Please God, let me meet her. All I want to is to find that perfect girl I know exists. She’s sweet and shy and my age and likes all the things I do, perhaps even is on this site itself. The girl who won’t secretly think I’m a loser, the girl I can cuddle with even if only possible online and spent nights talking to and laughing and sharing happiness. Someone who can reciprocate the love I put in, the girl who I can make feel safe and secure unconditionally and can fill this gaping, empty void in my heart.Please, just let me find this person. I’ll change everything about me if that’s what it takes Please, I just can’t take the loneliness anymore.

lmao this place is a complete sausagefest apart from the occasional camgirl

Penoman, read/listen to 'The Game' by Neil Strauss. Then read 'Rules of the Game'. Its a how to get girls guide for dudes who haven't even held a girls hand.

This is a fetish site. You're not going to find a relationship without either paying for it or being catfished. I suggest going to an actual site that's dedicated to finding relationships. There's too many to list off, so your own research is advised.

Maybe don't search for a soulmate on a website designed to satisfy a specific kink. If you click with someone, regardless of kink, then you click with them.

Just work on being the best version of yourself and put yourself out there. For instance, if you want to be a parent and a provider one day, get your ducks in a row with work. Make sure you can actually provide for a family. Let everything happen in its time. Women don't like desperation. It's unnerving. Women want what many do - someone to like (and eventually love) them for them VS someone trying to put a fantasy girls face on their body.

Focus on yourself, not women. You want a woman that has certain qualities, yet what do you have to offer? You sounding romantically and sexually thirsty doesn't speak volumes about you. You should be feeling strong and happy and there's no good reason to feel frustrated and sad like that long-term, you need to sort it out.

Build up yourself, do things you love and both men and women will start noticing you.

Yeah to sum up the good advice that's already been dispensed here:

1. If possible, try not to focus so much on "the search." It already takes forever, but ruminating on it makes it that much more miserable. And with the pandemic on, your chances of finding anyone within the next 6-12 months are probably tanked because the dating pool has become stagnant.
   
2. DISCLAIMER: I'm a feminist and I hate making broad generalizations, but for our purposes here, I'm going to be terribly blunt. Women can indeed smell desperation/"thirst" and they will cross the street to avoid it, metaphorically-speaking. I know it might seem like a good idea to put yourself out there as willing to be whatever a woman wants, but I haven't met any women who actually want that from a partner (except for Dommes, and trust me I don't think you want to get into that -- it's usually just emotional abuse). They want you to love yourself and be confident. And to be clear, that's not the same as machismo and toxic masculinity (though hey, some stupid women like that, too, which boggles my mind and smacks of daddy issues).
   
3. This is a fetish site, so you aren't going to find a relationship here. Try OkCupid, Bumble, Hinge, Tinder, Plenty of Fish, Match, eHarmony... one of those might eventually connect you with someone nice. Maybe.
   

Though maybe you were just calling out for help. The pandemic has absolutely destroyed a lot of peoples' social lives, and the loneliness is really hard to cope with. I have a partner and even I still feel lonely sometimes. And with "the holidays" coming up, when everyone wants to snuggle with their boo and everything, I'm sure the pain is being amplified. I'm really sorry you're in this situation right now and I wish you the best. But please know that finding a partner, even under the best of circumstances, is often extremely difficult; it requires a lot of time and energy, and frankly it becomes a fucking chore. And if you have standards, well shit, it's going to be that much worse. So set your sights on enjoying spending time with yourself for the foreseeable future, making any improvements you might want to make while you have the time.

This looks like a manifesto.

This should become a daring sight, hook up the fetish seekers for this fetish. I would have joined. Just hard to be real when we’re all hiding behind fake names! Female been pregnant would love to be impregnated again! Hoping my boo sneaks a sperm past my defended before he gets snipped ?