Well it's over, the only thing left to say is that the girl I fell in love with, is now with someone else and now she is expecting. she has been my friend for 4 years. older than me. our paths in life their not the same, that´s why we have to move on. also this is the reason why, i can´t have a life with her, or be her boyfriend

it is like a friendship that you never notice when you feeling something for the other person until it is too late.

i´m happy for her but it feels weird. i´m not suffering, drinking alcohol or something worse.
i know there are more girls out there, date with other girls is a great solution to this. but i feel weird (i don´t know how to explain it)
do you have an advice? for what i have seen, there are great tips coming from you guys!

Best thing is to move on. Don't dwell to much on it. Easier said than done I know. It can be pretty tough to see someone you cared about deeply with another man. That's why it's better to cut ties with women you have feelings for than to engage in a "friendship". Take some time off to heal, don't contact or talk to her and then meet someone new.

Yes, man, you´re so right. move forward is the best option, i'll do that. time will heal it.

Do like Taylor swift & make a catchy toon. Once someone is swifted then well youll see what happens. It means a person makes a song about someone they were with.

I always cut contact with women I have/had feelings for but couldn't manage a relationship with. It solves this problem completely.

Let her go move on, get A new haircut or some new clothes. Grow a beard or shave one off she is moving on you should to. Join a club or something social you don't have to get right back in the saddle but don't cut yourself off.

(April 7, 2018, 2:57 am)MrTek Do like Taylor swift & make a catchy toon. Once someone is swifted then well youll see what happens. It means a person makes a song about someone they were with.

haha hey i don´t sing, but i get it! swifted lol. i do that with all my fails, trust me lol

(April 7, 2018, 10:12 am)Akhenaten I always cut contact with women I have/had feelings for but couldn't manage a relationship with. It solves this problem completely.

indeed. it is the best alternative, like Orta says. Time will heal those memories... yes, and better experiences are coming.

(April 7, 2018, 5:10 pm)gdog Let her go move on, get A new haircut or some new clothes. Grow a beard or shave one off she is moving on you should to. Join a club or something social you don't have to get right back in the saddle but don't cut yourself off.

yeah! Can't grow a beard How i wish... but Trying new things and break the routine definitely can do it!