what we're attracted too, or at least what I'm attracted to is the exotic and glowing look of an expecting mother. The way their bodies shape and how they stand out among the crowd will always draw your attention along with others. 

To those of you who have children I can almost guarantee you that when your woman was expecting and it became very noticeable people around you did one of these things. One, they stared. Two, they pointed. Three, they came over to talk to her and might have touched without permission. Four, the "when are you due?" "Or how many are in there?" Question came up and more than likely your partner became annoyed by that constant question. Or five, people began to treat her much differently because of her "condition." For example when we got my dog a partner (I miss her so much, rip) and when he had finally knocked her up. There were times where we would have to put him in another room so that he would eat. Because what he would do is allow her to eat her food and his and he would just eat the leftovers if there were any. He was very protective over her and I have a picture of him sleeping with her and he would always sleep by her belly. And that is a common thing in the animal kingdom when the predator pray situation is removed. And I feel the same thing applies to humans when our women get pregnant, you notice them a lot more and they stand out.

My first experience that made me more attracted to pregnant and BBW's (to a limit) was I had sex multiple times with my friend when she was pregnant. And when I say pregnant I mean she was so big she didn't waddle but instead she basically swung one foot in front of the other. It was a unique experience having so much woman to please but I still wouldn't call this a fetish because everyone notices a pregnant woman. Heck, other women have admitted to me they feel an attraction to an expectant mother because of her "glow." And as you fathers out there know. When the neighbor, family member or friend has their new baby suddenly your partner misses having a full womb. I personally think this is just a natural thing we experience. There are many men out there who said they've suddenly became more attracted to their wives the bigger she got. Now when you get into things like; vore, inflation, unbirth or whatever else I am forgetting that's when it becomes a fetish. Hell, even women have said they felt more sexy and confident when they were pregnant. I could keep going on about this topic because the human mind fascinates me so let me know your thoughts.
   
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Fuckthisplace
The correct term for this would be "Partialism" - a sexual interest with a focus on a specific part of the body. This can be any part of the body, such as the hair, breasts, or buttocks......or stomach.

Having a fetish means that you cannot at all be sexually satisfied without that specific object that you desire. So if seeing a pregnant woman is the only way you'll orgasm, then it's considered a fetish.
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bigbumpluvr
(July 19, 2019, 12:06 am)evokombat The correct term for this would be "Partialism" - a sexual interest with a focus on a specific part of the body. This can be any part of the body, such as the hair, breasts, or buttocks......or stomach.

Having a fetish means that you cannot at all be sexually satisfied without that specific object that you desire. So if seeing a pregnant woman is the only way you'll orgasm, then it's considered a fetish.
I never knew about that word until now and it makes sense
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Winnie
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Thank There’s many different definitions of the word fetish, some of them use the word obsessive. I haven’t read any that say you can’t orgasm without the object of your fetish, but I would be curious to see where it says that.

Personally I like this definition from Macmillian Dictionary:
“an unusual sexual interest in a particular object or material.”

I think having someone’s sexual interests being called abnormal or unusual can be uncomfortable for some people. I do think it’s a normal thing to be attracted to pregnant women - sex is what caused pregnancy so why should the brain separate the result of sex (pregnancy) from sexual arousal?

I still think we can call it a fetish. There is men on the site who go around spending their time photographing pregnant women in public, there is men on youtube who video them. That degree of commitment to their sexual interests is much deeper than your average interest in say - Hot women in general.

I’m 40 weeks and 3 days pregnant right now and I would have to say that the way I’m being pursued by men on the internet right now is abnormal, lol. I’ve had to block many people who have become overly obsessive, intense or demanding.

Whether or not the fetish is obsessive, I think comes down to the person. And even though some people express their interest in a weird way... we are not all those people. I think it’s ok to use the word fetish, there is no shame in it! When I use it for myself (I have a pregnancy fetish), I just mean I find the pregnant belly really hot. Modern use of the word, at least in my circles, just means that you’re sexually attracted to something very specific. But not limited to that one thing.
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Mike Larry
I forgot the source, but you can fact check this. Some of the earliest forms of "porn" was pregnant porn. Many caveman drawings are actually images of pregnant women. Yup. Even cavemen were so into pregnant chicks that they drew pregnant women on their walls... It's a primal instinct in men to be attracted to fertility, and nothing screams fertility like a pregnancy.
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alexnj
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Before I met my wife,  I prefered pregnant women or women on their period  because of the freedom of not having to worry about pulling out since I'm an insanely heavy cummer and will most certainly cum through a condom.   Plus the quality of the sex is great.  I was 20 before I had sex with someone who wasn't pregnant or on there period.  I used the fact that I was willing to have sex with women who are pregnant or on the rag in high school to my advantage.   The best sex I have ever had is the 4 times when my partners water broke less than 30 seconds after I came.
bigbumpluvr
(July 19, 2019, 2:31 pm)Mike Larry I forgot the source, but you can fact check this. Some of the earliest forms of "porn" was pregnant porn. Many caveman drawings are actually images of pregnant women. Yup. Even cavemen were so into pregnant chicks that they drew pregnant women on their walls... It's a primal instinct in men to be attracted to fertility, and nothing screams fertility like a pregnancy.
Which makes sense, fertility catches everyone's eye man or woman. Sexual or not, that's why women have so many stories of people coming up to them wanting to touch.
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Spambasket
Whether or not it definitively is, it certainly can be a fetish. It's very much possible to fetishize something that's normally attractive to some extent, and I'd say a lot of us on this site do that.
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