I matched with this cute looking girl on facebook dating and i asked her to go on a date, but she wants to wait till after the baby is born. She is huge and due next week. Also, shes sent me a few snapchats of her and damn is she big. She likes me and i want to hang out with her before the baby is due, but i really don’t know how she feels. I don’t want to push anything too much, but do you guys think there is anyway i can sway her to hang out with me this weekend?

P.S. i plan on going on a date with her after the baby is born regardless of this weekend’s outcome and yes i know a baby would be involved.

I would tread carefully,
She’s due any day now so her focus is on her child, just take it easy.

Maybe she fears going on the date because she feels you won't like how she looks until after having the baby, first impressions and all that. So just reassure her that you don't mind how she looks 1 week from popping. And that you're ok having a laid back first date of just hanging at her place and talking (or something similar, maybe somewhere nearby). Because at 39 weeks I doubt she wants to do much or go anywhere.

But after offering those options and she still declines, I say just leave it, like the other commenter said, she probably just wants to focus on the baby coming and getting everything ready and worrying about going into labor at any second.

She's probably self-conscious about her body right now -- a lot of pregnant women are. And even if you tell her you're into pregnant women to make her feel better, that doesn't always help (and can sometimes backfire)...

Could offer to help with chores around the house or cooking or shopping, etc. doing other things that are difficult for her to do. Maybe foot massage or lower back rubs that are sure to be sore. Just make it clear you are not interested in anything sexual (for obvious reasons) and just say you are really into her and just want to help her out to show you care? Single mothers have it hard and she could probably use some help even if she has family helping too.

Be careful about it and don’t be too pushy, but this is what I would do.

I would make up an excuse about trying to hang before the baby comes because you know she’ll be even more busy once she has a newborn. Make it seem like if you don’t hang now, you’ll probably have to wait a while before you can finally hang

(November 14, 2019, 3:49 am)Preggolove94 I would tread carefully,
She’s due any day now so her focus is on her child, just take it easy.

Yeah, but after the kid is born do you still wanna date her? And be that kid's step-dad? Or are you just looking to get some? If the latter, I think you got to double down to make it happen.

Any updates yet OP?

Yeah, craziest shit happened. Turns out she just didn't want to dress up and go in public so i came over to her apartment and we hung out on Saturday. She had to go get some shit done during the day so i just tagged along. Eventually we got more intimate and i gave her a back rub. I was too nervous to ask her to give her a belly rub lmao though i did get to feel it, but she did get horny and we had sex. I went home on sunday and she had the baby early tuesday morning. Best thing to ever happen to me so far lol. We are gonna go on an actual date when she has the time cause shes actually really cool.

Some friendly advice. USE FACEBOOK DATING, it has soooo many pregnant single women on it it’s ridiculous. Also, dont come off as creepy. Hold conversations with them and you’ll be golden.

can you please describe her? Were her nipples huge and dark brown?