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faced0wn (201)
November 16, 2020, 8:15 am
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November 16, 2020, 8:15 am by faced0wn (201)
Hey guys,
I’ve had a near obsession with pregnant women since I was 13 or 14, and I always perceived it as a separate reality from my real life. I’m happily married to a woman I love dearly and have a great sex life with. My love of her body and sex with her has always been separate from my fetish. Well, we just found out she’s expecting. After a roller coaster of emotions, I’m settling in as very excited for us to be parents, to be a better man and great father.
But I am struggling with the extreme increase with my sex drive for her. I want to see every change in her body and crave sex with her at a fervent level. She is NOT on the same level, obviously, but I’ve tried my best to explain to her how I feel while not overwhelming her.
I need advice on how to handle this clash of my two worlds. Does it get easier to accept I won’t always get to obsess over her body, or do I need to find new ways to overcome my emotions? All help is appreciated.
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TommyDe (255)
November 16, 2020, 4:11 pm
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November 16, 2020, 4:11 pm by TommyDe (255)
I had a feeling that this was going to happen one day. I’ve always had the thought about this happening to either me or someone else. I’m probably not your guy for this but the only thing that I can suggest is that you can try to repress it in her first trimester. Slowly let it out in the second then full blown in the last trimester. Try to let her make the first sexual moves on you then you just respond. This might be the safe thing but again I’m not the right person who can help you with this. I’ve never planned something like this far ahead.
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Feunski (351)
November 16, 2020, 5:21 pm
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November 16, 2020, 5:21 pm by Feunski (351)
I would suggest not repressing your emotions. Continuing to talk with her about how her pregnancy makes you feel is the best option. The two of you are married and love each other, she should be willing to try and understand you. Just make sure that she feels like you are respecting her boundries. I'm sure she at least appreciates the fact that you are attracted to her body now. See if she'll be willing to have her picture taken every week of her bare stomach, if tracking her progress is such a big turn on. Pregnant women often get self concious about their bodies and might feel like their partner is turned off by it. Of course, she most likely wants you to be happy too. Just be aware that hormones can either increase or suppress her sex drive.
Maybe you can try meditation and breathing exercises to calm down if you can't get a sexual elease for whatever reason. This is just a sexual fetish, not a representation of who you are. I'm not married, so I can't tell you if things get easier.
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Theguyinahat (180)
November 16, 2020, 5:49 pm
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November 16, 2020, 5:49 pm by Theguyinahat (180)
Congrats on expecting!
Yeah i would share how you feel. Shes your wife and your married plus may help her feel sexy amd desired still
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faced0wn (201)
November 16, 2020, 7:21 pm
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November 16, 2020, 7:21 pm by faced0wn (201)
Thanks for all the replies. We’ve dived head first into research, and I’ve found that she is going to feel a lot better physically and emotionally in the 2nd trimester, so I’m going to set that as a goal to try and meet a few of my wants (photos, videos if she lets me). We always had a healthy and active sex life, so I’m thinking I’ll get doses of that once she isn’t nauseous all the time. We tried having sex yesterday morning and she started to feel sick as soon as I entered so I had to play it cool. But man, watching her nipples getting darker and listening to her talk about what’s going to happen to her body are touching deep cerebral parts of my brain.
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paniniX (94)
November 17, 2020, 12:14 am
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November 17, 2020, 12:14 am by paniniX (94)
As long as you communicate clearly with each other, this could be a great time in your marriage. Sometimes women can undergo an increase in sex drive during pregnancy, and I'm sure she'd appreciate the attention. As long as you keep reality in mind, things should be fine.
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Oath2myQuickQueen (6)
November 17, 2020, 5:26 am
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November 17, 2020, 5:26 am by Oath2myQuickQueen (6)
Simply put, I'd try and let your passions grow WITH her. It might seem like a dream come true for you, but she's going through a whirlwind of changes. Respect that and it'll help balance her. Also, try to make it fun for her too. You think she's sexy as fuck, make her FEEL it!
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ftw9382 (117)
November 17, 2020, 8:45 am
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November 17, 2020, 8:45 am by ftw9382 (117)
Facedwon take it slow and think things through theres a lot going on but you have time. Setting expectations is hard bc sometimes you do not meet them and then you beat yourself up or blame her. Take it slow as much as possible.
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faced0wn (201)
November 17, 2020, 4:02 pm
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November 17, 2020, 4:02 pm by faced0wn (201)
This is all great advice, I appreciate it. I will continue to update this thread as things progress.
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alexnj (452)
November 18, 2020, 8:37 am
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November 18, 2020, 8:37 am by alexnj (452)
Congrats
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