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pregnant22
So my wife found out about how I like pregnant woman. She didn't take it to well. Any advice on how to handle the situation? Has this happen to anyone else?
Mikeyshambles
You got married without telling her? Crazy! After I got over telling the first ever person I told, I've discussed it with any long term sexual partners I've had. Not judging. Just hard to believe you got married without discussing sexual desires that deeply.

First and foremost, I'd try to find out what it is she's actually upset about. Is it the subject matter or is she just upset that you feel that you haven't been able to discuss it with her. If it's the latter, you need to find a way to reassure her that you do trust her and figure out how to explain why you've never told her. If it's the former, try to find out what it is about it that's made her react this way. Maybe she just doesn't understand. Maybe it's because she thinks that that's the only way you can get your rocks off. At worse, it might be because she's concerned about the fact that a baby is involved (unfortunately people can jump to this conclusion).

To sum it up, talk to her. Find out why she's reacted the way she has and go from there.
proteus33
my girl kinda knew because i had hired her to take pictures of her pregnancy then we went from there plus we had know each other for years and she had heard stories about me i am sure nothing bad mind you so when she fell pregnant last year she asked me if i was still hiring pregnant models i said yeah and no i will not be sharing those sets here 1 because i am still with her and 2 if i dso break up with her my state just enacted a law that prohibts you from using pictures of lovers like that with out there say so.
orta03
(July 1, 2017, 6:41 am)pregnant22 So my wife found out about how I like pregnant woman. She didn't take it to well. Any advice on how to handle the situation? Has this happen to anyone else?

Like Mikey said, find out what is upsetting her the most. Is the fetish itself, looking at picture of other women sexually, or that you never told her about it? It could be all three.
MrTek
Dude! Theres some things you dont tell people. You shouldnt of made it possible for her to find out. That's likebtelling your girlfriend her sister was ur 1st pick. If she tells others your screwed. My advice is: lie! Either tell her you are not into pregnant women or lie and tell her "just kidding i never liked them". She will fill better. I love preggos but no one around me will ever know. If i told anyone id be screwed. If my girlfriend found out my rep would be

Hurt more than that 2 & a half men episode when Rose made that bashing site against him. Trust me sometimes covering things up can save you.
JBowman_uk
(July 2, 2017, 4:04 pm)MrTek Dude! Theres some things you dont tell people. You shouldnt of made it possible for her to find out. That's likebtelling your girlfriend her sister was ur 1st pick. If she tells others your screwed. My advice is: lie! Either tell her you are not into pregnant women or lie and tell her "just kidding i never liked them". She will fill better. I love preggos but no one around me will ever know. If i told anyone id be screwed. If my girlfriend found out my rep would be

Hurt more than that 2 & a half men episode when Rose made that bashing site against him. Trust me sometimes covering things up can save you.

I heartily do not recommend this. Do not lie to your wife about this. As others have suggested, talk it through, find out what the issue is.
Liked by livecuriously (Apr 1, 2019), RiddleAugust (Mar 30, 2019), Kayiter (Jul 13, 2017), janaie13 (Jul 6, 2017)
PregnantLovve
If she already found out now, it is too late to try to lie your way out of anything now. Face it, show her, be open. Tell her what it is you find so interesting about it, give her a chance to understand!
Akhenaten
When I told my first serious girlfriend I thought I liked pregnant women (I was just figuring it out), she told me "well, you need to stop." Oh, okay. Not just because of the fetish, but because she didn't want me looking at or thinking about any other women. At all. She had to be the only female in my life. We were engaged but that fell through, and I'm glad because I dodged one hell of a bullet there. For the record, that shit is seriously fucked up. If that's what's bothering her, y'all's problems go much, much deeper than a pregnancy fetish.

If she thinks you're somehow sick for being attracted to a woman doing one of the most uniquely and strikingly female things possible with her body, it may just take some explaining. I don't know about you but for me, some of the attraction is the utter sense of awe. It's sexy.

But if it's just that she can't believe there's this part of your sexual psyche that you didn't share with her... well, I get that! And she's right! You got married without telling her this? Damn. It's not that your partner even needs to share in it with you (mine sure doesn't), but she at least needs to know. It's not even all that damn embarrassing, since society has started to idolize pregnant women by plastering them all over magazine covers and shit.
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(July 2, 2017, 4:04 pm)MrTek Dude! Theres some things you dont tell people. You shouldnt of made it possible for her to find out. That's likebtelling your girlfriend her sister was ur 1st pick. If she tells others your screwed. My advice is: lie! Either tell her you are not into pregnant women or lie and tell her "just kidding i never liked them". She will fill better. I love preggos but no one around me will ever know. If i told anyone id be screwed. If my girlfriend found out my rep would be

Hurt more than that 2 & a half men episode when Rose made that bashing site against him. Trust me sometimes covering things up can save you.

This sounds like bad advice a secondary character would give to a dopey cartoon dad to lend the way to stupid hi-jinks. Skip lies and tell the truth like a man. If you can't trust your wife with secrets the entire relationship is flawed.
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Toasty37
I doubt she's really upset about the fetish. She's more upset that you have a fetus her and you are still hiring pregnant models, which is the way you two met. So it's her insecurities getting the best of her. Ignore the other advice cause I can guarantee you her self conscious is telling her that you are trying to replace her. It's not your fault mind you, it's simply your line of work but you're going to have to make some compromises for her in order to keep her happy and yourself happy. Talk it out and reassure her that you are head over heels for her and you get no pleasure out of working with these models. It'll take consistent effort to win her over but the first step is talking then the second is action. Show her that she is the only one you desire and your fetish doesn't run your relationship for her. She's not a girlfriend, she's your wife so you have to make some sort of compromise to move forward and make her happy but talk it out to pin point the exact reason. I'm betting it is the hiring of pregnant models thing if that's how you two really hit it off then that is your red flag my friend. Key moments in relationships like that really hit home with women trust me and best of luck
Liked by Neo__hec (Apr 4, 2019)

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