(April 13, 2019, 7:48 pm)preggoluvr4286 While we're on the subject of attractiveness - and even though I didn't want to do this anyway - I am showing a picture of my actual face.  I'm wondering if I fit along the lines of attractiveness or atrociousness.  What do y'all think?

I feel like you'd come off strong just having a casual conversation with a pregnant woman. I think asking to touch her belly would probably put the woman in a really weirded out / uncomfortable place.

I'm a guy so I don't have a lady perspective, but you have a "wanting this too much" look about ya.

I'd say just glance and admire from a distance for everyone's sake.

(April 13, 2019, 7:48 pm)preggoluvr4286 While we're on the subject of attractiveness - and even though I didn't want to do this anyway - I am showing a picture of my actual face.  I'm wondering if I fit along the lines of attractiveness or atrociousness.  What do y'all think?

I would highly advise that you remove this IMMEDIATELY. You've shared some stuff in this community that could prove problematic for you if things ever got legal. Please be smarter than this. You may not recognize it, but you're a type of sexual predator, in a way. For the safety of women and for your own safety, you need to stop pursuing women in the manner you have been doing. It's totally OK to look at them, even leer at them, but anything more -- anything -- is crossing a line, and you must never do it again. But regardless, don't share photos of yourself or any more personal details!

Yeah, be careful not to share too much personal info online. To answer your question, I would say you have about average attractiveness for a man. You have good facial features though. I think loosing some weight and building a little muscle mass will greatly increase your overall attractiveness.

(April 14, 2019, 12:25 am)Akhenaten

(April 13, 2019, 7:48 pm)preggoluvr4286 While we're on the subject of attractiveness - and even though I didn't want to do this anyway - I am showing a picture of my actual face.  I'm wondering if I fit along the lines of attractiveness or atrociousness.  What do y'all think?

I would highly advise that you remove this IMMEDIATELY. You've shared some stuff in this community that could prove problematic for you if things ever got legal. Please be smarter than this. You may not recognize it, but you're a type of sexual predator, in a way. For the safety of women and for your own safety, you need to stop pursuing women in the manner you have been doing. It's totally OK to look at them, even leer at them, but anything more -- anything -- is crossing a line, and you must never do it again. But regardless, don't share photos of yourself or any more personal details!

Removed.

I guess what I'm going to have to do is try NoFap and just hope for the best. Outside of porn and erotica, I'm not going to be able to indulge in my fetish so why even bother to be here or even try? I wish each and every one of you lots of luck and I hope that no one has the same experiences I've had in trying to indulge. Those are experiences I would not wish on anyone.

(I think it relates to this) Why do moms (mostly moms) start bitchin if a mom says (like us) she is aroused/turned on from being big & feels the same when the baby moves (an feels turned on during birth)? Theres a girl I follow (21) who loves being pregnant & gets aroused when she's huge & when her belly moves. She has videos where she moaned & it was HoT! But 1 mom said "why would you be turned on by this?" An why would moms think it is a bad thing to be turned on by this? I bet most women feel that way but don't say it. I've seen some belly movement vids where a woman uses hot tags & even says she wishes the baby was more active.

But I think talking to them should be something they need to adapt to. You cant isolate (be mean to or dislike) people like us forever. Eventually they will have to tolerate us & the touching of their bellies. Think of it like racism: whites till this day don't like blacks, why? Who knows.. but black people like me are here to stay & are not going anywhere. So women need to suck it up and let us do things of we are nice. Its not like we're gunna punch their bellies. The sooner they let us in the sooner we will do what we want an leave. Its not like we're grabbing their privates & slapping their butts. This aint football

(April 14, 2019, 5:24 pm)Thechickenlawyer (I think it relates to this) Why do moms (mostly moms) start bitchin if a mom says (like us) she is aroused/turned on from being big & feels the same when the baby moves (an feels turned on during birth)? Theres a girl I follow (21) who loves being pregnant & gets aroused when she's huge & when her belly moves. She has videos where she moaned & it was HoT! But 1 mom said "why would you be turned on by this?" An why would moms think it is a bad thing to be turned on by this? I bet most women feel that way but don't say it. I've seen some belly movement vids where a woman uses hot tags & even says she wishes the baby was more active.

Some people do see pregnancy (and the pregnancy fetish) as being about the baby, not the mother; so when they see a mom moaning while her baby is kicking, they think that she is getting off from the baby and immediately connect it to pedophilia.

Quote:But I think talking to them should be something they need to adapt to. You cant isolate (be mean to or dislike) people like us forever. Eventually they will have to tolerate us & the touching of their bellies. Think of it like racism: whites till this day don't like blacks, why? Who knows.. but black people like me are here to stay & are not going anywhere. So women need to suck it up and let us do things of we are nice. Its not like we're gunna punch their bellies. The sooner they let us in the sooner we will do what we want an leave. Its not like we're grabbing their privates & slapping their butts. This aint football

Yes, because pregnant bellies are obviously public property for everyone to enjoy. /s

If someone doesn't want to be touched, then don't touch them; it's that fucking easy. Get out of here with this incel shit.

(April 14, 2019, 3:56 pm)preggoluvr4286 I guess what I'm going to have to do is try NoFap and just hope for the best. Outside of porn and erotica, I'm not going to be able to indulge in my fetish so why even bother to be here or even try? I wish each and every one of you lots of luck and I hope that no one has the same experiences I've had in trying to indulge. Those are experiences I would not wish on anyone.

It's not a matter of just hoping for the best. You need to work towards it... I wish you the best of luck & effort.

It's a fetish, but you've made it your entire being and the meaning of your existence. If you had a mermaid fetish that would be fine, but you couldn't spend all your time sadly jerking off at aquariums. It's become an addition, and that's when things can spiral out of control.

I made my initial observation of your picture, then I went and looked at your posts and threads. One thing I saw was that you were seeing a psychiatrist and on a CBD regimen, it seems like the CBD isn't doing much... I think CBD might help with some things, but I think it might be thought of as too much of a cure all. I've struggled with depression and have tried quite a few medications... I think cymbalta might be one to ask about, maybe work up to a 180-240 dose. It can help with general fixations & depression and one of its side effects is that it can decrease libido, so the combination might be a good chance to really clear your head and reset your sex drive / obsessions. I'm not a professional and my observations are anecdotal.

(April 14, 2019, 5:24 pm)Thechickenlawyer But I think talking to them should be something they need to adapt to. You cant isolate (be mean to or dislike) people like us forever. Eventually they will have to tolerate us & the touching of their bellies. Think of it like racism: whites till this day don't like blacks, why? Who knows.. but black people like me are here to stay & are not going anywhere. So women need to suck it up and let us do things of we are nice. Its not like we're gunna punch their bellies. The sooner they let us in the sooner we will do what we want an leave. Its not like we're grabbing their privates & slapping their butts. This aint football

There must be a rat in your pocket. You can keep that "people like us" shit to yourself.

If you're forcing a conversation and think you're owed belly touches, that's the opposite of being nice... therefore by your own rules, you lost your privileges. Sorry. You don't get to set the bar for nice. How nice and for how long isn't up to you.

This bad take is so bad that I'm hoping you're just a troll.

Yeah this is getting into incel territory for sure. This ain't the community for that -- not by a longshot.

Look man, you don't have to give up your fetish or stop jerking off. I jerk off once or twice every day. It feels great. And I usually do it to pregnant pics or vids because that's my jam. And that's the whole story there, no touching strangers' bellies necessary. Don't all-or-nothing this, you know?

Almost positive thechickenlawyer is MrTek with a new account