(January 13, 2020, 8:16 pm)glowwormkatie

(January 13, 2020, 7:52 pm)Pharaoh170 If you are a woman and you post sexy pictures of yourself publicly online, there's a good chance men will leave "creepy" comments on it.  Either they're hoping to get lucky one way or another or they just get off knowing the woman in the photo is going to read their comment.  

You can get upset by the way the world is or you can change your behavior so that it works better for you.  I see a lot of very revealing photos of pregnant women on IG.  If they were my daughters, I would tell them to knock it the fuck off.  

Even the most innocent pictures with a woman raising her shirt to show off the belly: would she do that in public?  In her office?  Then why is it OK to do it on the internet?  There's a little bit of obliviousness going on here.  It's not great to be a creep, but it's also not great to be oblivious to the consequences of your actions in order to get some very superficial attention.

This equates to, "Maybe if you didn't wear such a short skirt, men might not grab your ass."

@glowwormkatie you summed up everything in just one sentence. kudos.

But is he(pharaoh) wrong? Because of the anonymity of the internet, some people feel okay to say and do things they could never get away with in person. Especially, when it comes to dumb, horny guys. As a woman, you have to be mindful of what you post. If you post revealing photos, don't be surprised when you have more than a few male admirers. Especially, stupid ones with dick for brains who will send you inappropriate DMs or unsolicited dick pics. It's unfortunate and I loathe that there are some men stupid enough to do things like that.

Isn't it bad for someone *HERE* to make dummy IG profiles to report people who make idiot comments on IG? We may not like them but we shouldn't be scared to be on social media. The responsibility of the comment belongs to who makes it. But social media comes with idiots. W3 can't stop it. An (no offense) but we are coming into a country where women and girls are "running the world." All they gotta do is lie & say you hurt them & they might go as far as hurting themselves to be convincing. So women & girls are not completely good. I think Jack The Ripper was a woman.

Lastly: expecting people to be smart on social media is unacceptable. Humans are regressing.

^?

The human race is made up of a spectrum of people. If you are sharing yourself with your local community you can expect certain normal behaviour from your neighbours. But the internet is a community of everyone on earth and there is no "normal" social behaviour in this case because humans aren't yet equipped to understand this at a subconscious level. Maybe after more time has passed people will innately understand how the internet acts and won't be surprised when what they think is only being viewed by their local community is in fact being shared to every person on earth.

The more vocal people on this site certainly have admirable opinions, and some less admirable, about social media morality,  but we can't declare that we know best because we're right and they're wrong. I mean, discussing weather to create catfish accounts kind of hits on a point: what if some of these rude commentors also have a hidden agenda that is trying to get these women to take down their content for whatever moral reason that they think is right?

Also, why are we so concerned with random women on social media? Is there not enough content from people who actually want to share their stuff willingly? The main argument I'm hearing is that rude commentors are hurting our chances to get good content from these ladies, but people are couching it in terms of being concerned for the wellbeing of the lady. This seems disingenuous to me. If you are following these accounts and saving all their photos for your own gratification then the only difference between you and the rude commentors is that you keep your mouth shut.

I'll admit that I also have used cognitive dissonance  in my posts relating to my candids. I know it's morally wrong in my opinion to post video and photos of people without their knowledge or consent. I try to limit the impact in various ways but it could still be upsetting to these people were they ever to find out. Everybody on this earth has done things they are not proud of but at the same time everybody believes that they are doing the right thing the majority of the time, in their opinion. I make the assumption that my subjects will not discover they've been photographed and so for them there is very little impact.

The world is a messy place. There is no black and white when it comes to people, but the internet is full of people who will argue that there is.

I just don't know how else to explain to have some decency. This whole debate is moronic at best. If you cant tell the difference between some family girl who just wants to share her journey with some friends and some turbo slut who loves being featured on your Preggobellies_ftw page, then you shouldn't be commenting at all.

(January 13, 2020, 8:24 pm)auto_asphyx

(January 13, 2020, 7:52 pm)Pharaoh170 If you are a woman and you post sexy pictures of yourself publicly online, there's a good chance men will leave "creepy" comments on it.  Either they're hoping to get lucky one way or another or they just get off knowing the woman in the photo is going to read their comment.  

You can get upset by the way the world is or you can change your behavior so that it works better for you.  I see a lot of very revealing photos of pregnant women on IG.  If they were my daughters, I would tell them to knock it the fuck off.  

Even the most innocent pictures with a woman raising her shirt to show off the belly: would she do that in public?  In her office?  Then why is it OK to do it on the internet?  There's a little bit of obliviousness going on here.  It's not great to be a creep, but it's also not great to be oblivious to the consequences of your actions in order to get some very superficial attention.

hmmmm... victim blaming much?

as much as i find women exposing themselves in provocative fashions on social media to be gauche and tacky (esp the IG "influencer/model" types), it's their right/perogative to do so. they're very aware of their actions, as they're taking untold amounts of energy to get just that right shot to edit and upload pictures of "the belly" (btw, it's *their* belly... nice way to dehumanize and objectify women, clod). 

is it all kinda pointless and futile? yes. are they deserving of shitheels leaving stupid remarks on their posts/uploads? NO.

you sound like a puritan. you're on a website that consists of a large amount of said content. why exactly are you here?

I'm here for the same reason you are. I merely said women shouldn't expect shitty comments just because they post pictures. "Look, but keep quiet" is not too much to ask. The conversation should end there.

You get your kicks from quietly watching and pretending not to be a creep. Other people obviously need to talk out loud about their kink in order to get off. These two methods are not compatible. Some people from other cultures may see a woman who is bearing skin or showing off her pregnant form as wanting sexual attention. I'm not condoning it, just making a hypothesis about the motivations for actions.

(January 15, 2020, 6:29 am)Abbegirl . Other people obviously need to talk out loud about their kink in order to get off.

Is that why some guys send unsolicited dick pics?  Do they get off on the exhibition?  I'm genuinely curious because, I don't think even the most sexually open woman is going to like stuff that. It baffles me that some guys do this.

Rather than exhausted ourself by reported those stupid accounts yet they keep making a new one and keep spreading thier stupid comments,
i'd make a reasonably wiser approaches (yes, tried it myself several times to severals accounts in my local community), i DMs those nuts & give them some short but proper educate,
give them a good reasons, and of course by friendly approaches.
And it works. Even not a hundred percent, but at least about 7 of 10 are changing their behaviour.
Step 2 is educate our friends to do the same way, they also do the same thing when they saw a creep, and now we got a "cleaning team".
You post an oppinion here, then he post another one, what's the impact ? NOthing. All we need is an action to containing the virus as a team, as much as we can, with a "proper vaccine".
Blocking & flangging are not effective enough, but educate with reason is.

Tell them who we are :
"Hi, i'm a preggophile since the stone-aged. We had did what you did today, and the impact was bad.
Creepy comments just make them scared and lock down their accounts or deleted their contents.
We can support them to post more just by Liking their posts. Don't need to comment anything.
We're good, but they don't, they scared by our comments like this. Bla bla bla, bla bla bla"

With reason & good approach, enlighten them. We're the Jedy. And this is what Jedy do if want to keep the Jedy Community to survive. Or you'll be the only last Jedy.
Try it, we're the one more senior & concious, give them some teaching is "part of the way to protect ourself".
Or they'll keep growing & spreading like cancer.

I agree with the dude above. Here are some things that I came up with (based on the comments we see): in a comment "cute big round belly, looks like she's about to pop." What is wrong wit that comment (seriously asking here)¿ I'll tell ya my answer: NOT a damn thing why? His comment is honest & telling the truth. Can't hate anyone for telling the truth because he is right. Women don't mind hearing that. There is no mention of dick or cum anywhere in that comment. It is rated G. A woman even said she felt the same way.

We have seen bad comments an that one isnt it an ill let ya in on somethin-> MOST pregnant women feel the same way that the guys do when they make these comments). A woman is the horniest when they are PREGNANT (more so 6 months till birth). It is like an addict thinkin "I gotta have it!" We all should know by now that they are VERY turned on a lot & they just dont want to admit it because the women who don't have kids (as well as those that do): also don't wanna admit it so they bully women for saying they are turned on. If ur fave mom on IG uploaded a vid with the description

"The baby is moving a lot it feels so good! I love when my belly jiggles & stretches from her kicks & squirms! You can hear me moaning too" & if we saw a video of a woman moaning while her big belly went crazy: we would be harder than Thor's hammer! Preg lovers would flock to it like its free $. But we dont see pics or vids like dat because all the women are scared to admit how they feel. They are like us! My dad told me just how they feel & that most women do moan & get turned on when their big. I have seen it before.

If you saw a mom blogger at the end of her vid (maybe last 3 mins) talking about her belly & she said something like: "OMG I'm so huge, this baby is so big. You can see I look like I'm gonna pop! My belly button is poking out too. I love when people comment on my belly. " & "she's kicking! Feels like an alien is trying to come out! *moans* the birth will feel so good! She's gunna stretch my Vag so wide!" We know that video would get more love than idk what.

Yeah we got to watch what we say & do like the guy above. But much like JWs at our door: they might ignore & block us but at least they could take us into consideration most moms think like us. When they are not uploading vids: they could be in their room or on their couch watching their big belly move & rubbing themselves while looking at our comments (its possible).

(Lastly) there's a woman I follow who might get huge again, I hope she uploads another movement vid like her previous 1 (she laid down, pressed on her belly & her belly went CRZY & she commented saying she hopes the baby kicks harder cus she was turned on from it [not kidding]) that's it.