I'm going to start catfishing.

I have more than enough obscure full progressions to start a fake profile myself. I bet these retards will be falling over themselves to dm me and comment. Probably could get a lot of information that way. Everyone's got a Facebook right? Would sure suck for everyone you know to start seeing what dirty shit you say to random pregnant women wouldnt it? I know that shit would fuck with me. Shit works both ways. Peeps are messing with my bread.

@tomostrife seems like a funny idea, but I'd just call them out if they're on here lol. This community already hates the catfishes, but some women might have an issue if you use their pics or videos and we could be back in the same problem again if they found out lol. I just like to slam them for being the idiots that they are here, and it works fine for me.

To all dumbasses who comment on YT, Instagram, or literally anywhere, shut up and enjoy yourselves in private without alerting everyone else to what you are doing.

(January 7, 2020, 10:23 pm)tomostrife I know we're all kind of on the same page talking-wise. But this is the shit I'm talking about. This is today, from a very pregnant girl I'm positive will be shared here.

If there are any lurkers reading, have some decency

Why are they DMing these women?

(January 7, 2020, 11:38 pm)McKormick Why are they DMing these women?

They're turned on and they think they might get some special pics or videos or something. Either way it doesn't make sense. Just seems like stupid people only thinking with their dicks instead of their minds.

(Not blaming anyone here) but I'll start with naming the "guys who make our community look 'bad'": (Start with a question)》does it seem like a smart idea to out those guys¿ think about it: we all keep this site & our *insert word here* a SECRET, what's stopping them from going to the popular news sites, TV stations & popular moms & outing us like Grant Wilson did Oliver Queen in Earth 16? We all know the impact of that. So be nice because we may hate bad folks but we also want this site to stay up.

2: (even though sites don't say this) the expected NORM now is "don't upload anything you're not comfortable with someone downloading or using". YT & IG don't need to tell ya that because it is common sense like "have your seatbelt on when you drive". I'm not blaming the women but they need to know that once you upload something: it WILL BE used or DOWNLOADED by someone else. Get over it. That's life. If they don't like it then they should just share to friends & family. That simple. Unless the woman is a celebrity then oh well.

Say your name is "Sara" & your having ur 1st kid. Your belly pics are on appreciation pages & you dont like it.. cry me a river. You uploaded it. You know what goes on when you signed up. This is our life now. Once that pic or video is out, its there.

As for YT: if the women remove the video, some person will just repost it to their profile & the woman will never know. There's an old twin pregnancy dance video from maybe 2 years ago that we were not allowed to share here & the woman removed it from YT.. guess what?: that video has over 43K views since it was reposted. So the vids the women take down are not totally gone all the time.

Pt 2: how HARD is it to take comments down? Here are the steps: open a new tab or window to view the user's profile(depending on if ur using ohone or computer), click the flag icon, click block user. Then go to your comments page and remove that user's comments. Its that simple. If you don't like the comments you know what to do. I know we are not their target audience but they still need to do this! & guess what: there are always more than 1 target audience in a video.

Lastly: it boils down to: upload it, it is used & downloaded by others - or: share with just family & friends. Pick 1.

(January 8, 2020, 4:55 am)Thechickenlawyer Pt 2: how HARD is it to take comments down? Here are the steps: open a new tab or window to view the user's profile(depending on if ur using ohone or computer), click the flag icon, click block user. Then go to your comments page and remove that user's comments. Its that simple. If you don't like the comments you know what to do. I know we are not their target audience but they still need to do this! & guess what: there are always more than 1 target audience in a video.

Imagine the mental gymnastics you'd have to do to think its the womens fault for being upset over rude comments.

If any of you wanna know what those guys are thinking. Here's the answer.

Simply put @tomostrife lol. Just because you want to share stuff online doesn't mean you deserve or knew you'd get all the criticisms or unwanted attention. Everyone just sit back and enjoy silently, do us all a favor in this case. There's other places for your idiotic comments, like this site! Blaming the preggos who got unneeded remarks for sharing their pregnancies is like blaming a girl who dressed in a flattering way for her rape.

THIS has ALWAYS been a problem with us preggophiles and with the "idea" of some semblance of privacy on the internet! I wish that we, at least, could do something to track and ban those who simply cannot "lurk and leave" without comments... without being noticed! Can we, in preggophilia be REQUIRED to submit our IP addresses for verification so, when some ass-wipe posts disparaging comments they can be tracked and banned? I realize that this is an extreme measure but it happens WAY to often.
Imagine the beautiful pregnant women who DO NOT post pictures simply because they're afraid of them being harassed! We'll never, ever see those folks, will we?

To above: ABSOLUTELY NOT ¡ people would not want to come to sites if they had to do that. The only people who know our addresses (states & cities we live in) are shopping sites. People have fun online because they know the 5O aren't tracking them. If we do it next thing you know every site does it. Then online activity drops lower than ass as the club. We dont know who is on social media & We'd like to keep it that way. Remember back in the day: parents had this Big ASS camera to record vids & a square camera¿ they went to the Ritz store & got stuff made.

I'm not blaimng the women but: once you make that IG or YT account, you will get bullied, unwanted attention & comments. That is just how it is. Its like those medications on commercials with all the side effects. & BTW: people can sign in to YT or IG through incognito mode so they can't be tracked. There's programs to stop you from tracking someone. Its like HS: you know once you walk in, you will be bullied, yu ignore them & dont let them win!

I cant tell you how many times I tell people "don't like the comments? Block & delete!" Simple as that. Why dont they do that? Some women just disable comments. I talked to a friend of my dads (Harvard college professor) & the guy told me "when you make that social media account and post something: you can't stop it from being used or downloaded. The unwanted things are inevitable. You have choices: block & delete people & comments, disable comments or leave social media. " BTW: The USA created social media.

All we can do is encourage good behavior through this thread and destroy the assholes who can't keep their mouths shut. I realize anyone can get bothered by people on social media, but that doesn't mean we take drastic action to combat it. I think that motivating people to keep things civil online in general can help. Remember, no one would leave these pervy comments if we knew who they were under those anonymous usernames.