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The Dark Side of the Pregnancy Fetish
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doubleintegral
(August 9, 2018, 11:48 pm)jfingers Does anyone here actually have any experience with the psych screening process for surrogacy? I admit to knowing nothing about it, and my naive mind says that someone who simply prefers to be pregnant would be a good candidate. What else would they consider? Her husband's objections? Sure, but he seemed to enjoy her pregnancies as much as she did. Maybe they should have ten kids together. Would the end of the pregnancies trigger a catastrophic depression? Well, maybe, but that's pretty extreme and it hasn't happened in two pregnancies. Is her health unsuitable? Technically, that's a medical issue, not a psychological one, but it could be a disqualifier.

It's been almost a year and the article is unavailable now, so I can't reread to be sure, but last-year-me clearly thought that there was something going on with her mental health. The psych screening process for surrogacy is no joke: the intended parents get interviewed by a psychologist, then the surrogate couple gets interviewed, then both couples get interviewed together at least once or twice, and then the surrogate undergoes her own evaluation separately. It's very thorough, and the whole point of the process is to identify any potential risk factors. In addition to her apparent rough complications the second time around (which may be a medical disqualifier on its own) those complications also triggered some level of depression beyond what could be considered postpartum depression. It's very possible that she felt betrayed by her body because something she wanted to enjoy so much took a very tough physical and emotional toll on her. If any of that comes up during the screening process (and it almost certainly would, even if she tried to hide it) the couple or the agency would probably pass on her because why take the risk? If there are other surrogates available without that kind of history then they're going to be more attractive.

Quote:A woman has to have some kind of psychological quirk to be a surrogate; that is, to want to get pregnant just for money. Why not simply because she likes to be pregnant? Why is this by itself a disqualifier?

It's not. Almost every surrogate, to a number, loves being pregnant. Many of them might have the fetish; several of my wife's surrogate friends do, and in their private Facebook group they all posted nude pictures of themselves pregnant and called each other sexy, hot, "would love to rub that bare bump", etc. But that is not a disqualifier. As I suggested in one of my replies, it's possible that this lady's pregnancy fetish was a symptom of a deeper emotional/psychological problem.
MrTek
the article is still there. It worked for me.

People feel like the woman in there for a few reasons: (according to her) she loved the whole pregnancy thing (everything) an the birth. But not the kids. The kids ruined it. She is scared to tell the husband (poor bastard) cus we know what will happen: they will tell all the fam an she will get hated, bullied an it would spread faster than the plague. Leaving her all alone not wanting to have sex at the fear of hurting others.

An surrogates are awesome. My mom an sister love pregnancy. They act like they won millions during birth. But as far as the acting like us thing: many women are like us but are too scared to show it out of fear. Anyone who acts outside of the norm gets bullied. Singled out. Like the special education kids in school. The women would love to post on IG about it but: they would get comments like (seen myself) "your sexualizing pregnancy? Ur sick!" An more. Ive seen them. Regular moms would be pissed an spam them with comments an messages.

If a woman posted that she gets aroused by pregnancy, aroused when baby moves an gets turned on an cums during movements and birth.. she would be hot but the mob women would rip her to shreads faster than a pitbull eating a toddler.
jfingers
Boy, what an eye-opening discussion. I would think that if ANYONE had the right to sexualize pregnancy, it would be pregnant women. It is well-known that many women get hornier during pregnancy and that many men, especially guys like us, enjoy the hell out of it. Mostly, people keep it to themselves, of course. This is a private matter, but not a shameful one. I never thought of it as a source of criticism.

This is one more reason for me to treat these mob women (and men!) with disdain and dismissal. Who the hell cares what they think! Women should live in a chaste bubble during pregnancy? Crazy... I suppose they think gay people are immoral and public displays of affection are a sin.

And since you all bring it up, how many guys here have been involved with surrogates? Or are surrogates? I envy you all. I can't imagine anything more sexually fulfilling than to have someone to share this desire and to be willing to do it again and again.

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