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humpbumps
bummer & awkward friend hope she come over our side it's not weird fetish and my wife found out she think it's normal and she got thing for guy's big _____ you know what mean


there is lots more weird feitshes out there gross ones
doubleintegral
(July 2, 2017, 4:04 pm)MrTek Dude! Theres some things you dont tell people. You shouldnt of made it possible for her to find out. That's likebtelling your girlfriend her sister was ur 1st pick. If she tells others your screwed. My advice is: lie! Either tell her you are not into pregnant women or lie and tell her "just kidding i never liked them". She will fill better. I love preggos but no one around me will ever know. If i told anyone id be screwed. If my girlfriend found out my rep would be

Hurt more than that 2 & a half men episode when Rose made that bashing site against him. Trust me sometimes covering things up can save you.

This is really terrible advice.

(July 2, 2017, 3:15 pm)orta03 Like Mikey said, find out what is upsetting her the most. Is the fetish itself, looking at picture of other women sexually, or that you never told her about it? It could be all three.

This is really good advice. Chances are it's 2 and 3. Women don't usually like it when you look at other women, and they really don't like it when you withhold information from them because it creates trust issues.
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Akhenaten
(July 3, 2017, 11:55 pm)Toasty37 I doubt she's really upset about the fetish. She's more upset that you have a fetus her and you are still hiring pregnant models, which is the way you two met. So it's her insecurities getting the best of her. Ignore the other advice cause I can guarantee you her self conscious is telling her that you are trying to replace her. It's not your fault mind you, it's simply your line of work but you're going to have to make some compromises for her in order to keep her happy and yourself happy. Talk it out and reassure her that you are head over heels for her and you get no pleasure out of working with these models. It'll take consistent effort to win her over but the first step is talking then the second is action. Show her that she is the only one you desire and your fetish doesn't run your relationship for her. She's not a girlfriend, she's your wife so you have to make some sort of compromise to move forward and make her happy but talk it out to pin point the exact reason. I'm betting it is the hiring of pregnant models thing if that's how you two really hit it off then that is your red flag my friend. Key moments in relationships like that really hit home with women trust me and best of luck

The OP has only posted once in this forum. Where did you get all this background information?
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Unreg_user
Speaking of OP, we haven't heard from him since he posted this. I'm curious if he was able to work things out.
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doubleintegral
(July 6, 2017, 11:57 am)Akhenaten
(July 3, 2017, 11:55 pm)Toasty37 I doubt she's really upset about the fetish. She's more upset that you have a fetus her and you are still hiring pregnant models, which is the way you two met. So it's her insecurities getting the best of her. Ignore the other advice cause I can guarantee you her self conscious is telling her that you are trying to replace her. It's not your fault mind you, it's simply your line of work but you're going to have to make some compromises for her in order to keep her happy and yourself happy. Talk it out and reassure her that you are head over heels for her and you get no pleasure out of working with these models. It'll take consistent effort to win her over but the first step is talking then the second is action. Show her that she is the only one you desire and your fetish doesn't run your relationship for her. She's not a girlfriend, she's your wife so you have to make some sort of compromise to move forward and make her happy but talk it out to pin point the exact reason. I'm betting it is the hiring of pregnant models thing if that's how you two really hit it off then that is your red flag my friend. Key moments in relationships like that really hit home with women trust me and best of luck

The OP has only posted once in this forum. Where did you get all this background information?

I think he got a couple of people in the thread mixed up.
whargarble
(July 5, 2017, 9:42 am)doubleintegral
(July 2, 2017, 3:15 pm)orta03 Like Mikey said, find out what is upsetting her the most. Is the fetish itself, looking at picture of other women sexually, or that you never told her about it? It could be all three.

This is really good advice. Chances are it's 2 and 3. Women don't usually like it when you look at other women, and they really don't like it when you withhold information from them because it creates trust issues.

seconding the good advice. just clawed my way back from a near-breakup when my partner found out because i left my "bookmark menu of shame" up on screen when i went out . it was 100% the looking at other women (camgirls in particular) that was the problem and turns out she's actually kinda into it
Mongomaniac
Thought about this for a long time.  Even back in the Pre-Demi days when it wasn't talked about. 

This is how I would approach it:  Eventually you will both see a movie scene, or run into a friend of yours/hers, or see a gigantically preggo woman on the beach.
At that point, she is the (forgive me) "Elephant in the Room" lets say one of you says "Whoa, she's huge", maybe the other says "But she looks good"  You can
tell from her reaction how she feels about huge pregnancy.  If you have a good feeling about it, maybe just (playfully, casually, ) say something like
"Don't take this the wrong way, but I think you'd look good like that".  And see where it goes.  (then its all about her and how you'd find her attractive in different states).

Some of my gfs have surprised me and stopped, looked at me full on and said quietly "I think so".

One girl, a smart, brainy adorable cutie jumped me on our first date and while messing around whispered "Lets make a baaaaby.."  and a few moments later, "I'll get
pregnant for you" with a smile.  (We met at a rennaissance faire a lot of my friends worked at.  Did she hear things about me?  I never talked of this openly.  Or did she
see my eyes bug out then the producers petite wife waddled into the show tent?  Who knows,   lots to tell about this dream girl, like the night she pushed her belly out
during lovemaking and adored the attention it got.

Another girl I hung out with (but not dating - RATS) called to chat me after halloween.  "What did you go as??"  I asked "I went as "Pregnant" she said,  causing me
to nearly swallow my tongue.  "What?? What did you do, how did you do that?"  i Stammered.  She explained for a last minute costume she stuffed pillows under her
dress and made herself huge.  "Wish I could have seen that! I think you would look good like that" I said without thinking.  I was surprised by her asnwer.

"Well thank you (astonished)  and she proceeded to babble about how she kind of liked it...

Hope this helped someone.
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Bellyfan27
This happened nearly two years ago. This shouldn’t have been necroed.
AZBellyLover
(March 30, 2019, 1:46 pm)Bellyfan27 This happened nearly two years ago. This shouldn’t have been necroed.

Yeah wtf lol
pregphil
Staff Member
We'll leave it because he put some thought into his response, but as always, please remember to read post/thread dates @Mongomaniac. Thanks!
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