(April 11, 2020, 1:24 pm)McKormick Most pregnant women want a partner. I agree with @BellyYorke . They may be down for some sex but let that person spend more time around them. I personally knew women like that who claimed they only wanted sex. I got very close with them and towards the end of the pregnancy they burst out in tears saying they just didnt want to be a single mother. I would assume during the pregnancy its all fun and games but as that belly gets bigger and time to give birth approaches reality sets in and they realize whats really going on. They are stuck with a baby someone didnt want. That man is trash. No man should get a woman pregnant and leave her. Ever. But she is the one stuck there with the baby and she is the one realizing that at any point in time one move in sex could trigger her labor and that new friend she has is gone. No. Sorry. Its a terrible idea for the woman and the man. No one benefits. The sex gets old after awhile and feelings can and probably will develop. At that point it all goes wrong and they can only blame themselves.

It's only a terrible idea for the woman. The preggophile gets what he wants out of the arrangement.

While Craigslist's personals section was still alive prior to FOSTA (ugh), I met pregnant women who wanted someone to be there for them. Maybe for sex, maybe not, but they were lonely and usually fascinated that someone was interested in them in their present state.

The idea is sound, if executed properly. Just don't expect it to be wildly successful because of the taboo.

(April 11, 2020, 3:26 pm)LTKNT101

(April 11, 2020, 1:24 pm)McKormick Most pregnant women want a partner. I agree with @BellyYorke . They may be down for some sex but let that person spend more time around them. I personally knew women like that who claimed they only wanted sex. I got very close with them and towards the end of the pregnancy they burst out in tears saying they just didnt want to be a single mother. I would assume during the pregnancy its all fun and games but as that belly gets bigger and time to give birth approaches reality sets in and they realize whats really going on. They are stuck with a baby someone didnt want. That man is trash. No man should get a woman pregnant and leave her. Ever. But she is the one stuck there with the baby and she is the one realizing that at any point in time one move in sex could trigger her labor and that new friend she has is gone. No. Sorry. Its a terrible idea for the woman and the man. No one benefits. The sex gets old after awhile and feelings can and probably will develop. At that point it all goes wrong and they can only blame themselves.

It's only a terrible idea for the woman. The preggophile gets what he wants out of the arrangement.

Not if he falls for her too.

I have gotten close to women as I have said. I have come very close to falling for them. The only thing that stopped me from being their man was that child. And it isnt like I wasnt willing to help out with this child. Its the fact that they were already single mothers a few times over. So this was child number two or three on any given time. I couldnt take care of just one child. I had to take on all of them. I wasnt willing to do that so I had to cut it off. I dont mean stop being around, I mean I just stopped talking to them in any way, shape or form. And as I said I miss those ladies to this day.

(April 11, 2020, 7:09 pm)McKormick

(April 11, 2020, 3:26 pm)LTKNT101

(April 11, 2020, 1:24 pm)McKormick Most pregnant women want a partner. I agree with @BellyYorke . They may be down for some sex but let that person spend more time around them. I personally knew women like that who claimed they only wanted sex. I got very close with them and towards the end of the pregnancy they burst out in tears saying they just didnt want to be a single mother. I would assume during the pregnancy its all fun and games but as that belly gets bigger and time to give birth approaches reality sets in and they realize whats really going on. They are stuck with a baby someone didnt want. That man is trash. No man should get a woman pregnant and leave her. Ever. But she is the one stuck there with the baby and she is the one realizing that at any point in time one move in sex could trigger her labor and that new friend she has is gone. No. Sorry. Its a terrible idea for the woman and the man. No one benefits. The sex gets old after awhile and feelings can and probably will develop. At that point it all goes wrong and they can only blame themselves.

It's only a terrible idea for the woman. The preggophile gets what he wants out of the arrangement.

Not if he falls for her too.

I have gotten close to women as I have said. I have come very close to falling for them. The only thing that stopped me from being their man was that child. And it isnt like I wasnt willing to help out with this child. Its the fact that they were already single mothers a few times over. So this was child number two or three on any given time. I couldnt take care of just one child. I had to take on all of them. I wasnt willing to do that so I had to cut it off. I dont mean stop being around, I mean I just stopped talking to them in any way, shape or form. And as I said I miss those ladies to this day.

 Again, the woman suffers more. She’s the one that got left alone with the kids while you the preggophile got what you wanted from her during the time you were with her and are now free to pursue other knocked up interests. Despite any feelings you may have developed for her (them) you lost nothing by breaking off the relationship(s) This is a very sad situation for pregnant women to be in. Finding themselves suddenly not wanted after giving birth.

If I understand the idea this arrangement would be like a fwb, emotions don't have to be hurt if people agree beforehand the rules of the relationship.

(April 12, 2020, 11:33 am)rbx7p9 If I understand the idea this arrangement would be like a fwb, emotions don't have to be hurt if people agree beforehand the rules of the relationship.

Yeah, everyone's got to be upfront about their expectations. And I think the site/network this would all happen on would be quite clear about what's going on: you get a temporary baby daddy or whatever to get you through the pregnancy, which can for some women feel especially long and lonely. Maybe he's there a bit after the birth too if desired, but don't count on it as that's something else entirely. Or maybe do count on it: maybe that's something you've discussed and agreed upon. Up to the individuals. Again, I did this several times before FOSTA ruined everything. There are pregnant women who would appreciate this, because it brings the whole thing to the surface.

I insist, just one of 10000 pregnant ladies would accept something like this kind of agreement.
Priorities change when you are pregnant, but it seem men are only worried about one thing.

(April 12, 2020, 4:23 pm)BellyYorke I insist, just one of 10000 pregnant ladies would accept something like this kind of agreement.
Priorities change when you are pregnant, but it seem men are only worried about one thing.

But we're not. I never even tried to have sex with any of the pregnant women I met. It's not always about that.